Comments by houjack (page 4)

Only you know how much is too much. If you can afford it, whatever "afford it" means to you, then enjoy. If you're wondering if you're getting your money's worth. Again, that's up to you, you'll drive yourself insane trying to compare your pussy per dollar with others.

I'm kinda picky about what I'm looking for, so once I find a girl I like I usually stick with her until she's done with me. I keep looking for backups though, because you just never know when it's going to end. Anyway​, my ATF I saw about 35 times over two years. I would've seen her more, but she had long (3-6 month) breaks where she quit. She's done for good now though, sucks. My CF I've seen about 40 times in 18 months, again there were a couple month or two gaps. She's moving away in a month. Sadness. Most don't last more than 3 months.

Yeah, some people are intimidated or afraid to be on stage in front of a crowd, like public speaking. Plus for these girls there is the added stress of being naked and having their body be judged by a bunch of horny strange men.

Lots of good advice here. Not much to add. I agree saying so much is unnecessary and may be taken as manipulation by unpicked girls. Just browse at various clubs and shifts until you find one that is what you want. Then pounce, lol. You never know when it'll happen either, don't force it. Just try to enjoy variety even if that really isn't your thing. I've gone multiple months without a fav, and then other times had multiple girls I wanna see on a regular basis. You just never know, turnover is high.

Do something like post a hash of the IP maybe? To stop stalking dudes from doing geoip lookups. Maybe the first 10 hex characters of the sha-3 or blake2b hash of the IP or something. You could also use a salt, just for giggles. Example: first 10 char of blake2b(IP+"tuslcsecretcode")

When you sit down at a table and the waitress brings over your drink (without you saying a word) and says "you threw me off, a different table! Bambi isn't here today." To which you reply, "I know. She's on her way."

location It's the closest to home and work, so I can "work late" and not raise suspicion (I hope). Anywhere else and travel time is so long I wouldn't have time to do anything once I go there.

I'm not sure if it's where I go, or that I go daytime, but dress codes are not enforced. I wear sweatpants or pajama bottoms. I've seen t-shirts and basketball shorts.

Your mistake was not communicating, giving stage tip doesn't communicate any information, use words. If you had asked the first time you stage tipped her you would have learned she was busy and could then make other plans.

I don't have much to add, just to echo the comments here, they are flakes. Getting a no reply is normal behavior. Sometimes they can ghost for a week (or more), but you try the next and it's like nothing happened. No sense of etiquette or responsibility. It used to get me all messed up, wondering how they thought this was an adequate way to function. Now I don't give a shit. I just assume no reply and move on to another, maybe try again next week, depending how much (or little) I wanna see them again. The no reply or flake can be for any number of reasons, or no reason. It's not worthwhile to even speculate. If you still wanna try again, give it a few days or week, then try again. Or just pass, it's up to you. Advice: Assume no reply, and try not to get worked up at all when they act like flaking is normal or whatever, you'll drive yourself insane if you care in the slightest about getting common courtesy from these girls.

I also pronounce it Tussell, like Russell

Not sure... Some guys just like to help out another struggling human being, similar to charity, but personal I guess.

I would think it would at least mean busting a nut. You never really know. It could just mean they felt they got their money's worth or it was a worthwhile visit.

I'm not a fan of chit chat while getting dances either. Dirty talk is a nice bonus, but silence seems to be the norm lately.

I once had a waitress relay a story to me where a guy got up to 5000 and then offered his truck to her, lol. When inebriated and the little head is in complete control things can get retarded.

35 The girls are nice enough to say that I look the same age as them.

Skibum, you're the one calling dudes minute men, and I dunno what the rest of that nonsense was. Who exactly is the one that's hysterical?

Maybe skibum isn't aware dudes have some control of when they jizz? I'm not sure why he would believe that, unless he can't control his dick and he pisses at random or something.

Any dancer with over a month of experience knows the hazards of grinding/stimulating your dick. No need to ask permission, if she's grinding away she knows what can happen. If you wanna go commando, then go ahead.

What fantasy are they killing when you see Facebook? That they're available and might date you? Honestly curious. If it's that they don't make logical or good decisions, then yes, don't get involved, that's a majority of what you're gonna see.

Even if she was faking, just enjoy it as if it's real. That's what I do.

If you are paying all of them before they are due it doesn't matter at all. Just wait till next week and pay them all off at the same time.

OTC is a totally different game. It's not as simple as, "let's go OTC." Obviously you know that, but even still, think of the possible downsides and extra shit you gotta go through: * Flakes - There's other girls in the club if a dancer doesn't show. * Timing - Some dudes just can't wait around an extra hour or two waiting for the girl to arrive. * Scheduling - lol, we all know how easy this is * Chances of being spotted - Not and issue for some, but maybe it is an issue, or dude is paranoid And all that even if you find one that's willing. Now, I still think it's worth it, but I'm sure there's other reasons which may have some guys prefer not to do it.

In the beginning I might have done any of what you suggested, tip more, make suggestions, etc. But I've finally come to the conclusion there's just no helping these girls. I lay out what I want and what I'm offering. Whether she accepts, and how/where she decides to make her money is up to her.

I told my wife when dating there was no fucking way I was gonna have our paychecks go to a joint account. At the time, I said this because I saw a married coworker talking about how he needed permission to buy a video game. Fuck that noise. I told my wife there was no way I was gonna do that. Joint account for joint bills. We put equal amounts in there. Everything else can spend as we please. I'm so glad we set that precedent. Especially now that I club, lol.