Guys, how do you like to choose?
If you're in a club where you don't know anyone, how do you prefer to choose a girl (or girls) to spend money on? Or do you let them choose you?
If possible, here's what I like to do. First I'll sit in an out- of-the-way spot where I can observe the whole room. I'll have a drink and watch for awhile to get a feel for how things work in this particular place, and at the same time I'll observe the girls to see if there are any who fit my favorite profile -young, small, cute, friendly, all-natural. If I see one who does, I'll approach her, preferably while she's onstage dancing, and ask if I can buy her a drink. Then if she joins me we'll sit and talk for awhile, then head off for some private dances - how meny will depend on her personality and how good she is at it. But I'll always buy at least one because I asked her to join me. If there's no one there who is the type I look for, I will sometimes be able to find someone else who is fun to spend a little time with. But in that case I'll usually wait for someone to approach me. In any case I will usually spend time with only one girl. And if we really hit it off, I'll find out when she works and return when possible. And as long as she treats me the way I like to be treated, I'll become a regular of both her and the club. And once that runs its course, I'll try another club.
If possible, here's what I like to do. First I'll sit in an out- of-the-way spot where I can observe the whole room. I'll have a drink and watch for awhile to get a feel for how things work in this particular place, and at the same time I'll observe the girls to see if there are any who fit my favorite profile -young, small, cute, friendly, all-natural. If I see one who does, I'll approach her, preferably while she's onstage dancing, and ask if I can buy her a drink. Then if she joins me we'll sit and talk for awhile, then head off for some private dances - how meny will depend on her personality and how good she is at it. But I'll always buy at least one because I asked her to join me. If there's no one there who is the type I look for, I will sometimes be able to find someone else who is fun to spend a little time with. But in that case I'll usually wait for someone to approach me. In any case I will usually spend time with only one girl. And if we really hit it off, I'll find out when she works and return when possible. And as long as she treats me the way I like to be treated, I'll become a regular of both her and the club. And once that runs its course, I'll try another club.
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I hate the high pressure clubs, were if you try scout them out from back, they'll be all over like flies to shit in minutes. I just walk right out, something without even acknowledging the dancer. I don't like to rude and didn't used to be, but as the pressure increased, I got over that.
Chitown, I usually try not to have any preconceived ideas when I head for a club. One night I may find a girl who is good at laps. Another night I may find one who is an interesting conversationalist. A third time I may find someone who is very amusing and entertaining. All of those can be fun evenings. In fact I find the uncertainty to be part of the fun of going to an unfamiliar club. I think you tend to have more fun if you don't have any objectives and just take whatever happens. Some of my most memorable times have occurred when I didn't find a girl who I think of as my type. I always look for my type but I try to be open to other kinds of fun too.
1- look for an older, less than perfect girl who is probably not making as much as some of the other dancers.
2- the girl with the biggest natural boobs.
In the club that I usually go to, I know who the good VIP girls are, so I can skipt the above process. However, if I find myself in a new club, or I want variety, that is the process I follow.
I'm looking for small and natural. Fancy clothes, makeup, tattoos, implants, high heels, etc. are all turnoffs. The girls next door that I grew up around were usually prettier than most of the playboy models. A good healthy smile is also very nice. Intelligence or conversation skills aren't important. Honesty is unimportant. Morality is unimportant. Drug use is unimportant. Non-criminalty is unimportant. A CRIMINAL boyfriend is a minor plus especially if he doesn't have a record or at least is conviction free.
I prefer shy so if she isn't looking for dances after a good period of time, then I will approach her.
sorry....couldn't resist...
Now when i go to a strip club i make dam sure ahead of time to call the general manger " to seewhat girls our on on before i go in there and play that way i am not wasting my time" and i love it when i do walk into a sister club that i become center of attention and have my clothes on cause i am fiendly down to earth and will not say hello to people that talk to me. its all about how you present yourself. and if you look and know you look good you can have fun in and out of the shoes !!!!