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8 years ago
@ subraman
You're right. It was more the timing that made it odd but in retrospect it was likely she was focused/distracted on something else.
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8 years ago
Petite, pretty face, with fun personality.
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8 years ago
@ chessmaster
You're probably right. Do you mind telling what and why it happened...
@ ppwh
Me thinks you're right about the frame, which during our conversation it was entertaining so she was invested, until I changed it to something not so entertaining.
@ K
Don't think she's an OTC type, and if so it's low-volume, high dollar.
@ papi
that's the thing, every time we text, she usually leads it to when am I gonna see her.
Not hung up on it, thought it was kinda strange. Thanks for the replies.
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8 years ago
I may get horny, but I can't have bad sex. I won't... Rather rub one out than throw a hotdog down a hallway.
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8 years ago
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flagoonerEverything written by this member is a fact.
NOthing wrong with feelings... as long as you can control them and recognize it for what it is.
I enjoy my fave when I see her and when I think about her. I know its one way and always know when, how often, and how much I'll spend to keep it all under control.
If it is getting out of control. Start small. Delete her number.
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8 years ago
W my atf I don't keep track of dances and sometimes she's having fun where she loses track too. Prolly has lead to over counting but I know it has also lead to under. Either way I'm having fun.
However if it was blatant like how the op describes, id either start telling your new dancers upfront how many to start with or if she's a fave still end it there that night, but tease her about it next time that she's not gonna try it again...
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9 years ago
I see it as any other service industry "friend" How close or friendly are you with your bartender, doctor, dentist, etc. You can have great conversations with them and friendly if you run into them in the streets, but how many are you actually friends with, where if you didn't come for their services would you still see?
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9 years ago
Scouting new talent generally starts off with 2-3, more if she's great and 1 and done if she's terrible. Afterwards when I cont to see her if we keep the vibe fun, I'll go 5-8.
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9 years ago
I figured the responses would fall under one of two broad categories: bragging rights vs experience. One's not better than the other.
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9 years ago
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SubramanCar key and wallet dating your sister
Good ones. I forget who said it here: something along the lines of "just bc a dancer tells you about her life, doesn't mean you're a part of hers"
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9 years ago
Always have a backup plan. That said, if I liked her enough, I'd give her a chance to see what she has to say about it. It might be enough to leverage a better offer or better deal. Otherwise, if it bothered me enough just Next her and move on...
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9 years ago
I have a simple rule: If it enhances the experience I play along, if not I ignore it. Everything is seen as entertainment.
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9 years ago
Amount worked is all over the map so I'd break it down to by the hour. I'd say 80-100 per hour, working 3 shifts, 5 hours is typical. I'm talking ITC w no extras.
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9 years ago
Know your limits and know what you want. If it's no big deal to you and you're getting a good return on investment, go for it. Too many guys worried about "being taken advantage of" Setting your boundaries on your terms, means not having to worry about it.
Good luck.
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9 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
It's predatory if you use their weakness to your advantage. Guilt, desperation, drunkenness, it doesn't matter. Now, knowing how to present yourself for a fairer price is not the same thing...
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9 years ago
Interesting topic: I would say
1. How to open. Both what lines and with sets (either 1, 2, or groups) Amazing how so many go about this wrong.
2. How to set boundaries without pushing customers away
and
3. How to work the room/club to your advantage.
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9 years ago
To be fair too, women have longer memories and memories of them. By that I mean a man can get away with spending 600 on a fat, crackheaded hooker, and 2 months later all will be forgiven and forgotten. A woman OTOH fvcks 87 yo Mr. Droopy Balls for 80 bucks and it never gets forgotten. He gets a redemption story, whereas she does not.
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9 years ago
SS or real is the wrong question. What I look for is this girl playful, fun, flirty. She could be pulling SS or telling the god honest truth, I don't care. As long as she does it in an upbeat, positive attitude, everything else is secondary.
And for me, the cool, down-to-earth chick, who I can have a real conversation with 9/10 times here in the SC, will get the equivalent of being friend-zoned i.e. won't be getting much from my wallet. YMMV
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9 years ago
It's amazing how recounting a story $100 becomes $500 or the fat, stanky guy becomes this good looking stud. The embellishment of that which cannot be verified.
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9 years ago
Most don't post about things that paint them in a negative light. And even if they do, there's always some 'justification' i.e. was drunk, was overpaid vs the real reason.
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9 years ago
No, you shouldn't. Know your value and if anything, tease her about it. The more freedom you give her the more fun she'll give you.
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9 years ago
I don't give out my number. I take theirs. Big difference. That, and I only get it after seen her more than a few times and get the sense she won't annoy me afterwards.
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
She(Wednesday) is one of the cool chicks there.
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9 years ago
Strippers and females in general are/can be hard to read, esp if you only see them in limited setting. My ATF recently seems to be up-playing? her girl-next-door vibe here recently as opposed to when I first met her, she appeared more of the party girl type. Maybe she's playing the role she thought I wanted (I'm on the younger looking side) but after getting to know her she's opening up. Who knows? She does appear more comfortable and chatty talking GND than party-girl though, but that could be bc that's what I'm looking for.
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9 years ago
Beautiful read. Touching. Not in that it happens, but in that it was so well told and so well written. I hope the writer good luck.