I have been dancing for a little over 6 years now. Every time you get into a new club it is very nerve racking. Remember there is one girl for every guy in the place, and while some may not like you, some will like you best. Now for the name Candy, I have not worked in a club yet that there wasn't already a Candy working there. I am sure you can be more creative than that. I think Candy, Sugar, Ginger, Amber, and Jade are the most popular Stipper names ever. Just thought I would fill you in on that since you want to stick out, not be in the shadows.
I have had guys who brought in catalogs for me, and while I thought it was nice I also thought it was creepy. My question is, why is she even doing pole tricks if her shoes are flying off? She must not be the brightest crayon in the box, if she hasn't figured out she needs shoes with a ankle strap. I would much rather fix my shoe than look like an idiot flying my shoe off into the audience. Doesn't she know, those shoes are only plastic, one of these times its going to hit the floor and the damn heel is going to break off.
No not all customers are the same. I don't want to look like a bitch or anything, but some customers you know are going to try to lick you, or bite you just by looking at them. It doesn't always mean race either. The skanky girls usually take care of those kinds because they figure that its just money. No matter who it is. But I for one will not dance for just anyone. They have to be nice to me and want to have a conversation first. Sorry I know I sound like a prude but I have been dancing way too long to get unwanted fondling. So like I said I will not just dance for anyone.
My best friend has 2 kids by 2 different fathers, but thats only becuase her first husband, was killed by a drunk driver on his way home from work. I only know one girl who has 2 kids by 2 different fathers than her and she is not a stripper. I think the whole different baby daddy thing happens more outside the stripper world.
I prefer the man who sits alone. When men come as a crown they tend to be there more for each others amusement than accually being there for a dance. Most groups ususally are the over hyper, over drunk, half retarded types. They like to yell and let thier opinion be know while sitting back broke with no intention of even getting a dance. I am the dancer who like to sit and talk for a while, for free, and show my cutomer that I am here for emotional support if they need it and always there to fulfill thier fantasy, well they are in a strip club right? I hate the "wanna dance" pick up that some many new dancers use. I would much rather have a regular than a one time one song dance.
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