I see lots of posts on here about LDK (cum in pants). Many dancers also strive to finish off their customers with an LDK.
I would never be able to get an LDK. To ejaculate dick has to be hard and full. Even if wearing boxers, pants get in the way. So dick stays in semi rigid state - and that in itself is enjoyable - but not sufficient to result in orgasm. Is DO implied in LDK?
very good question sir, i mastered the LDK by not jerking off and viewing porn. the only time i ejaculate is in the presence of a women. i also ejaculate prematurelury. if theres a girl im having sex with for the 1st time i usually blow my load before penetration, so what i do is blow my load in her face and try to get it in her eyes. they usually giggle or call me an ass for getting it on their face. then i wait for round two to have sexual intercourse.
^ so Round 1 is appetizer, Round 2 main course. Is there room for desert?
@PaulDrake - good points.
I have ITC sex paranoia. Hard to explain to eager cuban dancers so "sexo hotel o mi casa" lets me know if dancer is cool with OTC.
I view the LDK as a just different form of getting off like jacking off, getting an HJ, BJ, and having FS. It's not as good as FS, just about tied with a BJ, and better than jacking off and getting an HJ on my scale of getting my nut.
If I focus and with the right stimulation and a super hot all natural stripper and I am horny enough in advance, I can get it done in less than 8 min or two songs. If I wanted I could stretch it out indefinitely. It's just a matter of being able to control my nut to me. Not really any different than FS. And I don't consider myself a premature ejaculator either. I have had sex in 5 min for a "quickie" and I can have over half an hour of porno sex. Again with me it is a matter of mastering control of my libido.
Plus like PaulDrake said in my teenage years I used to dry hump GFs and masturbate in LDK like positions.
I just grind the shit out of them
And pop it goes
^^ thank you for the info and your name says it all ! ... curious what's the most lap dances you have had in a single visit (full length songs)
sorry Trish above comment was for SirLap
2 rounds thats it for me. i dont really have that much stamina, i would like too but i cant control the nut. im pretty average too, but once i get it, i get it again. i think confort is a key. i onced shaved a girls assholes hairs after meeting her.
i would recommend no jerking off or porn for a month. go to the club, and i think youll pop that ldk cherry.
Damn Trish you are hot (if thats you in the avatar). A club blessed with a playgirl like you - I'd say is a lucky club.
Do you get customers who request you to slow down - so they can extend the pleasure?
@Salty.Nutz - "i would recommend no jerking off or porn for a month. go to the club, and i think youll pop that ldk cherry."
If it's not DO - unlikely.
For a period of a couple years I had the problem of how NOT to LDK! Seemed like just about any kind of grind in a lap dance resulted in a quick LDK. Last few years I’ve gotten that under control and can control if I have a LDK to when I really want one and can deal with the mess. My problem with my CF is that I’d like to LDK with her but I’m DO for most of the dance and really don’t want to deal with that mess!
@rogertex I had an awesome former ATF about three years ago. She had a perfect 10 body and 8 face and gave great mileage where she let me control her pace and pressure and allowed me to grind back any way that I liked. I could LDK easily in 3 songs with her, but one visit I decided to prolong my edge and prevent LDK for as long as possible. I LDKed in 9 songs which also had transition songs every two.
On a side note I used to get 30min VIPs with my ATF DS and like clockwork I could time my LDK to end in 25-30 min without checking on the time.
To me you first have to learn to LDK as quickly as possible at first but that is just the beginning. When you get used to it, the better fun is when you know you can LDK but then you intentionally prevent it. And then when you finally want to LDK it just feels that much better because you are not stressed about it and have the control to make it happen when you are in the best feeling position. That's when LDKs get really fun.
Also an LDK is awesome in its own way because the cum is not so intense that you have to stop. After I LDK in mid song I love feeling of the post cum stimulation like a light grind or OTP titty fuck as much as the LDK itself. After cumming from fucking a tight wet pussy I am spent and oversensitive as compared to an LDK cum.
@rogertex if you have a lap dance position(s) that gives you the biggest erection (s) over others, then your goal is to keep that position(s) long enough to LDK. The more positions like this, the better. And unfortunately if you cannot get a full erection from a lap dance then yes it will be a problem.
