What do strippers think about customers (and what, if anything, should we do abo
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
Friday, August 21, 2015 6:54 AM
Other night the DS was sharing club stories with me and we got into a discussion about how she feels towards customers. The bottom line, she confirmed that she and many other dancers can't stand most customers.
A big reason is cause many treat her in a very disrespectful way. This takes dozens of forms but some are really sick, twisted, and cruel. And some of these idiots will spend money to verbally abuse her, so on a slow night she feels like she has to take it. These guys poison the waters for the rest of us.
A second reason is that every guy wants to fuck her and with only a few exceptions she is not an extras girl and doesn't want to be. It gets old, especially because the creepy guys are the ones who push the hardest. It's clear to me that the vast majority of customers have no clue how to get OTC, and they pursue it in a way that not only guarantees failure but pisses her off. I might post later about what I've learned about how horribly most PLs are in seeking OTC.
Final reason is she is getting tired of old men fucking her with their eyes. Sometimes this creepy stalker stare is actually worse when she's off work with clothes on, but the club environment greatly contributes to her perception that she is nothing more than a body for sex. It also makes her suspicious of all men. ITC, the creepiest stares come from the cheap shits who give her one dollar (if that) and then eye fuck her for the entire time she is on stage.
Of course she says "not you," and I believe that to some extent. Not only cause I'm a PL but also because she spends so much time with me. She could get much of my money without such a time investment if she really pushed.
But still I'm a customer, and thus I am to some degree lumped together in her mind with this group of people. Just another reminder that we can't fall for the fantasy. She's not a girlfriend even though when we are together she is the absolutely perfect girlfriend.
Conversations like this remind me to treat dancers respectfully, especially the ones I'm not interested in. I never want to come across as one of the demeaning assholes who contribute to dancers hating customers.
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