From what I've read and experienced, there are essentially only 3 places in North America where "extras" are commonplace.
- Mexico
- Nevada (from escorts, brothels, not so much at standard clubs)
- Detroit
Now, I can't speak for Mexico nor Nevada personally having never been there...Detroit I experienced first hand.
My question is, what about other states? What is it about these 3 areas that makes them so unique? I get Mexico, anything goes. And I sort of get Nevada because of the slightly different laws. But Detroit? What makes Detroit strip clubs any different than Gary IN, or Pittsburgh PA, or Houston TX?
Some will say "extras" are available everywhere for the right price, and perhaps they are right...but I have not seen it. I've heard about it, especially for regulars or high rollers, but I've not seen it.
It's just odd, as I've been to clubs in Canada, and you could barely touch. I've been to some fully nude Deja Vus where you had to sit on your hands. Been to clubs in Indiana and Illinois...pretty tame.
Perhaps it's money. I'm a firm believer that you can get anything you want if you're willing to spend enough cash. When I went to a club with $60-$80, you'd be lucky to get a girl to rub her boob on your cheek. When I bring $120-$200...might get a couple decent dances. Drop $400...might get some "mini-extra". $800-$900, you get laid. So maybe that's the ticket...it just comes down to cash.
And here's the other thing...once you've been to a club where you've gotten a great deal of mileage or "extras"...how do you feel when you go to a club that is more tame? Is it disappointing? Do you feel sort of cheated or insulted? Do you become that "asshole" that we see at strip clubs from time to time that loses respect for strippers and starts doing inappropriate things and gets kicked out?


From what I've read on here, you might also find extras in City of Industry, and some parts of Texas.
In some cases the clubs that are more tame have more attractive girls so you could just appreciate that I guess.