johnnylingo

To be fair to davids, the posters on this board are probably more "enlightened" than the average SC regular. We've done been around long enough to know the name of the game, and have concluded that going is for entertainment purposes only. Not everyone has figured that out yet, or perhaps they have and are in denial. When I see the same guys in a club night after night, hugging their "favorites" goodnight, I always wonder to myself about their perspective.

One told me I had nice eyelashes. My eyelashes are very long, and she's the first person I've ever met to have complimented me on it. A little strange, but nice.

Well, I've been "asked out" by strippers twice. The first time was a few months ago at a bikini bar in San Jose. It seemed so weird, I didn't say yes, just kind of changed the topic. I talked to another dancer later and asked what the story was. The girl that asked me out had moved there last week and was looking for a guy to show her around town. Since I wasn't from San Jose, it wasn't really an option, so whatever. The second time (and the stranger one) happend last week. I stopped in a small club for the first time last week in the late afternoon. Get a couple $20 dances, have a nice conversation, and she encourages me to stop in again. Then as I'm getting up to leave she says maybe nex time, I could give her my number and we could go out for a beer sometime. Now, I know better than to think this was a legitimate offer. More than likely it was just a trick to get me to come back. Could also have been a signal she works as an escort on the side. Anybody else have ideas?

True, but even in football there are rules, penalties, and "cheap shots" which can lead to some nasty confrontations. Most of the examples here are clear cut - lying about personal life is fine, while charging for a service that was not delivered is fraud. The example of offering a "real lap dance" and then giving cookie cutter one is more borderline and really comes down to personal ethics. I had one dancer who said she was "a lot of fun", then when we got back for the dance, implied that having "a lot of fun" with her was going to cost $60 for the dance. I should have just walked out right there, but instead offered $40, and ended up with a lame dance while she looked around for the next victim. I'm sure this falls within strip club rules, but whenever I feel I'm being hustled by a dancer, I just remember that experience and realize it's my money, and I'm going to be happier spending it on the ones that are honest and upfront.

Speaking of pathetic, how about these postings? This is just a guess, but sounds like you got burned (as so many have) and are trying to keep others from making the same mistakes. Why not just admit that, rather than asking these silly questions that we all know the answers to?