davids

Yeah, Rick's is a great and pretty straight forward club. I think even RL would do well there: Come in, try a couple of dancers, find one that does extras, have your fun and leave. If you are smart and don't waster money on girls who don't give great dances you should be able to take care of business in $200 or so (even less after you find a regular and before you get bored with her). Most strippers don't try to fuck with your mind unless you really ask for it either. (I am beginning to wonder if RL might fall into that latter category, however. Maybe he is just meant as comic releif for this board, however.)

It's LACK OF INTEREST. I am sure you know the mechanics of how it works but if it not here it goes: Men are biologically wired to be attracted to good looking young women. Strip clubs have a reasonable supply of these (although strippers are not as good looking on average as the popular culture would lead you to beleive). Women, on the other hand, are attracted to confident men who exude that they can HAVE whatever woman they want. Once a man walks through the doors of strip a club he stating in a pretty bold voice that he is there to PAY FOR PUSSY. Hence he has "lack of confidence" written all over him. (If he was confident he could get any pussy he wanted he would be in a singles bar picking up women for FREE). Thus when a customer asks the stripper to see him outside the club for free, chances are she is not attracted to him. Now honest girls would just say so, but strippers are not exactly reknowed for their morals, so what they do is, instead, lie and lead on the customer in hopes that he will continue to provide them with MONEY. (Sometimes strippers will rationalize this in their own minds as follows: well he is just trying to use me for sex anyway, so it is fair for me to just use him for money. Other popular rationalizations are: If I don't take this sucker's money someone else is just going to; If I don't take his money he is just waste it all on other strippers anyways.)

"like members of any profession, are unique individuals and you can't make any valid generalizations about them." I think your logic is a little broken here, FONDL. Trivially I can't even generalization that they are members of the profession? Being a little less trivial I cannot generalize that math professors are good at math?

RL: yes almost always about money. The strippers want you to have their number so it's easy for you to know when they are working so you don't end up spend your finite amount of money elsewhere. That accounts for exactly 92.3% of all cases. But there are exceptions. Some strippers have rules about never being friends or dating any customers under any circumstances whatsoever But many do not. The break down is approximately 50/50.

Say you're just in the club to visit some of your friends.