Why would a stripper who wants $$$ reject an obviously easy target?
Icey
I put your ATF on a winning team
So say there is a guy. He's around her age, tall, muscular build, chicano tattoos, same background, likes the same shit, and he has money. He doesnt look like a nice guy or anything. Club security was kinda on him. I guess that turned her on or at least got her attention. She even asked him to scare some guy at the club who she thought was creepy.
So for a month, they spend every day together, he buys her anything she wants, takes her anywhere she wants to go.
By the end of the month, she quit working pretty much. They spent their days smoking weed and making love. Lots of talking, they pretty much knew everything about each other and accepted each other for even the most fucked up shit. There was not a single argument or disagreement, nothing but great times. He was cool with her job, didn't see it as a big deal.
Then they both go out of town to visit family. Its the first time they're apart in a month.
Before he went, she covered him with hickeys and took tons of selfies on his phone. She was extremely clingy before he left. Told him over and over again how no one has ever treated her so well, or felt what he does for her. By then, she was vulnerable, she would even blush when he'd tell her how beautiful she is...
When they come back and she ignores him. Cuts off communication.
Realistically. She could lead this guy on and have him just keep buying her shit because she knows he would.
What would make a stripper give up on an arrangement like this? Could someone really fake those feelings for so long? Even if the feelings weren't real.... Why not just stay for the $$$?????
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What can get her back? Probably the charm you lack. Else you’d just pick up the phone, coax her to answer, and talk your way out of it somehow. Instead of posting here. My 2 ¢.
And someone so into money should love a needy guy if she wants to use him. I mean the whole point is to get a guy willing to spend.
SJG
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Should never act like money buys girl, or like they sell sex or sex acts.
SJG
Do you really expect a different result?
There’s a word for that.
Do you really expect a different result?
There’s a word for that.
It is very hard to understand strippers in general. There is no use dwelling over a sudden change in behavior.
The one thing that I know for sure is that strippers are first motivated by money. When you are in the club, she is acting all clingy because ever dollar you spend on another girl is a dollar she won’t get. She is playing on your big weakness, which is that you are conpletely into her. She is using it to her advantage because the end result will be that you will empty your wallet for her.
But also, keep in mind, she is also a woman. Things probably got to the point where you were crossing a line she didn’t want you to cross. It is typical for women in general, not just strippers, to cut off communication with a guy that has proven to be too clingy. They do it for their own safety.
My advice would be to let it go. Others may suggest going to a different club and finding a new favorite, but I think it would be a better idea to stay away from strip clubs and occupy your time with other things that will help get your mind off this situation.
The situation is just plain weird. Theres no logic to it
Who knows man? Even regular girls in traditional relationships can be flakey
Tienes un pito tan pequeño, and she let's us niggas up in there :)
Two Mexican dudes walk into a bar, which is sorta dumb because after the first one did it you figured the 2nd one would have walked around it... LMAO
Una mu'whore :)
Because they only had one car :)
If you can’t think of anything else - and you can’t sleep - because of this girl - then go to her and get your answers. I’m sure it won’t be what you want to hear, but you’ll have an answer.
None of us know you, and none of us know her. So our answers are speculation based on your description of what happened. You are going to pick each answer apart - and that’s fine - but you need to talk to this girl.
I don’t think you will get her back, but you need answers.
Just be prepared to have my answer the door when you show up with a used condom hanging on my 12 inch DICK
Also, you're a troll.
The simple answer is that she's not into you. Whatever mental gymnastics you keep trying to go through, that much is clear or she would have come back. Really that's all you need to know - the rest is just clingy butt hurt nonsense
But not only is obsessing about the "why" of it pointless, but it is also futile. Maybe you became more trouble than you were worth? Maybe you started to freak her out? Maybe she has an SO elsewhere? Maybe she just got bored with you? Maybe she took as much from you ans she thought she was going to get? Who the fuck knows?
We weren't there, so we don't know all of the minutiae that went on between the two of you. But given the way you are fixating over this, it sounds like she made the right call.
How could she fake those emotions? Simple - she is a stripper. Strippers make a living off of faking emotions in order to get paid. If she was the Martha Homemaker type, she wouldn't be stripping in the first place. Guys without much experience with clubs struggle to imagine how another human being can fake these emotions so well, but most eventually learn, sometimes the hard way (like you).
If you are needy - and she’s attracted to guys who fuck her friends - what could possibly go wrong?
She could have seen TUSCL open on his phone because there isn't a night mode yet, create a user account here and then start offering guys Skype sessions and to meet up in Austin.
SJG
Answer:
I did the most fucked up thing, fucked her friend.
So I guess we the OP wasn't asking for help but posting a riddle?
Well riddle me this
What do you get when you cross a Mexican that don't speak no Spanish, obviously suffering from a small penis complex, who like to post riddles that seem like questions?
PhishBoyStick 2.0
And GACA posted the harsh truth about the needy mess who keeps posting to get his feelings validated by a bunch of disgruntled perverts.