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Good article - well written with common sense advice. On the OTC topic I was probably stupid, but I saw a new dancer whose appearance mesmerized me. I did a few lap dances with her and offered VIP. She said I’ll tell you up front: nothing’s happening up there that can’t happen here. So I kept doing lap dances@$20 making it 10 dances. I gave her $200 & a $50 tip. I asked her schedule and every week I’d come in and do 10 lap dances. After 7 or 8 weeks I’d really gotten to know her and she knew me. I had her phone number, knew where her apartment was, knew she had no license or car and she asked me for details on what I had in mind for OTC. I told her I wanted a blow job, vaginal sex and to hold her body against mine for a long time. I wanted to know her in a way that was impossible in the club and that I’d like to have a relationship of sorts ( I was more than double her age). I told her that I HAD to have her and if it was no then I’d accept that and leave her alone. She then told me a ridiculously high price and for that we would go to her apartment with a king sized bed and she would be my sex slave for 24 hours. She finally agreed to four 6 hour trysts which were heavenly. We continued seeing each other at her apartment and I did stay overnight a couple of times. I ended up furnishing her apartment and she consistently beat me at chess. Her last night at the club she got in a terrible screaming match with the woman overseeing the dressing room from which she emerged crying & asking me to take her to VIP - no charge. She was crying and we had wild sex for which I was unprepared and ended up nutting in her bareback (I should have had your wallet). Then she just disappeared. We connected a few times later and she and her BF (who I met several times) have 2 kids and we lost track during the pandemic. Proof that OTC can work no matter what the first answer may be.

For many years I’ve known some exceptionally hot dancers who work afternoons but one or sometimes two nights per week when they are not on the schedule to work will arrive and go right to VIP with a regular customer and stay there for 2 or even 3 hours. Whether management charges full rate no one seems to know, not the bouncers, bartender, or other dancers.

In the past 18 months I’ve been seeing a woman whose ex made a ton of videos ( well done with good lighting, good camera, etc.). He has posted 30 or so on a “B” level site as well as Only Fans and social media sites. She (using my money) paid 40% of production costs for a 35 minute porn on an “A” list studio and will be paid 40% of residuals. She spent a good week scripting and rehearsing with the male star (10” but great girth). A month later she made another with the same male star for $5000. Neither one is being released due to a non-compete clause in her contract and her ex won’t take down his revenge porn. She and one of her fellow actresses really feel they’re a step above strippers in the heirachy of sex workers. We’ve had very limited time together but it’s been tons of fun when we have. She has repeatedly told me not to be jealous because “it’s only acting”. I asked if she’d find out how he “just acts” an erection. Just asking for a friend.

My ATF was in Florida for a couple of months and I had developed a “working relationship” with a very sexy Latina. We had met at her apartment several times and knew each other intimately. I stopped at the club with no expectation other than a drink with a good view. When she came on stage I was surprised because she had not been scheduled to work. I topped her well and she said she’d be out to see me. Shortly after she got off stage I could hear two women yelling at each other in the dressing room. I recognized my friend as one of the screamers and it was getting very heated when one of the bouncers went in and my friend came running out. She came right to me and pleaded for me to take her to VIP saying to pay the house fee for an hour and I didn’t need to pay her. We went upstairs and she breathlessly told me that the ducking house mother was going through her personal stuff in her locker and it got “a little physical” and she didn’t want to get fired so wanted to hide with me. Within 5 minutes she was nude and I had no pants or underwear on and we must have tried 10 positions in that hour. When the waitress shouted ( more minutes she straddled means started pumping me and I nutted. She exclaimed that she felt me cum inside her, but that’s ok. We got dressed and as we got downstairs the manager was waiting and fired her. She asked me to drive her home which I did and she kissed me good night, squeezed my privates and said she’d call me. Two days later I hadn’t heard from her, her apartment was empty and k didn’t hear from her again for about 6 weeks when she called to tell me she was pregnant. Being about 70 years old I knew I must be shooting blanks and I paused until she started laughing, saying she a nd her BF were expecting.

There was a dancer who’d been sucking my dick weekly for several months. One time we had just gotten into VIP and for some strange reason I took her face in my hands and started to lean in to kiss her and she yanked her head away. I asked what was wrong and she said, “Don’t kiss me. It’s too intimate.” Oh, thought I. Cock sucking’s not at all intimate.