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9 years ago
What they do and what they should do are completely different. One thing I see my ATF do is she brushes her hand across her target's back/shoulder as she walks by and gauges their reaction. Either they stop her or they're probable not ready, so she moves on. Works well in a busier environment.
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9 years ago
Too many guys fall into the "Us against them" trap and I myself at times am guilty of this as well. But at the end of the day they don't want to be seen as pieces of meat any more than we want to be seen as walking ATMs. The cynics will continue with their cynicism but I still hold that treating them well will make your time better.
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I don't care if they're lying as long as she's going along with where I want her to go.
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9 years ago
10s are thrown around loosely. There's SC 10s, real life 10s, and true 10s.
SC 10s are by far and away the hottest stripper at the club. RL 10s are the hottest girls/women seen in your life, dancer or not. And true 10s are most likely celebrities and super models who you'll never meet.
I've seen a few I'd call SC 10s, maybe 2 RL 10s, but when compared to the true 10s of a Jessica Alba etc they'd be at least a half notch below at 9.5.
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9 years ago
Depends. Part of it is to maybe persuade spending, but more so to dissuade cheapos/extras seeker. How silly does it sound to ask for a 40 BJ when she's talking $$$? Notice how I never said she doesn't or won't do play.
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9 years ago
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SubramanCar key and wallet dating your sister
My goto phrases: "Thanks for stopping by" preceded by "No thanks but" for the wanna dance types or "Thanks for stopping by" followed with "but I don't wanna waste any more of your time" for the plompers.
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Sure I like nice strippers, and I too think of myself as a nice guy. The thing is there's a list of things I like more; fun, sexy, spontaneous, flirty, with "nice" being lower down on the list for most guys and girls. Guys who are nice are also one-dimensional and boring and just play up that one card. In reality as Subraman stated above, they're not really nice, but are both spineless and manipulative.
Now if the girl is hot, fun, flirty, adventurous and happens to be nice, as in friendly or sweet, then she's got my full attention. But then again they're the ones that are the hardest to come by.
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9 years ago
@ rickdugan
Relax kiddo. This isn't about other girls, it's about him and what's stopping him from getting what he wants. Sure he can find somebody else, that is until she finds out she can get away with the same ole game.
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9 years ago
Agree with what's already been said. And I'm gonna add a little different POV. It's obvious how she makes you feel, but do you ever stop to think about how you make her feel? Now some may say it doesn't matter as long as she's paid but in your case it does since you seem to be wanting the GFE. As long as you can hold up your end she'll be able to hold up hers, provided that is what you want.
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9 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
You won't like my answers. I'll leave it at that.
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9 years ago
Great sex and marriage aren't mutually exclusive. For the man and the woman we'd both want someone who can satisfy us sexually. Sex workers may have more experience and in general be better at it, but doesn't mean they are the sole propietor of it. As far as dating sex workers as in a serious relationship, most men are too insecure. Too many men think that if a woman is grinding, taking off her clothes, dancing, etc for men automatically means she's also having sex with them too. Doesn't have to be the case.
To be fair there's a large percentage of women, sex worker or not, who are just as insecure. And just like a strong, secure woman, a strong, secure man isn't likely or willing to play the bs game of Jealousy.
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9 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
I'd rather have a girl willing than a girl desperate. The pity story is a total turn off, no matter how hot. Each guy makes his own determination though. Good luck.
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9 years ago
The above points out one of the big differences between the seasoned and the newbs: Knowing what you want. It sounds like you're throwing money at her and Hoping it goes somewhere fun instead of Leading it somewhere fun.
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I call waitress bullshit. If someone bought my table that cash better go to my pocket.
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9 years ago
Seen too many stripper shit to learn not to take it personally.
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9 years ago
Imma go against the grain and say your DS sounds like she's telling the truth. And heres why. She has just as much or more to lose from this than you do. If you're truly treating her well and spending this much on her, she'll be an idiot to want to jeopardize it. Unless, you're trying for more whilst spending less which I don't think you are. So I don't think she's lying, but doesn't mean you should cave either. That part is up to you and what you're willing to give up/get back in return.
But then again even if its the truth now, doesn't mean how you respond now will predict what she may or may not do in the future.
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9 years ago
Top 3
1. Always go to have fun.
2. As much as I love having my favorite, ALWAYS be prepared to have a few others in the line-up.
3. Corollary to 2. Never get too attached and never let her get too attached to you.
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9 years ago
Admitting this makes me the ultimate PL. With my fave if she's not with me I'd be just as good if she's with a guy who treats her just as well.
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9 years ago
Nothing major and only one girl I wished I got more connected with. Otherwise as others stated somebody else tends to come along.
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Hair can be a deal breaker. I've seen girls with awful or ragged hair that otherwise would be smoking hot completely turns me off. On the other end I've seen 6s with fantastic hair that instantly pushes them to an 8. It's a 2 point boost that any girl willing can have and amazes me how so many leave behind or worst take away.
Wrt to length, I prefer shoulder or longer.
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9 years ago
7+ no questions needed. 5 to 7 would need to show something more
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9 years ago
I can stop anytime I want to...
But srsly I'm not so much obsessed to sc as my atf. If it weren't for her I wouldn't go as often. As long as you're not going over budget or interfering w other aspects I see it as harmless fun.
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Never another dancer intruding on me but have had a dancer intrude Intrude on herself.
Was getting dances from hot girl when she yells to one of the managers "hey is [some guy] here yet" I figure its one of her big spenders and I'm too pussy whipped by her hotness to care. So I did what any guy in my shoe would do, kept dancing. :)
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9 years ago
and all of them will admit he's good in the sack. Cognitive dissonance and justifying her behavior W fantasy vs reality. Great guy vs great fuck.
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9 years ago
Late to the party, but worth discussing. start off w
"i'm up for a drink and we can talk about the dance. "
Nobody knows for certain what she means so its up to you to get her to clarify.