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18 years ago

Strip club shooting

There's an article in this morning's paper about a shooting in Cheerleaders in Philadelphia over the weekend. An older guy took his favorite into the champagne room, shot her, then himself. He...

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18 years ago

Speaking of Jacksonville ...

About 10 years ago I got to know a stripper in Key West really well (my #2 ATF actually) who was from Jacksonville (everyone in Key West is from somewhere else.) She told...

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18 years ago

Gee I wonder what she does for a living

A couple of years a go while was driving home from visiting my ATF, I stopped on a late Sunday morning at a fast food restaurant on the outskirts of Jacksonville. Ahead of...

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18 years ago

Remember when ...

... most of the strip clubs were located together in a seedy section of downtown? ... most of the strippers looked and acted like worn-out whores? ... you'd get thrown out for touching? ... the only gentlemen's...

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18 years ago

What makes a winner?

I'm familiar with 2 of the top ranked (rated?) clubs. The only things that they seem to have in common are: both are on the smaller side, both are fairly seedy and not...

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18 years ago

Have your tastes changed?

I recently realized something while posting here - my tastes in both clubs and dancers has changed over the years. I prefer the cheaper less fancy clubs more than I used to. ...

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18 years ago

Is she or isn't she?

Here's a question for you all. Yesterday I had a funny experience at my gym that got me to thinking. My gym has a separate and fairly soundproof room which is used...

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18 years ago

Prostitution arrests

In case any of you haven't seen this: 12 arrested for prostitution ads on Web Posted 9/9/2006 7:33 AM ET E-mail LEVITTOWN, Pa. (AP) — Police in Bucks County have charged 12 women after...

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18 years ago

What's the best dive you've ever been to?

No ugly bouncers in tuxes, nobody handing out towels in the men's room, no valet parking, no fancy VIP rooms, no annoying DJ, no overpriced drinks, just a nice friendly seedy bar with dancers...

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18 years ago

Unusual strip clubs

What's the most unusual club you've ever been to, the one most unlike any other? For me I'd have to say Show-n-Tell Showbar in Philly. You enter a XXX-book/video store and walk...

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18 years ago

Regional differences in clubs

Sounds like we've all visited clubs in several different parts of the country. Just wondering what differences you've noticed. Specifically, what do you commonly see in your home area that you rarely...

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18 years ago

Anyone familiar with Maine?

I'm reading a novel published in 1993 where one of the characters, a young girl, get arrested for giving hand jobs in a massage parlor in Maine. Her lawyer explains that it used...

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18 years ago

RIP Mickey Spillane

In case you missed it, Mickey Spilland died earlier this week. He will be missed. He was 88. And if you're wondering what this has to do with strip clubs, you've probably never...

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18 years ago

I hate airports

Just got back from dropping my off ATF at the airport. She's been here visiting me for 4 days. We had a great time but now I'm kinda down because I won't...

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18 years ago

Question on community opposition.

Elsewhere we've been talking about community opposition to strip clubs, specifically to opening new ones. There's one thing about that which has always puzzled me - why is there often more opposition to...

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18 years ago

What was your ATF wearing when you first met?

"I met a pretty Funny Girl dancing in tall shoes. She smiled a smile that said hello and chased away my blues." -- opening lines from the poem "Smile for Me" by FONDL. Or maybe this...

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18 years ago

Do you pity tip?

A real fuglie comes out onstage and you think, what the hell is she doing up there, I hope she doesn't take her clothes off. Do you tip her anyway out of pity?...

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18 years ago

Why don't pretty girls smile?

Seems to me that the best looking girls rarely smile, while the nicest smiles are usually on girls who are otherwise fairly average looking. I was once again reminded of this fact this...

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18 years ago

What's the best town?

Forget about cities and the suburbs thereof for a moment. What's the best small town or rural area for clubbing that you've ever been to? What's the best small town or rural...

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18 years ago

Ever been the only customer?

Have you ever gone into a club only to discover that you're the only customer there? How do you feel about that? Do you care? Personally I don't mind at all,...

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18 years ago

Yoda and the World Cup

I bet that, like me, Yoda is rooting for Brazil. In his case a win by them could lead to some really fun celebration. In my case I just think they're the...

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18 years ago

Good times in bad clubs.

One of the things that makes it so difficult for me to write a review is that I haven't noticed much correlation between how good I consider a club to be and how much...

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18 years ago

Clubbing in the Northeast

Yoda and I seem to be the only two people her who ever mention clubs in the Northeast (including MD if I can stretch things a little.) I happen to think that Providence,...

