No respect for my time
MrDeuce
Illinois
I texted a favorite yesterday, telling her I would be in her city this afternoon and would like to spend some time with her. I specified that I would arrive at 1:30 and had to leave at 3 or so, asking if she was working, to which she replied "Yes I am I would love to see you :)"
Today I texted her again around 12:30, saying that something had come up and I would be there about 2:15. Her reply: "OK perfect i'm excited". Sure enough I got there at 2:10, but she arrived at 2:40, left the dressing room after 3 . . . and sat with someone else! I left, telling her we would try again another day.
PL that I am, I returned to her club around 6:30, tipped her on stage again, and thought we had agreed to a half-hour VIP as soon as she was done. She went to the dressing room "to freshen up" and, to my amazement, came out in street clothes and went out to the parking lot "to get my charger". I waited 20 minutes and left again, spotting her sitting in the passenger seat of a car with a sketchy-looking guy. She actually ducked when she saw me (or perhaps DeAndre the Dealer was getting a thank-you beej!).
She texted me "Why did you leave :(", to which I responded: "Could you really not wait till 8 to sit in the parking lot with your boyfriend or dealer or whoever he is? You have no respect for my time I'm out." No reply.
I have mixed feelings. She is seriously hot, with a beautiful face and large natural tits. We've done one set of lap dances and one (rather lame) VIP. On the other hand, I hate getting dissed twice in the same afternoon by the same girl. Should I move on? My gut feeling is that she's one of those strippers who are so attractive that they don't have to have any manners at all to get what they want from men. To think that I turned down some eager 6's today while waiting for this 9.5!
Today I texted her again around 12:30, saying that something had come up and I would be there about 2:15. Her reply: "OK perfect i'm excited". Sure enough I got there at 2:10, but she arrived at 2:40, left the dressing room after 3 . . . and sat with someone else! I left, telling her we would try again another day.
PL that I am, I returned to her club around 6:30, tipped her on stage again, and thought we had agreed to a half-hour VIP as soon as she was done. She went to the dressing room "to freshen up" and, to my amazement, came out in street clothes and went out to the parking lot "to get my charger". I waited 20 minutes and left again, spotting her sitting in the passenger seat of a car with a sketchy-looking guy. She actually ducked when she saw me (or perhaps DeAndre the Dealer was getting a thank-you beej!).
She texted me "Why did you leave :(", to which I responded: "Could you really not wait till 8 to sit in the parking lot with your boyfriend or dealer or whoever he is? You have no respect for my time I'm out." No reply.
I have mixed feelings. She is seriously hot, with a beautiful face and large natural tits. We've done one set of lap dances and one (rather lame) VIP. On the other hand, I hate getting dissed twice in the same afternoon by the same girl. Should I move on? My gut feeling is that she's one of those strippers who are so attractive that they don't have to have any manners at all to get what they want from men. To think that I turned down some eager 6's today while waiting for this 9.5!
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1) I don't care how hot she is. If she has no respect for you or your time, you have no need for her.
2) Again, I don't care how hot she is. If she gives you such a lukewarm performance but you're still drooling over her, slap yourself silly, count to ten, slap yourself again, and then think seriously on if you should be pursuing her.
This is our problem. We would never put up with this kind of shit from an ugly woman or a man. I've had strippers treat me disrespectfully, but I forgive and forget once they stick their tits in my face.
Of course if the DS ever did this to me, I'd be a mental and emotional basket case. I talk big, but I'm just as much of a PL as everybody else.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0H8WU8yuDT…
Cons: literally everything else.
Not worth it.
I personally would just kick her to the curb
(But that gorgeous face! Those fabulous funbags! The *promises* she makes for our next VIP!)
I'll be strong. There are indeed plenty of fish in the ocean.
(But that gorgeous face! Those fabulous funbags! The *promises* she makes for our next VIP!)
I'll be strong. There are indeed plenty of fish in the ocean."
Stay strong and stay brilliant! She should have told the guy she sat with "I've promised somebody else a dance" and come over to give you a good time!
I used to blackball strippers that did me wrong (over-counted; ignored me; etc) – but the more I SC the less I expect of these chicks and in my mind many of their lives are so fucked up that they can't help themselves and perhaps their flakiness w/ us is not the worst of it and maybe just the tip of the dysfunctional iceberg.
If I'm going to get upset at every stripper that does not act appropriately I'm going to be upset a lot (and I'm already upset a lot LOL).
Strippers are what they are – if they were good girls they wold not be strippers – I now “try” to go w/ the flow – if a stripper is treating me well; I enjoy it; if she's not; then I focus on someone else (no use crying over spilled milk).
If she turns you on; then enjoy her when she treats you well and ignore when she's not.
And to be fair (not that I'm calling you out b/c I'm sure it was out of your control) – you did say you'd be there at a certain time then showed up at another time – so you sorta flaked yourself.
Expecting strippers to act appropriately is like expecting excellent customer service at the DMV – it is what it is – we have to visit both from time to time and just hope for the best but should not be surprised at the reality.
The truth in your post is that we can't allow strippers' flakiness to ruin our day. When I left her club for the second time yesterday, I drove straight to another regular haunt of mine and got several lap dances from three favorites, ending with an excellent lapgasm. Life is still good :)