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6 years ago
Thanks all for the valuable info. I was about to post the same type of questions as the op. I'm heading to Detroit on business in November and this will be very helpful.
One additional question - I'm likely to drive to the clubs. I see the mandatory $8 valet at FC, which is fine and sounds like it is safe based on the comments I've read. Are there any parking issues at the other clubs? Mostly concerned about safety of the car - I don't care if I have to pay for valet.
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8 years ago
Despite living within 30 minutes of it, I've never gone to that club because of the area it's in. Not in my comfort zone.
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8 years ago
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EveWhere there's a hole, there's a way. [HIATUS]
I'll take the bj from the ugly chick. Air dances do nothing for me.
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8 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
12 for me. I don't want to be any higher than that.
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8 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Shailynn, based on everything you've said, if it had been *her* idea I think it would've gone much differently. If you'd paged through the names of nearby clubs on your phone at dinner, and let her "notice" that there was a strip club nearby, you could have had playful conversation around it and she might've even suggested it. And then you might have had the night of your life. Live and learn!
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9 years ago
If you've never had extras in a strip club before, you're unlikely to get them anytime soon. But once you do get them for the first time, it's like a red light goes on and you'll get them more frequently after that. Good luck, but sorry that it's kind of a catch 22.
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10 years ago
If you have a significant other, I would strongly recommend not friending her on Facebook. There is too much risk associated with that. You are much better off getting her cell number and communicating with her via text.
Btw, she probably gave you her real name and it is her real Facebook account. I have had several dancers that trust me do this. I never friend them on FB, but I have most of their cell numbers.
It is better to be safe than sorry. If you get screwed, you'll never forgive yourself.
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10 years ago
Clubber, the driver of the motorcycle was 39 years old.
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10 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
Motor I agree. I've noticed that it's huge in Pennsylvania and Maryland and that part of the country. I really hate it.
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10 years ago
Every few months I shave the entire area with a straight razor. So sometimes I have a bush and other times not. I would say that most young girls appreciate the effort. The cougars not so much, Probably 80/20 in favor of the razor, Also I started shaving in my 40's.
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10 years ago
I think your best bet is pretending that the hooker is just a friend of yours. If the hooker looks like a hooker she may figure it out, but you have better chance of success that way in either case by not specifically saying it.
You could do the bartender first and then bring up the idea. I think the first time with you also being with a hooker would freak her out even if she might be into it.
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10 years ago
TxVegas, the girls tend to know who does and who doesn't. It is extras friendly, but not from everyone and you have to be careful because the club is not 100% tolerant.
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10 years ago
Too much junk is sloppy looking, I agree.
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10 years ago
I think the best strategy is to not do more than a couple of dances at a time with a new (to you) dancer. It's tougher for them to miscount when only counting to 2. Once you know them well and gain some level of mutual trust, they are much less likely to rip you off.
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11 years ago
My opinion is that if she is going to touch it, she'll do it eventually without you actually asking. Some won't, but I can usually tell and give up on them sooner rather than later. I never just whip it out. Part of the excitement for me is hoping that the dancer will do it. About 6 months ago I hung out with a dancer at my favorite club for about the 4th time in a 6 month period and bought her a bunch of drinks as I usually had. Alright, maybe a few more than usual. This was a dancer that I enjoyed hanging out with. Intelligent and attractive. We then did a few dances, during which things got a bit heated, as they usually had on prior visits. This time, however, she asked me if she could play with it (she had never even touched it previously). I told her that she didn't need to ask, but yes I would love that. She started by going up the shorts leg. She then proceeded to pull it out and eventually give me a bbbj til I shot a huge load in her mouth (about a minute later). She spat it out but not until I was completely done. This girl is definitely one of the better looking girls in the club, so I was a bit surprised (happily).
Next time I saw her after a few drinks she said that she doesn't usually do that and was a bit embarrassed by it. I didn't believe her but I told her that was fine and didn't expect that level of excitement from her every time. And her dances went back to being the same as before for several visits.
Then on a subsequent visit she told me that I am very attractive to her and that she wanted to hang out with me outside the club because we have a great time. I said sure (though I don't do that kind of thing very often I had a good feeling about this one since she seemed more normal than the usual dancer). I was a bit nervous about it but met her in a public place and we had a few drinks before she invited me back to her place. I was a bit hesitant but followed her back and she lived in a very nice complex. She made it a point to tell me that I better not try to pay her - that this was real. Boy was it ever. She has since quit dancing and has a real job. We are not dating but still meet for drinks and other extracurricular activites. I have not given her a dime, other than buying her drinks and paying for her parking once when we parked in the same garage.
The moral of this story is that patience pays off sometimes.
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11 years ago
It would have been really funny if she had tried to rip him off. He would have been pissed but not for the same reason as most of us!
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12 years ago
I have had both hj and bj at shadowcat's former favorite club at a table. In each case it was very crowded and I was surrounded by dancers I knew well. The time I got a bj at the table it shocked me but was really awesome - although it was unfortunate that I had just had one in the couch room (unbeknownst to the dancer) and couldn't get off again. Oh, and the dancer was intoxicated in each instance...
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12 years ago
Jeanne, this is a bit awkward.
Yes, I will marry you.
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12 years ago
I have been told that I resemble Prince Charles.
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12 years ago
Chinese/Polish at Men's Club in Charlotte, NC
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13 years ago
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mjx01Aspiring Global Hound
Those are all really bad. A few others: Chicago, Boston, Minnesota, and Washington DC.
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13 years ago
One of my favorites is now "dating" one of the club managers. The last time I saw her, she told me that she could not give me a bj that day since he was working, but she would still make me happy. After 1 song, she told me to keep an eye out and knelt down and gave me a fantastic bbbj.
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13 years ago
I wear whatever I would wear if I played golf that day. I live in the South, so 90% of the time it's shorts and a short sleeved polo. Always boxers, never commando. I don't think it matters all that much at the club I frequent since I know many dancers, but easier access usually works out in your favor. On the rare occasion I've had dancers ask why I'm wearing shorts and tell me that they usually avoid guys in shorts because they are looking for extras. I generally send them on their way because they have a bad attitude. Part of the enjoyment for me is the unknown, so when they make it known it is a huge turnoff.
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13 years ago
I wasn't able to get extras when I was younger. Once I had some initial success (after many failures) and better realized how to go about it, it became easier and easier. Obviously it varies based on the specific situation and at times it is not possible, but I don't typically put myself in a situation where I am looking for extras and 100% not able to get any. Do your research, know your clubs, and put some practice time in and you will probably succeed. I am a firm believer that you can get them anywhere, but obviously it is easier in certain states and locations. Read the reviews, and good luck.
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13 years ago
I've done it a few times in the past but would only do it now with a highly trusted dancer. Not worth the risk to me.