So...a dancer fell asleep on me
footballguy
NC
I've gone with her a few times for 15 minutes and a few times for half an hour. Each time I've seen this girl the LD's get better and better and she gets a little more daring every time in VIP. So this hour long session started off just as good as all the others (if not better). About 15 minutes in she gets on top of me (facing me) and lays her top half on my chest while she grinds on me. I start caressing her ass and back, a couple minutes later the grinding slows down and comes to a stop. I think to myself there's no way she fell asleep (her shift had just started) so I asked if she was sleeping and she said no. I was enjoying her laying on me so I let her doze off for a couple songs. I even heard her lightly snoring a little.
After two songs I asked her to wake up and she resumed dancing. This whole pattern went on about 2 or 3 more times during the hour (she was in a different position every time she dozed off).
At the very end she dozed off again. They announced our time was up, she woke up and went right back to dancing on me. I told her our time was up and I didn't want her to get in trouble.
I asked how much I owed her and she said she felt bad and said I was probably angry that she didn't do what she normally does. I said it was ok and that I still enjoyed the time (which I did, it was my first GFE with a stripper). First she just said I could just pay her whatever but then she said she wanted to make it up to me and asked if I wanted fifteen more minutes.
At this point I realized the whole thing was probably a scam to get me to buy 15 more minutes but she said I didn't have to pay her for the extra time, I just had to pay the room fee which wasn't much.
So I payed for the extra 15 minutes and wow was it worth it. Let's just say I got the usual treatment in the extra time complete with a completely unexpected bonus.
This dancer tells me how comfortable she feels around me (I know it's just stripper talk) and is always so happy to see me (obviously she means my money) but I don't know whether I should feel ripped off by her falling asleep or if it's a sign that she really is comfortable with me. It's very far fetched but maybe she feel asleep cause I was caressing her instead of groping her and she even kissed me on the lips several times during the VIP time (and that wasn't the bonus surprise I got). 99% chance it's just SS.
Anyone else ever have a stripper fall asleep on them?
Also, she told me I should friend her on facebook. She told me her username so I figured it was just her club name with s fake last name.
Well I looked her up and the weird thing is it looks like it's her personal account (theres no pictures of looking like a stripper, there's pictures of her kid, and there even are pictures of what looks like her family, and her family is even tagged in some of the pics).
It could still be a fake last name but her profile says what city she lives in, where she went to high school, and it looks like a legit profile. There's no way she's using it to a tool to get guys to come to the SC.
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Fortunately not in the lap dance or VIP room, but has happened on the main floor, with a dancer cuddled up to me while I'm stroking her hair or massaging her neck. Might also have happened when I was telling her one of my many amusing anecdotes,
A dancer kept nodding off on me a few years ago. She was even trying to drink a Red Bull at the time.
Yes. But they were very drunk.
I'm Facebook friends with several strippers. I think the fact that she wants to be your friend on Facebook means she really, really likes you.
Also, I still can't figure out what to make of this facebook thing. It really does look like a legit profile. There's pictures of her family and friends and also comments from her friends. The name could be fake but there's other people on her friends list that have the same last name that also look legit. So it seems like in order for it to not be her actual last name she would have to have other people also using the fake name.
I thought it was a given that strippers wanted to keep their private life and work life separate. So why would she be mixing the two together? Like I said, it doesn't appear she is using her profile to bring guys to the club either.
1. It would be rather difficult to explain to my fiancé who this girl is if she saw that we became friends FB. I could try to hide it by deleting it from the news feed and blocking her posts from appearing on my timeline but that's still a little risky.
2. I'd still like to keep my private life private. Even if this is her actual personal account I'm still not crazy about her having access to all my friends and other info.
Is it possible she slipped up and gave me the name of her personal account instead of her stripper account? It's the only reason I can come up with.
@footballguy - Fiancé? You are on dangerous ground here. Seriously.
