Every once in a while she'll find a good guy
Clackport
Washington
A couple of nights ago I heard another abusive unemployed boyfriend story from a dancer, and it made me realize I've never seen or heard a dancer ever be in a relationship with a good guy with a good job (besides me of course lol).
Have you seen these instances?
How rare is it?
Have you seen these instances?
How rare is it?
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I had a "relationship" with a dancer some time ago. I say "relationship" because she had sex with me for free. I wouldn't have called myself her boyfriend but maybe she thought I was. She latched on to me for dear life because she saw me as a "good guy." Where every other guy in her life got her pregnant, was a deadbeat, or a convicted felon. Some of those guys could tick multiethnic problems on their stripper boyfriend resume. Turns out I wasn't such a good guy either since I never told her about mrs shailynn but that was info she didn't need to know anyway! Lol
My point is, some strippers are drawn to that thoe of guy because nobody has ever existed like that in their life before. Others are scared of it and will push a good guy away as they think the good guy "good will" will somehow huer them down the road.
They also lean low mileage.
Toronto Sweetie asked me once (and only partly in jest) to marry her, an offer that I easily declined.
I think it happens, and do agree a stripper in a great relationship would be less likely to talk about it. But as a general rule, strippers hook up with horrible guys, because those are the guys who put up with them (and their poor judgement, flakiness, very deep trauma and emotional issues, potential substance abuse issues, etc.) for the longer term, unless they end up one of those 1-in-100 stories where they end up a trophy wife.
That, of course, is just a generality. I personally know a stripper who quit the business, ended up marrying a guy she met a year later, who was a good guy and had a fine job. He sent her back to college, they now have a family, and she's a (I am not making this up) elementary school teacher. It happens. But most strippers have no other options. Even when they land a "good guy" who is in love, she knows that as he starts to know her better and understand who/what he's dealing with, it won't last long. Particularly if he's the kind of guy who has other options.
Then she met a nice guy with his own business. They began dating. The guy, for some unknown reason, wanted her to stop dancing at the Detroit strip club. Even worse, he objected to her meeting me at my house.
She quit the business, moved in with the nice guy and now has a baby with him. Good for him and good for her. Bad for me.
My ATF is one of those *now*, but wasn't when I met her. In fact, she didn't qualify until after she quit stripping, so maybe she doesn't count for this discussion.
Yeah, that didn't work out so well... lol.
of young girls. Maybe some places in the south, they have slim pickin's.
I don't judge anybody's relationship as long as it doesn't involve kids that aren't being well cared for or trips to the emergency room. A lot of dancers are dancers because a normal job would drive them up the wall. No surprise they end up with a guy who is a kindred spirit. Except the guy doesn't have the option of a job similar to stripping. So she ends up being the one to bring in the money. Some dancer husbands are househusbands.