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18 years ago

Nude no-alcohol clubs

It seems to me that every nude no-alcohol club that I've ever been to collected an admission fee at the front door. And it seems to me that's the only kind of place...

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18 years ago

Just out of curiousity, I wonder what percentage of dancers have ever had OTC sex with a customer who they first met in their club, not someone they already knew from outside? When...

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18 years ago

Clubs and organized crime

Seems to me that once upon a time organized crime had a major stake in the strip club industry. I believe that organized crime today is less well organized, more fragmented and therefore...

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18 years ago

Face, body or personality?

I assume that given our druthers we'd all prefer a girl with a pretty face, a great body, and a pleasant personality, even though we may not agree on what exactly those are. ...

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18 years ago

Topless car washes

Whatever happened to topless car washes? They used to be pretty common in some areas but I haven't heard of one in years. Do any still exist? For that matter, whatever happened to...

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19 years ago

History of lapping

Some time ago we had a discussion about when and where lap dances started. I just read a novel ("Snow White and Rose Red" by Ed McBain) that was written in 1983 and...

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19 years ago

Wagon Wheel make the top ten

I see Manhattan Players Club in Baltimore, more commonly know by it's old name Wagon Wheel, has cracked the top ten. And I have a confession to make: all the years I've spent...

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19 years ago

Giving money to a dancer OTC

On several other discussion topics we've talked about giving money to dancers OTC. Rather than drag those topics on forever, I wanted to ask a separate but related couple of questions so I...

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19 years ago

I was reading Stripperweb a little while ago (the weather's crappy and I'm bored) and saw under club chat that a dancer claimed there were 3 after hours clubs in Durham that offered BJ...

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19 years ago

membership cards

I've been to several clubs that required you to buy an annual membership, typically for something like $25-30, than for each additional visit the entrance fee was fairly small ($10 or so.) My...

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19 years ago

Do you have any sisters?

I've always been of the opinion that guys who grow up with sisters have a different view of women in general than do guys who don't. And I think some of those differing...

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19 years ago

love the pickel

Count me among the fans of Kellie Pickler. She wasn't the best singer on the show but she was easily the most charming personality and I will miss her. I think she'll...

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19 years ago

Tornado hits SC

I just saw that a tornado touched down in SC not far from Columbia. I hope it spared Shadowcat's playground and friends. Wow, that would give a whole new meaning to the...

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19 years ago

How do you normally dress?

We've had several discussions about how we each dress when going clubbing, and it seems to me that how each of us chooses to dress has a lot to do with how we dress...

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19 years ago

In another thread, Shotdisc described a favorite club that no longer exists. Who else has such a favorite? Mine was Pirate's Den in Key West, which is the first place I ever...

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19 years ago

Keep on truckin'

I've noticed in several other threads that some of you have referred to your truck. I don't have a truck but I'm curious to know how many of you do. I think...

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19 years ago

What's up with South Carolina?

I just returned from 2 weeks of fun in the sun. And I noticed something funny while driving I-95. Whether going north or south, at the South Carolina border as you enter...

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19 years ago

Ever been in a club that lost power?

It happened to me once in Providence. I was with a cute young coed at the time. She was onstage naked and I was the only guy at the stage watching, so...

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19 years ago

If you lower your standards, what goes first?

We all want a girl with a great body, pretty face and pleasant personality. But if you're wanting some private dances and there aren't any girls like that, what do you give up...

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19 years ago

Do you have different standards for different clubs?

If I'm in a club where I've never been before and probably will never see again, and I don't see a girl who appeals to me, I'm likely to lower my standards and choose...

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19 years ago

How do you tell their ages?

I'm terrible at judging girls ages, at least until I get to know them a bit. A couple of weeks ago I was at a play and there were 2 fairly attractive young...

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19 years ago

What happened to Stripperweb?

Anyone notice that the link to Stripperweb is gone? Guess they stopped paying or something....

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19 years ago

How/why did it end?

In answering T-bone's question about how long an ATF lasted, I though it might be interesting to ask how or why did it end? In my case I stopped going to see my...

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19 years ago

Friends, one more time

I know I'll hate myself in the morning for asking and that we've beat this topic to death already, but I have to ask, how do you define your "friends"? Some of you...

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19 years ago

A couple days ago I wrote somewhere on here that the only industry I could think of that didn't give a shit about their customers was strip clubs. But after watching last night's...

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