What type are you?
Seems to me a lot of the disagreements on this board are because we're of diferent types: different age and experience, different income, different marital status, and we're looking for different things. What type are you?
I can think of about half a dozen differrent types of customers: young single guys who go in groups, make fun of the girls, and spend little; old guys who go alone and like to hang with cute young girls and don't mind spending a lot; younger single guys looking for a girl friend or to get laid; middle aged guys looking to purchase sex; middle aged guys looking for fun and entertainment; and lonely guys of limited social skills of all ages. I fit the second category - I'm an old married guy who likes spending time with pretty young girls and doesn't mind paying for it. I've been going to clubs off and on for many years, started because I used to travel a lot on business and found that for a stranger in town strip clubs are often friendlier and more fun than normal bars. I enjoy both the conversation and the intimacy of an SC. But I'm really not looking for anything beyond that. How about you?
I can think of about half a dozen differrent types of customers: young single guys who go in groups, make fun of the girls, and spend little; old guys who go alone and like to hang with cute young girls and don't mind spending a lot; younger single guys looking for a girl friend or to get laid; middle aged guys looking to purchase sex; middle aged guys looking for fun and entertainment; and lonely guys of limited social skills of all ages. I fit the second category - I'm an old married guy who likes spending time with pretty young girls and doesn't mind paying for it. I've been going to clubs off and on for many years, started because I used to travel a lot on business and found that for a stranger in town strip clubs are often friendlier and more fun than normal bars. I enjoy both the conversation and the intimacy of an SC. But I'm really not looking for anything beyond that. How about you?
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Incidently, after doing this, with the new musical format in place, the clubs liquors sales incresed 23% in the first month. Door sales increased 14% in the first month as well. A club is like a car and it is the dj's responsibility to steer it in the right direction.
I also told them they were over priced. I'm not holding my breath on that one.
Anyway I think the real reason the music is so loud is that the girls like it that way, it makes it easier to dance. Or maybe the DJ's are all deaf from overexposure to loud music.
Hmmm . . . seems like you might finally be starting to figure out that YOU are in LOVE with GCs. :)
Looking at your reviews it seems like your prefer expensive clubs. So basically you like expensive dives? If a non-GC is expensive, then in my book it loses a lot of its value.
Anyway comparing FIVE DOLLAR clubs with the expensive clubs is like comparing apples and oranges. A rotten apple might be better than a perfect orange. :)
as for me, I am in my mid forties, a professional, middle class married man who only visits SC's while out of town on business trips. As I have said before, I hate Gentleman's clubs or ShowBars. My faves range from PP in Columbia and Memphis, to 24K in Atlanta. I am a big fan of high mileage and extras.
That has been true in my experience and I believe it to be the norm. I think it is because the young guys are supercharged and don't need the eye candy, but would rather have mileage and right attitude. As an old guy mileage really isn't a big deal because that is pretty much a given with older women seeming to be much more aggressive and willing. What good is the offer of unlimited mileage cheap or free if my battery is dead? The young woman provides the eye candy that gets me supercharged. I see very attractive older women who I'm very compatible with, but *unfortunately for me* there is no sexual desire on my part. Their sexuality is wasted on me. The young women who I may have nothing in common with will send me to heaven.
Blubber is almost always a total turn-off--young women or old women. The one exception was this young fat women. She took her clothing off and WOW! I'm supercharged. Her *skin glowed* and that is what got me all excited.
I like to refer to the youngins' as "BBC guys" (backwards baseball cap guys). They gather 3 or 4 around a girl at the stage, put up a single dollar bill between them and then high-5 each other when the girl takes the tip...morons.
One of the clubs I go to allows 18 and over on weeknights and the girls dread it. The average 18 year old has no idea how to act around a hot stripper and no money to sped. The clubs make thier money off of the cover and drink charges. Ultimately they don't really care if the girls make any money or not.
Amen to hitting the day shifts! My first daytime experience was last week. It felt strange, but was a nice time. Pretty sure I was the last guy in the place when I walked out around 5 (kinda curious if they continue dancing if there's no customers lol). I only wish I had a chance to do it more often.
I've stopped in at a couple other clubs, and it's not to look for sex or a girlfriend (I can't say either would *never* happen, but know that it's not the best place to be looking). Rather, more just for adventure, relaxation, and excitement of meeting girls I might have similar chemistry with. When looking at other customers in a club, I'll occassionly see other younger guys that look well off and are by themselves. I'm guessing most are looking for sex (or to "cheat" on their GFs via some fantasy), or just PLs who can't get a date. But I don't fall in to any of those, so can't assume.
I'm old/middle aged. Low income and frequent strip clubs as often as possible. I love spending time with attractive young dancers, but feel guilty just talking to them because they need to be earning the $$$. Too often they don't value themselves highly enough and get confused about their real worth. If they're only earning a little, then they mistakenly think they're only worth a little. :( Sex or extras isn't a requirement, but I'm interested in those services after I get to know the dancer. If she doesn't do extras, then that's fine. I don't want a "free lunch" (discount lunch is very much appreciated) or a real relationship. I expect some *scamming* and usually only stay angry for about a day or 2 depending on the scam. Also, I would prefer to be very friendly with just one or two dancers and give them all or most of my business.