Front or back?
When I first started getting lap dances, it seemed like the girl always faced me during the dance. Now it seems like they all want to face away from me (maybe I've gotten uglier or bad breath?) at least part of the time and I don't like that as well, I prefer to look at the girl's face and front, that's where the goodies are. Has anyone else noticed this? Which do you prefer?
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I just don't want us as customers to act as if we set the rules. If we do, it will become a free for all, extras all around, and frankly, the clubs here would be closed for that. Also, if I wanted "anything goes", those girls are available for a phone call. Thats not my thing, but I do enjoy a good strip club where there are limits (even if not ALWAYS enforced by the club or the dancer).
I do understand there are strip clubs where groping is the norm, and they are not necessarily cat houses either. Its a finer line to walk, but it can be done if management puts bouncers all over the club. I am not much for that either.
I had 2 awesome dances last night with an absolute wonder...in this club, they lapdance with bottoms OFF...i tried to let go to see if it would happen, but no cigar. And believe me, if it was gonna happen it would have been with this fine piece...
On the subject of getting off during a lap dance, I don't think I've ever cum in my pants during a dance. Now, in clubs where they offer extra's that's a different story but in those cases, my Willie's been freed from the confines of my pants it's dancer beware regarding the mess. Am I in the minority? Are most of you guys able to get off in your pants during lap dances?
I have been told that silk pajama bottoms with spandex underwear works well, too, but have not yet tried it. You might want to give these a "test drive" at home under a blacklight before going public.
If it is not something like that, and she is distant, mechanical, move on. Now. Cut the dance short to make the point. None of us desire this kind of behavior. Not even the other dancers, I suspect. It kills their club and their $$$. Acting is a valuable asset for this profession. If a girl cant act, she should find a job elsewhere.
I don't usually "grope" unless invited, and I know this is a turn off for the dancers. Guys should stop this behavior. It would go better for all of us.
Also, the grindage needs to be gentle. I don't like carpet burn on my member. Makes for a bad week.
I like the mix, but the back is getting a bad rap here. I like nice backs, they can be sexy. I like being able to reach around front while I'm looking at the back, but a nice back and neck shouldn't be underestimated for erotic apeal.
Once in a while he posts some real gems though, so it's kind of worth dealing with the repetition. (On the other hand, no poster makes a great post everytime, either)
As far as RL goes he is a troll, who's been posting the same old tired messages for years nonstop I've heard. He doesn't respond to posts but will revive old dead threads anyway. davids seems to be RL's online friend which seems to say enough by itself.
BTW...I've noticed that many of you refer to "climaxing" during a L/D...am I the only one who has NOT done this...grosses me out, honestly.
I like a mixture of both but recently the dances that I didn't like usually involved a lot of time spent with their back to me, easier for a dancer to stay un-engaged and to stare off in space that way.
I've gotta be consistent with previous reviewers. I certainly appreciate a mixture of both. I venture to say that I am a devotee of those southern regions below the waist. I guess you would call me a leg and butt man. (I just did.)
I like looking at and feeling (if allowed) natural breasts. An implant feels like plastic or a 12-inch softball. However, I wanna see those eyes and caress the thighs. It helps me to see what I'm paying for.
In a high mileage situation back is usually the norm, most girls would rather have you do your thing without having to look you in the eye at the same time. One of my FAV's did that a few times and spun round one night, which suprised the hell out of me, but it was a great ride.