Let's talk about respect
There seem to be a lot of dancer posts both here and on the pink site complaining that we (customers) don't give them enough respect, and then they add that they don't respect most of their customers. For you ladies out there let me repeat what I've said elsewhere: one of my life rules is to treat everyone with respect unless they give me a reason not to, then I treat them the way that they treat me. In a strip club context, this means that if you are open, honest and friendly with me, I will treat you like the lady that you are. But if you're dishonest and try to con me by making promises you don't intend to keep, don't expect to get respect in return. Fair enough?Got something to say?
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The other night I was visiting club and a dancer who I have known for a while. As is typical, when I came in about my regular time, she came right over to greet me and sit with me. (She likes sitting with me because I respect the idea that she's there to work. She knows I appreciate the time she spends with me, but that she is free to get up and do what she needs to do.) She sat with me most of the night getting up to perform on stage and occasionally to work the crowd. One time she got up to give a private dance, which at this club is not in a private room but on couches which line the back wall. At one point I noticed her dash from the couch, and get a bouncer to have the guy removed. After a brief stop in the dressing room she came back over to sit with me. She was clearly upset and explained that the guy keept trying to touch her (the club is located in an area with no contact rules)and kept trying to offer her money for extras. Than she let me know that she appreciated how I always treated her with "respect." Later on, after things calmed down, she offered me a private dance. It was absolutely one of the best dances I had ever had at that club and she took the local rules to the limits. Afterwards she gave me a big hug, a kiss on the cheek, and said "thank you for being such a gentleman."
O.K. so the moral of that story was be respectful and you will be treated in kind and appreciated.