Comments by houjack (page 3)

I would tell her. The dudes an asshole.

This is my favorite topic, because every time I can say with pride I wear pajama bottoms. Only place I ever wear them is at the club. All black, no patterns, incredibly soft. Commando. Most comments from dancers are along the lines of "oh, soft, nice" or "oh, you're prepared!" The grinding dancers say they appreciate it.

I definitely agree. Once I find a girl that does that I like, why dump her ass? Sure, having alternates and see others, obviously, but moving on seems crazy if she's what I want. It's nice to have a sure thing, and be confident you're going to have a good time. Also, it seems you can really stretch the value of a dollar a lot further when seeing a girl on a regular basis. I also like the friendship aspect too. Of course, being mindful it's only a friendship while they continue to get my money, but still, it can be nice.

The same way you get off having sex with your hand, lol. It's not rocket science. When your hand is stroking your cock I doubt you're thinking about how much you want your hand. You would probably go soft or never even get hard. If she's doing it right she's probably in a position very close to sex, just imagine you're inside her. Pro tip, the less layers (and thinner) between you and her the better off you'll be. Lose the boxers at least.

Pointed up so the grinding friction is on the underside. Working more to the bottom, towards the balls and less the tip.

I don't stage tip at all, I just wait for her to finish her set and come back.

Thanks for clarifying Paul. That's similar to what I do as well. Although I don't even mention it. After seeing them a few times and making my LDK obvious each time, they dance in a way that I get it every time after that.

Paul, I'm sure I'm gonna sound retarded but how did those conversations go? While she is sitting with you before getting dances, do you just straight up say "I am planning to jizz in my pants." I'm curious on the reactions you get. I'm not so direct, I just ask them to stay in certain positions while getting dances, and then go for it.

Just make 350K annually. Then you can enjoy strippers and save for retirement. It's almost too easy to be a rich stud.

There are certain dancers where you can tell they want to get you off. You know after the first dance. Anyone who has LDK'd has probably met one. I've never met one that admitted to keep track or anything though. The closest is those that admit noticing I finished, and reacting a whole number of different ways. One giggled at me, another said "don't be embarrased, I've had guys do that." Some ask for extra, some don't even say a word, and some just say "I guess you're done getting dances then?" Now I'm curious though, maybe I'll ask a few how often dudes jizz in their pants.

Yes. I'm similar to DC, but not to that degree. I keep track of a lot of things. I know how many women I've been with. I know how many OTCs I've done. Since I track my expenses with detail I even know how much money I've given/paid to every sex worker I've seen more than once. I even know how many times I've been to McDonalds this year.

Usually pretty close to the door to the dressing room. So I can flag down a girl as she heads out to the main area.

Yes, both. Prefer the left.

A couple things I don't really care about: Eyelashes - One girl apologized after our OTC session because she didn't have her lashes. If she hadn't said anything I wouldn't have known. Heels - The actual shoe/shape/brand, even the height doesn't matter. I do prefer heels though, makes ass look better in my opinion.

Yeah, once. As soon as i saw her I thought to myself "oh shit, she's gonna ruin me" because I knew I'd want to see her much more often than I could afford. I thought of her a lot in between visits.

Just take a break for a day or two, lol. Also, different pants? I suggest thin as possible, no zipper. Less layers means less material causing issues. Something smooth too, that's why jeans suck, worst of all world's, thick, zipper and like sandpaper.

Unfortunately for the Lakers I don't think they'll get any of those three. Just another year of being used as leverage. However, if they pull the impossible, that would be a team I would love to watch.

I'm with shadowcat, petite lips are preferred.

lol, so you pay her to provide protection for her? Is that like reverse pimping?

When I go I intentionally act disinterested in purpose so I receive less attention. I'm usually there for a fav, and she knows I'm there for her. I'd rather other girls don't waste their time. If they do sit, I'll tell them early on I'm waiting for another girl. I don't need to sit and chat with a pretty girl. If I wanted that I'd blab with attractive co-workers for free. On the occasions when I'm looking for something new, I'll usually get their attention, or ask a waitress to get them, or just go on up to them. Hasn't been a problem that every other time I've seen them I've basically ignored them. They act just as happy as a girl I've never seen before when they take my money.

It's probably how you talk with them. They can tell you want to date them so they throw out bf comparison compliments to keep your attention. Also, you did (and maybe still do) believe it. You've had many threads making that quite obvious.

Either that or her baby daddy came around and convinced her to get back with him by taking her money to buy the latest Xbox game. Love is in the air.

These girls aren't logical, get over it. You'll find another eventually.

Based in my experience, 5 seems most likely.

Find another, no need to talk to her any more. Don't worry about doing something to get back at her or whatever, just move on.