Just wondering if anyone has ever arranged for and had a private one-on-one lap dancing session outside the club with a stripper they know. It's my belief that as clubs continue to squeeze strippers so that their earnings decline, some of them will react by meeting favorite customers outside the club for essentially the same activities that occur now in clubs. But this is just a guess on my part, I'm not aware of it happening anywhere, although I have seen girls advertising private lap dancing sessions. Has anyone encountered this with a dancer they know or is this just wishful thinking on my part?
I looked up Craigslist and it isn't very good for the areas around here, it's mostly phone sex girls, nothing that would interest me. There are other lists that are much better.
The other night I had another session with a girl from a club--some MM for about 40 minutes. She cummed thrice. She was so eager that her first cum was on the way to the parking lot a few blocks away. She's called me twice to arrange another session, and it cost me only $35.
In my experience, I've found the the older dancers usually offer more. Either more touching, OTC services, etc. It's usually because they find they need to in order to compete with the younger, hotter dancers and not because they are any more worldly than when they were younger. That's just my humble opinion.
Ok what would you call this a dance ? I have known a dancer for about 8 years and we go out once in a while. We went to dinner one night then we went to a Victoria’s Secret where she tried several things on in the dressing room with me in it with her. There was some touching ect ect.
Somewhere else, and I forget where, I posted the question about whether girls are willing to do more over time. I've seen a number of dancer posts elsewhere where the girls says that when they first started dancing they wouldn't do certain things but now it doesn't bother them as much. That would suggest that older dancers tend to be more willing than younger ones. I wonder if this is generally true? If it is I'm guessing that it isn't just because of more club experience but life experiences as well, eg. a young girl may have had only a few BF's while the older dancer has had many more and has probably had a husband or 2 as well.
Some girls who get into dancing have already been prostitiutes so offering extras is no big deal to them. Others just get more lenient over time. I know plenty of dancers who have been around for 5 or 10 years and still don't do extras so I don't think we can make a blanket statement about it.
There are two dancers at a club I go to that both offer BJ's in the private booth. The the younger of the two does them bareback, the older makes you wear a condom. Ah the wisdom of age....
FONDL: Those girls are all giving happy endings. That's not exactly the same as selling lap dances for money. A hand job or blow job is still prostitution. I'm quit sure it's effected business at strip clubs but we aren't really comparing apples to apples here.
I'm sorry Yoda, I meant to say that except for FS, your first paragraph is exactly what I'm talking about. I wonder how many of the girls involved in that other stuff started out as dancers and made the seitch because of better money? I'd be a lot of them.
Yoda, your first paragraph is exactly what I've been trying to say, it's going on all over the country and appears to be growing. I think it's cutting into club business because in many cases it's cheaper and more convenient. And I think it will continue to grow and many dancers will join the trend to increase their income.
Which raises an interesting question that I've been meaning to ask. When I read dancer posts, every once in a while I'll read where some girl says, "When I started dancing I wouldn't do (fill in the blak) but now that I've been dancing for awhile it doesn't make me as uncomfortable." My question is, is this typical, do girls gradually get used to doing more and more as they dance, does the place where they draw the line keep moving farther and farther? I'm guessing that for many of them the answer is yes. For example, the only time I've ever been offered extras was by older, more experienced dancers. Is this typical? And if so, does it suggest that dancers who become comfortable doing extras in clubs will be more likely to take at least some of their business OTC?
Body rubs, Sensual Massage and FS all go on all over the country. Log on to craigs list, any city they cover, and you will see adds for this. FONDL: A hand job is a hand job, doesn't matter if it's 3 guys aweek or 300.
If just one dancer would post on any site anywhere that she sells ONLY lap dances OTC on a regular basis I would beleive that it's apossible trend. Even the girls that don't allow touching engage in mutual masterbation.
My success at that has been fairly dismal. The woman is convinced beyond any reason that I'm seeking full service and thus wants to charge a premium. Or, she wants to do it without charge for whatever reasons. Also, I think a woman would much rather earn $100 and give $50 to the club than earn $90 free and clear. I know it seems absurd, but it is like workers who want a raise even a tiny one instead of real purchasing power. IOW, the question is would you rather have high inflation and small raises or zero inflation and no raises: The choice is almost always for appearance over substance. Who wants to be denied a raise year after year even if their purchasing power is increasing? Much better to get yearly raises, even those that don't keep pace with inflation, to show you're appreciated and valued.
Except that what I'm talking about differs from escort service in 2 important ways: first it's not full service, second it's only made available to a select few people who she already knows.
Private shows and body rubs seem to be quite common in the DC area, maybe because there's no touching in DC clubs. There usually isn't any "full service" but the sessions do include a "happy ending" according to the adds. I've also seen a lot of erotic massage advertised in the Atlanta area, again an area where there's no touching in clubs. Maybe these areas are unique but I'm wondering if this isn't a growing trend. It's sort of half way between strip club activity and a full-service prostitute, and probably appeals to guys who want something beyond the strip club experince but not everything. Anyone know of anywhere else where this sort of thing is happening?
Four different girls, about ten times altogether, ranging from $30 to 125, all at least 40 minutes, while I did vertical pole work and they also had high-intensity experiences.
Over the years I've heard of dancers trying to give lap dances OTC but I tend to think of that as being a rip off. Why waste my time and money driving far away to some stripper's house just for a lap dance? Alot of the stripper's I see nowadays I wouldn't want to go home with anyway.
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There are two dancers at a club I go to that both offer BJ's in the private booth. The the younger of the two does them bareback, the older makes you wear a condom. Ah the wisdom of age....
Which raises an interesting question that I've been meaning to ask. When I read dancer posts, every once in a while I'll read where some girl says, "When I started dancing I wouldn't do (fill in the blak) but now that I've been dancing for awhile it doesn't make me as uncomfortable." My question is, is this typical, do girls gradually get used to doing more and more as they dance, does the place where they draw the line keep moving farther and farther? I'm guessing that for many of them the answer is yes. For example, the only time I've ever been offered extras was by older, more experienced dancers. Is this typical? And if so, does it suggest that dancers who become comfortable doing extras in clubs will be more likely to take at least some of their business OTC?
If just one dancer would post on any site anywhere that she sells ONLY lap dances OTC on a regular basis I would beleive that it's apossible trend. Even the girls that don't allow touching engage in mutual masterbation.
My success at that has been fairly dismal. The woman is convinced beyond any reason that I'm seeking full service and thus wants to charge a premium. Or, she wants to do it without charge for whatever reasons. Also, I think a woman would much rather earn $100 and give $50 to the club than earn $90 free and clear. I know it seems absurd, but it is like workers who want a raise even a tiny one instead of real purchasing power. IOW, the question is would you rather have high inflation and small raises or zero inflation and no raises: The choice is almost always for appearance over substance. Who wants to be denied a raise year after year even if their purchasing power is increasing? Much better to get yearly raises, even those that don't keep pace with inflation, to show you're appreciated and valued.