The Hideout

Tuscola, IL

Two Pearls in an Otherwise Disappointing Oyster Bed

On a Saturday night last month I arranged for a dancer friend to join me for dinner in Terre Haute, IN, where we both live, and then drive 1.5 hours to Tuscola, IL, where we…

Silver Bullet Bar

Urbana, IL

Fun evening at the Silver Bullet

I have hit the Silver Bullet hundreds of times going back to the 1990s ... it is one of my all-time favorite clubs! However, since I retired from my job in another Illinois city in…

Secrets Gentleman's Club

Tulsa, OK

Brief but pleasant weeknight fun at Secrets

I spent the night in Tulsa a while back to break up a long drive from Indiana to Texas and decided to check out Secrets, a club over in Sand Springs that I've had my…

2018: My Year of OTC Fun

Ever since I started clubbing in earnest in the mid 90s, I have kept a log of every strip club visit and (in recent years) OTC date. In this log I record the date, name of club, and names of dancers that I did dances or otherwise, um, engaged with. As I’ve related before, I was a very…

My OTC Career, Part 3: Nearly Perfect Boy-Girl Sleepovers

Intro -----= This is the third and final installment in a three-part series of articles on my checkered OTC career. In part 1 I described my unpromising OTC beginnings: two dinner-only dates with strippers and three dinner + BJ (or BJ + brunch) dates with the first stripper to entertain me in a hotel room In part 2 I described an…

My OTC Career, Part 2: A Veritable Shit Storm of Chaos

This is the second in a three-part series of articles on my checkered OTC career. In part 1 I described my unpromising OTC beginnings: two dinner-only dates with strippers and three dinner + BJ (or BJ + brunch) dates with one in particular. In this article I will describe an unbelievably bad first attempt at an overnight…