Discussions by FONDL (page 31)

Here we go again. Until recently I've had a favorite who I saw fairly regularly. From almost the very beginning she has been extremely open with me and has told me an...

If you're in a club where you don't know anyone, how do you prefer to choose a girl (or girls) to spend money on? Or do you let them choose you? If possible, here's...

I think a lot of the annoying stripper behavior that we talk about is mostly immaturity. Because strippers often appear to be fully grown women and because they often have their hustle act...

You've all seen me talking about the benefits of having a regular and how great my current fav is. Well here's the downside, she's started playing games. We were supposed to meet...

There's a thread on the pink site where some guy asked how much he should tip a girl to sit and talk, and all these dancers jumped in with how much they charge per...

Last night I was out to dinner and this really cute and friendly waitress came over and waited on me. Turns out she was a single mother. And I'm thinking, if there...

For the past 8 months since I met my current favorite, when I go clubbing I discuss it over the phone with her first, we agree on a date and time, I show up...

Just wondering if anyone has ever arranged for and had a private one-on-one lap dancing session outside the club with a stripper they know. It's my belief that as clubs continue to squeeze...

I'm not talking about erotic massage here, have you ever had a real good non-sexual massage? The reason I ask is because my ATF, after trying a bunch of other things, decided to...

We all know what the dictionary says but I think for many people familiar with the sex industry it's not a very good working definition. I think a lot of people, me included,...

Oriental Spas (aka massage parlors) seem to be suddenly thriving around here and this is relatively new. There are now 3 that advertise in our local paper (in the sports section.) One...

I thought I'd raise this question in the interest of honesty. I used to go pretty regularly and at one time went pretty much weekly for a couple of years. I also...

We keep tossing around terms like "high contact" so I thought it might be helpful to define what we each mean. Here are my definitions - Air dance - little or no contact in...

I'm not trying to start a political discussion here but one thing really puzzles me and maybe someone can enlighten me. Whenever there are efforts to close down or tighten up rule on...

I've read a lot of posts from people who claim that clubs are going more upscale, but I haven't really noticed it. I only know of two clubs that remodeled recently and became...

We're all familiar with the customer who becomes emotionally attached to a dancer, but I'm wondering how frequently it happens the other way around. For example, a young inexperienced dancer with the typical...

You drive up to the door and have to tip some rude bozo $5 to drive your car 10 feet to the parking lot. You enter, pay $15 entrance fee, go through the...

If stripping became socially acceptable (not that we have to worry about that happening anytime soon), what impact would it have on clubs and dancers? Personally I think that dancers' incomes would decline....

I'm under the impression that, in response to declining dancer incomes in some areas, a perhaps small but increasing number of dancers are getting together with customers away from the club for private dancing...

I've been reading the pink site alot and it strikes me that a lot of the girls posting there are in denial. They're in denial about what they do, about the risks involved,...

If there were no laws governing what went on inside strip clubs, and there were clubs that offered anything that anyone wanted, what type of club would you go to? I think I'd...

It seems to me that a lot of people, dancers and customers both, sometimes suffer from depression. And that may explain why some guys get so attached to their dancer buddies. That...

I just happened to remember a strip club in Morgantown, WV, where I used to go that had a hot tub room. I was tempted to try it but then they raised the...

Seems to me a lot of the disagreements on this board are because we're of diferent types: different age and experience, different income, different marital status, and we're looking for different things. What...

Sure dancers tell lies but so do customers, all the time, only we call it bullshit. I bet girls get especially tired of hearing guys brag about how rich they are (yeah, right!)So...

Guys, what do you do for your favorite dancer around holiday time? ...

Seems to me we've been arguing forever about when is a stripper a friend and we never seem to agree. I think the problem is that the term "friend" doesn't work very well...

I just made another post here that made me think of something and I wondered if anyone else ever has the same experience. When I spend a lot of time with a dancer...

Have you ever noticed that guys almost never talk to each other in a strip club, unless of cours they're friends? I mean if you go into a regular bar, sooner or later...

There seem to be a lot of dancer posts both here and on the pink site complaining that we (customers) don't give them enough respect, and then they add that they don't respect most...