FONDL

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  Why do you see so many cops in clubs?

  The clubs I go to regularly have uniformed cops dropping in all the time, and they seem to know everyone. Are they there just for fun? Or to collect money? Do...
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  Do you ever get a massage?

  I've mentioned massage on several other threads here. I'm curious to know how many of you have had any experience with massages of any kind? Personally I'm getting to the point where...
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  Fantasies

  Most of us seem to agree that fantasy is a part of the strip club experience and a big part of the attraction for some. But I got to thinking, isn't that true...
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  Money

  Seems like every time we talk about money we get some real differences of opinion here. I think you can tell an awful lot about a person from their attitudes about money. ...
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  Unusual attractions

  I used to go to a club outside of Morgantown, WV, that had a couple of hot tubs in a private room. For $150 (later raised to $250) they'd loan you and a...
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  Yoda
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  Best boonies area

  Seems like almost all the good (and bad) clubs that we talk about are in metro areas. I've run into some real gems out in the boonies. Two come to mind: Pleasure...
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  What's the worst city?

  What's the worst city for strip clubbing? Are there any major cities that don't have any clubs at all? Or that only have bikini bars with no contact? Last time I...
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  Best book titles

  My favorite is "The Scorless Thai" by Robert Block. It features a guy from Thailand who can't get laid. Honest....
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  Quick, where's my shotgun?

  I'm looking out the window (about 4 pm) and three full-grown deer just went jogging across my front yard. Hey, I live in a well-developed suburb, I'm not out in the country. ...
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  Good books

  Totally off topic but I wanted to pass along a book (actually books) recommendation to Chitown and possibly others here. I read a lot, typically about 3 books a week, mostly novels that...
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  Low contact clubs

  I've been to a lot of places and read a lot of reviews of places that either don't have any private dances or the dances are so lame that no one buys them, and...
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  Do many dancers read TUSCL reviews?

  I don't think I've ever run across a dancer who had ever heard of this site. I used to ask once in awhile if they ever read reviews of their clubs but stopped...
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  AbbieNormal
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  Does more privacy equal higher contact?

  The answer seems obvious but I'm not sure that's been my experience. I've been to clubs where the LD's are done in total privacy in a little booth, I've been to clubs where...
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  Yoda
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  What are the odds?

  I just noticed something very curious. When I signed on this morning, the top dozen topics or so were all by RL or davids and the last post on each topic were all...
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  Yoda
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  Happy Veterans' Day

  Since this is Veterans' Day and I'm a veteran, I'd like to applaud the girls who are really nice to the veterans among us, especially to the disabled guys I've seen in clubs. ...
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  Dancer or stripper?

  I've recently discovered that I don't use those two terms interchangably. To me a dancer is a girl who happens to be dancing for a variety of reasons - money, fun, laughs, curiousity,...
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  Does anyone else have a long-term relationship ...

  Just curious, does anyone else besides me have or have had a long-term relationship with a girl who you met in a strip club? If so, can you describe it? What special...
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  casualguy
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  Classifying clubs and dancers

  The more I read this board, the more convinced I am that many of our disagreements result from our different perspectives resulting from going to different clubs and meeting different girls. In the...
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  What does a club have to have to be included on TUSCL?

  This is sort of a continuation of a couple of other threads where I raised this question previously. But I'm curious, why are some places allowed to be reviewed and others aren't? ...
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  founder
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  What other x-rated activities do you regularly engage in?

  Just curious, but I'm wondering how many people here also occasionally hire hookers or go to massage parlors or whatever. Are strip clubs a part of a larger program xxx for you or...
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  Do you act differently depending on where you are?

  I've noticed over the years that I tend to act differently depending on whether I'm in a club where I expect to return or whether it's a one night stand as I'm passing through...
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  AbbieNormal
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  The end of an era?

  About 6 months ago I told my latest fav that she was my last dancer, that when she quit I would too. I said that because: (1) I don't think I could ever...
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  Baltimore's Gold Club

  I've been having a running debate on Baltimore's Gold Club's web site. I claim the place is grossly overpriced while everyone else (who I think all work there) tells me I'm nuts. ...
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  Survivors

  If I had to describe my ATF in one word, I'd say she is a survivor. She has been largely on her own for most of her life. She was exposed to...
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  Other activities

  Are there any other activities that directly compete for your strip club $$$, where you consciously think, let's see, I have $200 to spend, should I go to my favorite strip club or should...
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  Front or back?

