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Andy was 12 months sober and holding down a fairly responsible job in FLA when I got a call from her recently. Sg He asked if she could live with me while she looked for a 4 week residential rehab program. She had appar3ntly relapsed but knew she couldn’t go that route again. I told her no, especially while using again. I wished her well and turned to my pornstar roommate. You only go this way once, I’m told.

Gammanu95 I think you described me perfectly _ lonely, bitter, old man, disowned by my family, with no friends left. My ATF has been living with a guy who just got sentenced to 10 years in Fla penitentiary and she called to ask if she could move in with me. I declined in that my off & on companion is living with me. I miss TUSCL but haven’t been in a club in a couple of years. My best all who might remember me. Gawker

Good article - well written with common sense advice. On the OTC topic I was probably stupid, but I saw a new dancer whose appearance mesmerized me. I did a few lap dances with her and offered VIP. She said I’ll tell you up front: nothing’s happening up there that can’t happen here. So I kept doing lap dances@$20 making it 10 dances. I gave her $200 & a $50 tip. I asked her schedule and every week I’d come in and do 10 lap dances. After 7 or 8 weeks I’d really gotten to know her and she knew me. I had her phone number, knew where her apartment was, knew she had no license or car and she asked me for details on what I had in mind for OTC. I told her I wanted a blow job, vaginal sex and to hold her body against mine for a long time. I wanted to know her in a way that was impossible in the club and that I’d like to have a relationship of sorts ( I was more than double her age). I told her that I HAD to have her and if it was no then I’d accept that and leave her alone. She then told me a ridiculously high price and for that we would go to her apartment with a king sized bed and she would be my sex slave for 24 hours. She finally agreed to four 6 hour trysts which were heavenly. We continued seeing each other at her apartment and I did stay overnight a couple of times. I ended up furnishing her apartment and she consistently beat me at chess. Her last night at the club she got in a terrible screaming match with the woman overseeing the dressing room from which she emerged crying & asking me to take her to VIP - no charge. She was crying and we had wild sex for which I was unprepared and ended up nutting in her bareback (I should have had your wallet). Then she just disappeared. We connected a few times later and she and her BF (who I met several times) have 2 kids and we lost track during the pandemic. Proof that OTC can work no matter what the first answer may be.

For many years I’ve known some exceptionally hot dancers who work afternoons but one or sometimes two nights per week when they are not on the schedule to work will arrive and go right to VIP with a regular customer and stay there for 2 or even 3 hours. Whether management charges full rate no one seems to know, not the bouncers, bartender, or other dancers.

In the past 18 months I’ve been seeing a woman whose ex made a ton of videos ( well done with good lighting, good camera, etc.). He has posted 30 or so on a “B” level site as well as Only Fans and social media sites. She (using my money) paid 40% of production costs for a 35 minute porn on an “A” list studio and will be paid 40% of residuals. She spent a good week scripting and rehearsing with the male star (10” but great girth). A month later she made another with the same male star for $5000. Neither one is being released due to a non-compete clause in her contract and her ex won’t take down his revenge porn. She and one of her fellow actresses really feel they’re a step above strippers in the heirachy of sex workers. We’ve had very limited time together but it’s been tons of fun when we have. She has repeatedly told me not to be jealous because “it’s only acting”. I asked if she’d find out how he “just acts” an erection. Just asking for a friend.