Also the timing of this thread is interesting because earlier today with my backup CF I had an LOL half LDK for the first time ever. I had LDKed hard with her yesterday and today I wanted more of it but I just wasn't as horny. So towards the end of the second dance I'm getting stressed that I won't be able to to do it but she is letting me grind her exactly like I like and unfortunately the song ended (and I didn't want to pay for another) so I had to let her go. But also I had been trying to force it so I thought I could be just in the midst of cumming just as she got up but unfortunately I let her go too early and gave a single cum squirt but did not finish because there was no more stimulation on my dick. It still felt good but obviously not as good as full ejaculation. LOL it's probably going to make my next LDK easier.
@Salty.Nutz - I am doing pretty much the same thing regarding porn. I pretty much stopped looking at it. I can afford to go to the SC 1-2 times a week and enjoy that a lot more. After 8 months of that it has actually gotten harder to orgasm from masturbation which is pretty weird.
@PD, i stopped looking a porn because i started viewing real hard core shit like facial abuse and noticed i wanted to try some of the shit. if you guys like porn bloopers check out efukt...its hillarious
I definitely do not strive to make a customer LDK. Trust me, I want to keep a man in VIP for as long as possible, by giving sensual dances and even being charming and even a bit whimsical if we are back there for I while and I want to keep it interesting. But I can't help it that some guys LDK very easily.
@Nina I view LDKing as a PL's ultimate responsibility and not the stripper's, but that said if I know a stripper is trying to drag mine out for more songs, I am not going to "cum" back for more later.
@pauldrake - I used to grind myself in my teenage years, but it usually takes me 3-4 songs to LDK. That too with her having to kiss me, rub her boobies in my face and dirty talk with me.
To each his own, but it helps to have a nearly naked women grinding on you to give you that combo visual and touch, even without penetration. Many times just grabbing their toned athletic arms and tight ass grinding is enough to stimulate the mind into thinking sex is happening. I’ve been inside enough pussy in my life I don’t need reminding how it feels, edkevislku when I get it st home anytime I want it.
Read my system for getting yourself off in a strip clubs with a vibrator and remote control. The system is perfect for a guy in your situation.
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The same way you get off having sex with your hand, lol.
It's not rocket science. When your hand is stroking your cock I doubt you're thinking about how much you want your hand. You would probably go soft or never even get hard.
If she's doing it right she's probably in a position very close to sex, just imagine you're inside her.
Pro tip, the less layers (and thinner) between you and her the better off you'll be. Lose the boxers at least.
"i definitely do not strive to make a customer LDK."
the majority of the dancers are this way, they will try to milk you. Thats why i either buy 1 ($20) dance or LDK (3 songs 60 + 40 tip). im completely opposite from sirdancealot, it's the dancers job to get me to nut. for instance if i only buy 1 dance because a dancer is not LDK friendly, that means i tried something but she moved because she didnt like the path we were going. its similar to how you lead will dancing country music, if you feel me. However, shes going to see my bank roll which is 1 to 2 Gs deep. on my next visit i will still buy a dance from her, and this time she'll get me over the edge.
i give them 3 strikes (=$60), otherwise, i cross them off for good.
@Salty.Nutz I will definitely move on if I don't get my LDK in three songs just like you and often I can tell how it will turn out in one song.
I think we are a lot alike in that I want strippers to LDK me. All I'm saying is that I don't expect it and that I learned to LDK on my own with some strippers, even ones that think they can stretch things out and I will still visit them as long as they do "enough" to let me LDK on my own. It's because of strippers that try to pull away to stretch things out that I'm like this. And LOL the better be hot as fuck so I can get horny by looking at them.
I just pay my CF a minimum number of songs that is higher than what I need.
That also works as I consider the extra a tip.
Paying for ejaculation services is just using your money to exacerbate your own sexual frustration.
SJG
10 Warning Body Signs You Shouldn't Ignore youtube.com
^ Says the guy who pays AMP whores for DFK.