  When I first started getting lap dances, it seemed like the girl always faced me during the dance. Now it seems like they all want to face away from me (maybe I've gotten...
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  lesbians

  Ladies, please don't take any offense because none is intended. I just wanted to share something that happened to me some time ago. There was this very attractive dancer who I got...
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  Yoda
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  What is "scamming" anyway?

  My dictionary defines "scam" as "a fraudulant scheme, especially for making money quickly." Do very many dancers routinely do that? Not in my experience. But I've know of several dancers who...
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  Disgruntled dancers

  Tiffany's post about having fun got me to thinking. Maybe it's just me, but it seems that I've been hearing a lot more complaints from dancers than I used to - management treating...
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  How to get scammed

  After listing my guidelines on how not to get scammed, it occurred to me that some of you like getting scammed because it reinforces you're preconceived notions that all strippers are scam artists. ...
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  How to keep from getting scammed.

  You experiencced guys don't need to read this because you already know how. Somewhere on this board I read where Chitown Lawyer said he had never been scammed in a strip club. ...
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  What wrong with some of these reviewers?

  I get so annoyed reading reviews where guys give a nice place a bad rating because they sat in a corner and none of the girls approached them for a private dance. What,...
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  It never occurred to me before

  I was thinking pleasant thoughts about my ATF's the other day, especially the three who have a special place in my heart. And for not the first time I was reflecting on how...
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  the Block in Baltimore

  Years ago it seems like every city had someting similar to Boston's Combat Zone or NY's Times Square. In fact that's what all strip clubs were like, that's basically all there was. ...
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  My do-not-read list

  As some of you probably know, I maintain a mental list of people whose posts and topics I ignore. Currently RL and davids comprise my list. In case any of you other...
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  How many strip clubs are there anyway?

  I've driven by a bunch of little rural strip clubs that have never been reviewed and aren't on the TUSCL list. I think there are a lot of little minority clubs in inner...
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  Are strip clubs increasing in number?

  I know a lot of clubs that have closed temporarily to remodel within the last 5 years or so, usually in an effort to move more upscale (and raise prices.) But I only...
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  Biggest threat to strip clubs ever?

  Look for a lot of strip clubs to close soon, even if they aren't doing anything illegal. Local governmetns now have a new weapon at their disposal. I'm not a lawyer (thank...
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  Stripper shit - update

  A couple months ago I wrote about some typical stripper shit when my fav suggested we get together for lunch outside the club, then never called to confirm it. So I thought I'd...
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  Extras clubs

  I'll admit that I'm pretty niave about some stuff, like extras in clubs. I don't go looking for it and when I run into it I'm always surprised. I only know of...
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  Is there a link between strip clubs and prostitution?

  Another post reminded me of something that happened several years ago. I went to see a dancer who I knew fairly well and she was all upset. It seems that one of...
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  What type of relationship - II

  We had a discussion about what type of relationship we prefer, cooperative or confrontational, but I guess it got deleted. But I had a thought that I wanted to share on this topic....
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  casualguy
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  Do you agree with this or not?

  "Q. Do most women think it's cheating when their SO goes to a strip club? "A. ... On the one hand we can understand that watching naked women dance is a way for you to...
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  How do the new girls learn?

  I've often wondered, how do new girls learn how to give lap dances? Do any places actually teach their girls? Or do they just learn by watching the other girls? Some...
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  Dain
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  Do you prefer the thrill of the unknown or a guaranteed good time?

  Another thread got me to thinking about whether it's more fun to go to a place that I know or to try something new. I usually go to the same place to see...
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  What type of SC relationship do you prefer?

  Seems to me that in strip clubs (and maybe alot of other places too) relationships often tend toward one of two extremes: adversarial and cooperative. In the adversarial relationship each party tries to...
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  How important is mileage to you?

  Which club would you rather hang out in? The club that has really high mileage including extras but the girls don't really appeal to you all that much, or a medium contact club...
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  Do you care how much she weighs?

  As many of you probably know, Yoda and I have been having discusions about the importance of a dancer's looks, which to me includes things like weight and fitness. He obviously thinks it's...
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