I'm not one to judge but why do you need strippers if you are engaged? The sex will get worse after you're married so if it's not good enough now to avoid the need for strippers what's it going to be like in 10 years. I'm sure you've thought this through .... In any event, absolutely do not do the Facebook thing under these circumstances. My ATF has shared details of her personal life with me, but I don't reciprocate. Keep your two lives separate unless you are happily single. This girl is probably either single or has some sort of fucked up bf that allows her to openly friend you. Or maybe she just has poor judgment.
I have a few dancers as FB friends and the fun part is you see a lot of familiar faces in their friends list! If you go to the same club a lot like I do, you get find out about lots of the other dancers. Be aware this is a huge risk to the dancers though as lots of clubs have a policy of firing them if they give out personal info.
I'm at a point in my life where no one is checking my FB postings and recommend that if you have a fiancé that you avoid getting personally involved with a stripper.
I definitely wouldn't use my real FB account to communicate with her.
BTW, since you are new here and haven't done a review - What region of the US are you assisting women catch up on their sleep? I have had a dancer or two fall asleep in my lap, but the clock was not ticking on my dime! A soothing touch can turn some on or put some to sleep - occasionally both! There is the lack of sleep factor and in my cases - what's been consumed/abused before my arrival.(drugs/alcohol).
Btw, she probably gave you her real name and it is her real Facebook account. I have had several dancers that trust me do this. I never friend them on FB, but I have most of their cell numbers.
It is better to be safe than sorry. If you get screwed, you'll never forgive yourself.
And I’ll be Mr. Cynical/Glass_Half_Empty guy:
+ IMO many/most dancers prefer to keep their private and dancer lives separate – so to me a dancer that is so free about giving a SC customer her personal FB page; is actually kinda a red flag
+ in my cynical mind when a dancer compliments a custy as to “what a nice guy he is” or “how comfortable she is w/ …” – to me this is just a long con – in my cynical mind; often times a dancer that thinks a custy is “great”; and tells him so; is often just reeling him in so she can get the most of out of the custy (e.g. “my car broke down and I need $$$ for the repairs – can you help me Mr. Favorite Custy and FB buddy”)
+ I can understand a dancer being tired especially if they are a single mom (i.e. having to get up early to get kids ready for school; etc) – but most of us can’t be falling asleep in our jobs; so the fact that she was aware that you had paid for a 1-HOUR VIP house fee + her tip – and still fell asleep b/c “she feels so comfortable with you” actually comes across to *me* as she is taking you for granted (and a ride) – with strippers; one needs to always proceed w/ caution and not let them cross the line b/c once they do they often want to be on “the other side of the line”
If I were a dancer though, I wouldn't even have a FB page. No good can come of it.
@Rockstar this dancer's page is the same way. It doesn't have any spam posts from random guys. She posts some stuff (and pics of her friends/family) and even tags them and they do the same when they post stuff. I don't see anything at all that could even be considered a subtle hint about her SC job.
I use a stage name on FB as it is a project site.
When they they fall asleep in VIP good for mileage. A guy I know - constr drifter has fucked them bareback when they fall asleep and says "rash of stripper pregnancies in that area when working project there"
Every time the dancer fell asleep on me I just stayed in the position I was in. I didn't grope her or anything either. I just caressed her back. Each time she dozed off I let her sleep for a few minutes before I would either shift around so she woke up or I'd nicely ask her to wake up.
If she had just waited till the last 15-20 minutes of our time to sleep I wouldn't have minded at all. I probably would have dozed off with her too lol.
Anyway, if she dozed off. She isn't respecting your time, or money, or you. Unless she gave extras early and you were satisfied, I could see the sleep technique so that you don't try to do it twice in the same hour. But I think she senses you are a bit if a romantic, and she's playing to it. Remember what Trixie told us about the stripper motto..."All it takes is one good guy"
As far as your other point, I agree. I wouldn't have minded if I got the extra first and then she slept. I kept thinking that I was about to get the extra (she always has) but then she would doze off again. I did end up flirting the extras at the very end (more than I have ever gotten from her too).
She also has never charged me for anything extra than the standard VIP dancer fee. I don't know if this is how she treats all her customers but ive gotten extras from two other dances and this wasn't the case with them.