Is there any mileage available in the other 48 states?

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Leonard313
Michigan
From what I've read and experienced, there are essentially only 3 places in North America where "extras" are commonplace.

1) Mexico
2) Nevada (from escorts, brothels, not so much at standard clubs)
3) Detroit

Now, I can't speak for Mexico nor Nevada personally having never been there...Detroit I experienced first hand.

My question is, what about other states? What is it about these 3 areas that makes them so unique? I get Mexico, anything goes. And I sort of get Nevada because of the slightly different laws. But Detroit? What makes Detroit strip clubs any different than Gary IN, or Pittsburgh PA, or Houston TX?

Some will say "extras" are available everywhere for the right price, and perhaps they are right...but I have not seen it. I've heard about it, especially for regulars or high rollers, but I've not seen it.

It's just odd, as I've been to clubs in Canada, and you could barely touch. I've been to some fully nude Deja Vus where you had to sit on your hands. Been to clubs in Indiana and Illinois...pretty tame.

Perhaps it's money. I'm a firm believer that you can get anything you want if you're willing to spend enough cash. When I went to a club with $60-$80, you'd be lucky to get a girl to rub her boob on your cheek. When I bring $120-$200...might get a couple decent dances. Drop $400...might get some "mini-extra". $800-$900, you get laid. So maybe that's the ticket...it just comes down to cash.

And here's the other thing...once you've been to a club where you've gotten a great deal of mileage or "extras"...how do you feel when you go to a club that is more tame? Is it disappointing? Do you feel sort of cheated or insulted? Do you become that "asshole" that we see at strip clubs from time to time that loses respect for strippers and starts doing inappropriate things and gets kicked out?

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gillydon
13 years ago
From what I've read on here, you might also find extras in City of Industry, and some parts of Texas.

In some cases the clubs that are more tame have more attractive girls so you could just appreciate that I guess.
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brewerfan
13 years ago
I believe that it's about how much money you're willing to spend on a girl. If you show them the money, they will deliver. I also believe it's about how well known you are to the club.
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m00tpoint
13 years ago
We agree with Brewerfan. A lot of it is about being known as "safe" at the club. Being known as "safe and a good tipper" is even better. We are in the Chicago area and at our favorite club, "extras" are certainly offered. Sometimes, depending on the dancer and her potential for making $ that evening, they are sampled in the Flame Room ($30 per song) but most frequently they are reserved for VIP and Champagne Rooms there. Of course, in Chicago area, one also has to be prepared to tp tip the bouncer pretty substantially as well.
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trickystick
13 years ago
I wasn't able to get extras when I was younger. Once I had some initial success (after many failures) and better realized how to go about it, it became easier and easier. Obviously it varies based on the specific situation and at times it is not possible, but I don't typically put myself in a situation where I am looking for extras and 100% not able to get any. Do your research, know your clubs, and put some practice time in and you will probably succeed. I am a firm believer that you can get them anywhere, but obviously it is easier in certain states and locations. Read the reviews, and good luck.
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georgmicrodong
13 years ago
They're available most everywhere I've ever been.
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vincemichaels
13 years ago
All over the USA you can get mileage. Detroit is just one of many cities. Try the clubs in Houston, TX, several cities in Florida. There are dry spots. Check the reviews, you'll find our reviews to point you to interesting places.
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rell
13 years ago
thats true
you can get alot of mileage in baltimore
pretty much all over maryland
west virginia is pretty decent on mileage
im sure u can mileage is any state but dont try to get mileage in dc.. (its not a state) but theres NO mileage in dc..hell theres no lapdances in dc
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Cable
13 years ago
Try Shark Lounge in Daytona Beach
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Pablo Antonio
13 years ago
Are you talking about Mileage or Extras? Related but not equal.

Extras are a matter of finding the right girl and the right club. It doesn't always require you spendind $1000 on the club's hotest 10 dancer. In my experience, $300 or $400 spent on a solid 7 or 8 results in WAY better sex than the 10 who only wants your money.

Extras require a recon mission and a smooth hand. Start with the reports from this site, visit the club, choose a dancer who appeals to you and build a relationship. Unless you are a total asshole, eventually she will come around and soon you will have extras. How far is based on the personal morals of the dancer. Some touch, some give oral, and if you are really her type, some will give you FS. If she won't do as much as you want, go back to step one and re-start on another dancer.

Good luck.
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Pablo Antonio
13 years ago
Oh, I would add that strip clubs are not warehouses. They are places where girls who enjoy the sexual chase and sexual attention dance. If you want to pass go without playing the game then head to Adults or Hong Kong in Doug and extras are guaranteed.

Getting extras from our dancers here in the U.S. is a game of skill and chance. Guys like Player11 are masters at the game.

Me, I have to work hard at bat, but occasionally I hit the solo home run.
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Pablo Antonio
13 years ago
(Sorry for the re-post damn spell check changed words in my original post)

I would add that strip clubs are not whorehouses. They are places where girls who enjoy the sexual chase and sexual attention dance. If you want to pass go without playing the game then head to Adults or Hong Kong in Tijuana and extras are guaranteed.

Getting extras from our dancers here in the U.S. is a game of skill and chance. Guys like Player11 are masters at the game.

