Do you prefer the thrill of the unknown or a guaranteed good time?
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Another thread got me to thinking about whether it's more fun to go to a place that I know or to try something new. I usually go to the same place to see a girl I know really well and I know that I'll have fun. But sometimes I miss the thrill of the unknown, the excitement of hitting a new place, which may turn out to be a total dud or just might be one of these really special evenings. Which do you prefer?
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I'm definitely a fav/ATF kind of guy, I do frequent more than one club so it's definitely not just one girl all of the time. Still, having regulars in the long run costs you less and generally insures a good time.
My new strategy is hit a new club once a month or so, trying to keep it around $100. That has been worth the money, in terms of the amout of fun I have. At the last two clubs visited out of state, I had to wait over half an hour before being approached by a dancer I liked. The waiting game ended up being part of the fun, rather than the annoyance of figuring out when my favorite dancer was working and if she'd have time for me (or even remember me!)