Friends, one more time
Monday, January 9, 2006 4:25 PM
I know I'll hate myself in the morning for asking and that we've beat this topic to death already, but I have to ask, how do you define your "friends"? Some of you have said that if there's money involved there's no friendship - I disagree with that and here's why.
My ATF has a person who she met in massage school, and they have an arrangement, one week she gives him a massage, the next week he gives her one. Friends? She thinks so. She has another friend who she met through other friends, he's a hairdresser, and one week she gives him a massage, the next week he does her hair. Friends? She also has two friends who she used to work with when she was a waitress and they still socialize together, and now they are her customers, she gives them a reduced price for massage but they still pay her and their tip usually brings them up to full price. Friends?
Last year I bought her a couple of gifts for Christmas and wrapped them up and sent them to her; this year she was starting a new business and needed some stuff so I sent her a check instead, which we both greatly preferred. Friends?
Keep in mind your economics course which taught that money has no intrinsic value, it's only worth what someone else is willing to exchange it for, and it's only reason for being is to make the barter process more efficient, and that bartering is the exact same thing as accepting money in exchange for goods or services. And if you don't agree ask the IRS.
So how do you define who your friends are? Does that definition change if you are of different sexes? Of vastly different ages? If the girl is or used to be a stripper?
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