Me, I have to work hard at bat, but occasionally I hit the solo home run.
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georgmicrodong
13 years ago
Again with the "game" metaphor. It ain't that complex, and "mastery" comes folded in one's wallet.
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farmerart
13 years ago
Yes. And in Canada, too.
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gatorfan
13 years ago
IF you want extras ask the stripper for them it aint regional
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Digitech
13 years ago
Houston and East St. Louis are both well known on this website.
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Club_Goer_Seattle
13 years ago
Gillydon mentioned the city of Industry, California. Some of that same stretch of clubs is in adjoing La Puente, CA. Five clubs are located within two miles on Valley Blvd. in Industry, and La Puente. A couple of other clubs are a half mile south of Valley Blvd. There may be demographic reasons for it. COI has very little population to begin with. Most of the few residents it has are immigrant and if they speak English, it's as a second language. Very little community objection from those people. Also, it's right in the middle of the 10 million-population Los Angeles metropolitan area. Perhaps it's the competition factor that contributes to the high mileage factor there. www.zbone.com lists over 100 strip clubs in Southern California.
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sharkhunter
13 years ago
I believe it might be easy to get something extra from certain dancers that seem attracted to you and keep giving hints about wanting to hook up in some manner like out to eat or something else. However wanting to hook up with all of these dancers is another story. I think one dancer would be ready to move in with me if I lived a lot closer to the strip club. I'd have to think up some other excuse why I don't want her to move in. I find a lot of the girls around town to be a lot more attractive than the dancers I often see in strip clubs. The hot girl I posted about in another thread that ticked me off said she was from my town. I'm going to avoid her now.
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girlwatcher
13 years ago
In SF $600 got me laid. In Phx, one nite $1500 didn't, but the next nite at a different place $375 did. Arlington, VA, a dancer wanted to take me home for $0, but I was married so I passed. San Jose, CA, a dancer did come to my hotel room, though we both agreed not to have sex that night. We did both get naked and she cuddled with me while I masturbated. Very fun! Fort Lauderdale, FL, at the very first club I ever visited (29 years ago), a dancer offered sex (probably for money), but I declined. Extras were offered in LA (I declined), and were hinted at in San Diego. The dancer got rude with me when I was slow to understand the hint. I would say about 10% of the time, extras were available to me.
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Clubber
13 years ago
vm is way off target. Never anything happening in Florida, at least South Florida. Mostly we just read Bible scriptures to each other.
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mmdv26
13 years ago
If your fav club isn't mentioned in the comments above, get to know a dancer there by repeatedly going to the club to get dances from her. If the club is "conducive" to fooling around undetected, then you should get some very high mileage and probably extras from that dancer. If the club isn't so "conducive", it's probably because LE is watching closely, and you'll likely have to find a different club...maybe in a different state - except Ohio.
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Dougster
13 years ago
Anywhere there is strippers there is mileage.
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machinegun68
13 years ago
Plenty of mileage in Ohio, just in certain cities.
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Sperrz
13 years ago
Agree with m00tpoint. It takes a little work. I had an offer for everything up to FS from a dancer at Cheetahs in Phoenix (which is currently closed until who knows when), ITC or OTC for 200 bucks, just because she apparently felt comfortable with/knew me and another one with a manual happy ending in VIP. You'll have to gain their trust and things will get a lot easier, obviously depending on the dancer.
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inno123
13 years ago
I think we need to clarify some terms. Mileage means the degree of intimacy of the dance...within the expected parameters of the club. Extras is going above and beyond the normal expected parameters of the club. In other words getting sex at Adelitas is neither mileage nor extras because the place is a brothel.

In a typica1 US club mileage would be measured by how much you can touch and how much she can touch and extras involve acts that the local law envorcement might regard as prostitution.

So the number one and two items affecting both mileage and extras are the local laws and the local law enforcement's attitude about policing the activities inside of strip clubs. Club management simply reflects the outside pressures on them.

So while for example all of California has the same laws in the City of Industry there are no homeowners complaining on how the clubs are bringing down their property values. So the police take the attitude that so long as the clubs are orderly and peacefull they would rather have things going on in there than have streetwalkers.

And as another example in Canada independent escorts are legal but running a 'bawdy house' is definitly illegal so there is relatively little interest in getting sex inside of a club and thus different general expectations.
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jackslash
13 years ago
Detroit--strictly speaking--is not a state. :-)

Extras are not available in many clubs because of local laws, management policies and club layout. However, wherever there are strippers, there are OTC opportunities. If you ask 10 dancers for phone numbers, you will get about 5. Call those 5 and go from there.
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vincemichaels
13 years ago
Damn, Clubber !! Bring your bible next time we meet at Stir Crazy. We can read the scriptures to the dancers when they stop by on their tip walk. :)
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vincemichaels
13 years ago
Damn, Clubber !! I never knew you were a holy man !! Bring your bible next time we meet at Stir Crazy. We can read the scriptures to the dancers when they stop by on their tip walk. :)
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basketball
13 years ago
Philadelphia (Delaware Valley area):
Playhouse Lounge/NJ HJ's for 30/dance with certain girls
Champagne/NJ HJ/BJ/FS for 30/dance plus tip up to 100
Ballpark Tavern/PA HJ/BJ/FS same as above
Christines Cabaret/PA HJ/BJ 20/dance plus 20/60 tip

Gold Club, Atlantis, Scruples, Purple Orchid (all PA) offer similar.

Tootsies Cabaret in Miami has FS in the private rooms.
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DandyDan
13 years ago
I've had extras in clubs in Iowa and Kansas. And even in middle of nowhere South Dakota, I've had extras. Of course, in South Dakota, the only time to go, allegedly, is pheasant hunting season.
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Clubber
13 years ago
vm,

Yes, I do like holy. Especially if the correct woman is wrapped around them. :)
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zippy62
13 years ago
I do not get extras (no judgment against those who do...) but I figure if they are offered to a guy who isn't looking they must be fairly available. I have had offers in San Francisco, Baltimore, Niagara Falls (Canada side), Toronto, San Diego, and a couple of places in Ohio. Interestingly, I just returned from Detroit and had no offers there but only spent a total of a few hours clubbing.
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