I assume LDKers are born not made - one is either an LDKer or not - I don't think one can learn how to LDK - you can probably perfect the craft but you have to be an LDKer to begin with - IMO
^^^i hear what youre saying. We are like squirters if we were women
Friction+Gym shorts-briefs=ldk
Friction plus full erection plus a beautiful bitch plus finger up your ass plus her sucking your breast equals busting off like a rocket in ones own pants
Note to self: Never get a dance with a stripper after juice has. NEVER.
I guess I agree with Papi Chulo: you simply can or can't. Not sure if it's something you learn or can change. If the girl grinding you feels good enough for both your body and mind then it happens. I reckon for people who can't LDK, just the act of a girl grinding on them isn't enough of a turn on. It may feel somewhat good, but not good enough. Like feeling on boobs feels great, but just that act alone isn't enough to get someone off. I'm thinking it's the same thing with dances.
I remember when I first started going to strip clubs. When getting a good series of dances I'd continually ask her to stop so I wouldn't cum. Then one time I just said fuck it and let it go. After that, never looked back. Why go home with blue balls, might as well release and be satisfied.
^^^ I crossed the point of no return when I said “fuck it”, too, and many years ago It opened a whole new reality to me.
Non LDKers also get really turned-on - I don't think it's a matter of turn-on level
I'm also a quick fuck in actually sex....second round I can do a girl right
Because of this I eat pussy like a champion to make up for the issue
Usually first round is mutual oral sex then round two is vaginal delivery
I kinda think this is the key component to the LDK DNA but some deny this....deep down I think their lies
LDK guy's are quick in the sack period
Interesting experiences fellas.
@mal_hodgson bypassed LDK altogther.
@SirLap @PaulDrake @Salty - great stories.
@Nina - ha ha smart dancer. "But I can't help it that some guys LDK very easily." - in actuality you too hot - guy not be blamed.
@js69 - have to search for your system.
@SJG - r u building a computer?
@Papi - no shit. if my dick can't breath ain't gonna bust a nut
@LDK82 - the king hath spoken
@rane1234 - "Friction+Gym shorts-briefs=ldk" Juice wants to add fingerfuck+breastsuck - damn that'll make it too complicated.
@TFP @Meat72 @houjack @crazy - thanks for your comments.
So in summary DO is not necessary to LDK - just the intent, desire, training and good genes.
@papi - I think you are right that some guys can LDK easily and some can't. However I think pretty much any guy could under extreme circumstances. At one point decades ago I totally stopped masturbating and went like 6 months without orgasm. The first time after that was really easy. I think almost any guy could LDK after a long orgasm free spell like that.
@PaulDrake I agree. Abstain from all forms of ejaculation and don't go to a strip club for at least a month and then go do a 30 min high mileage VIP with the hottest stripper you can find and then see if you can LDK.
When I first started going to strip clubs and it was new and exciting, I have to admit it had happened to me a couple times in bed dances where the stripper was grinding on me and rubbing OTP with her hands as she kissed my neck.
now,. 10+ years later of going to strip clubs, no way its going to happen while I have my pants on. Ive gotten so many dances before in a night that my crotch felt like the girl was still sitting on it the next morning from being ground on by girls throughout the night.
I remember one dancer telling me I should wear sweat pants to the club one night, I just looked at her and said maybe next time. Never had a dancer say that to me before, I still enjoy getting lap dances but making a mess in my pants seems to be out of my wheelhouse now.
^^^ No way was that stripperweb girl who advised you to wear sweatpants. Those girls look down on any guy seeking enjoyment out of a dance.
^^^ Maybe if the Guy was gay, he wouldn’t want to.
I want to LDK with strippers because it feels nearly as good as a good BJ and I don't want extras and FS. And for the same cost of some lap dances without LDK I can get an LDK for "free" in that context. Lap dances are so much better with an LDK than without. And I pay the same.
^^^ Well that’s because you’re not gay, you’re a heterosexual male.
No dick out is not required for LDKs. And if you don't get fully erect while wearing pants then LDK is going to be impossible. I think some guys get and stay erect much easier than others. I know personally I could never wear a condom as I am not erect enough until the dance starts.
I think a lot of guys who can LDK easily: