Question for LDKers

Yep, underside. I once told a dancer that and was surprised that she didn't know. But she definitely took to it after that.

Underside, totally. TBH no other area being rubbed is stimulating unless the underside is grinding something.

I've seen videos of dudes getting a dance or an assjob where the girl is rubbing her butt on either just the tip of his dick or on the top part. Maybe it was doing something doesn't him but that would do zip zero nada for me.

Also, I thought this was the case with any guy getting a dance.

Are there any guys who get stimulation from her grinding on other parts of your dick besides the underside?

I never understood why a customer would briefly stop me in the middle of a dance to adjust himself. Now I have a couple of suspicions, lol.

I don't LDK but adjust myself often for comfort or just to feel a different sensation

Entire shaft. The good ones know how to work the entire length. I rather have it pointed down so I Shoot my load onto the floor, instead of in my shorts.

Dancers aren’t allowed to get on their hands and knees any more.

"wiener" - possibly the best slang term for a guys wang.

Papi and I prefer blowjobs over LDK.

^ not on each other though - our friendship is platonic - I swear - don't let twentyfive tell you otherwise

Top side for me. My dick curves a little downward to it is extremely uncomfortable to tuck it upwards.

@Sirlapdancealot - My experience is really similar regarding teenage masturbation and grinding with GFs in high school.

I'm shocked to come back after awhile and find some semi-serious discussions without some of the crazy posts that used to come along with these discussions. Bravo!

I find it most comfortable and most pleasurable to have it pointing upward. The nerves of the penis are usually concentrated there. That said, I was once in an odd position of having it leaning to the side at 3 o'clock (or maybe that should be 3 o'cock) and it felt awesome and I LDK'd. Caught me off guard.

But then again...I have no issues with LDK'ing......in my mind, that's kind of the point of going to the club. (unless you can get better than a lapdance....which I've never had in a club.

I haven't really noticed. But I'm not a true LDKer. I'm more of a lots and lots of precum discharge sort of guy. Though yes my dick is pretty much straight up pitching a tent. The Ohio lap dances are pretty tame & lame compare to the down south, out west, detroit, or where ever skibum lives, from what I read. It's more like hands-off hover-grind out here, IME. Works for me. :)

Pointed up so the grinding friction is on the underside. Working more to the bottom, towards the balls and less the tip.

Once had a dancer point at my zipper and say "move that up there" meaning pointing up so I would shoot away from her, and she would grind on the under side. Kind of clinical about it. But then she proceeded to do an exceptional job so no complaints.

@PrimO this discussion is actually on topic and civil because 'you know who' hasn't popped in here yet. Other non LDKers like Twentyfive and Dominic have posted but because they are civil human beings who know how to engage in conversation there's been no mudflinging.

And as for your 3 o'clock positioning, I've actually enjoyed that myself, more so during standing dances. I always start off with it pointed up and while grinding the dancer it sometimes falls to the side in the 9 o'clock position. The grind continues but pretty much as my dick broadsiding one of her ass cheeks instead of in between. Feels just as good to me.

Paying money for ejaculation services is just using money to further exacerbate your own sexual frustration.

SJG

Ha, almost like clockwork. Not gonna even engage this dude.

Nice job being on topic everyone else.

Free form civilian styled interactions, starting in the front room, and showing generosity. Best if you select and approach the girl yourself.

SJG

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I prefer topside, but dancers seem to prefer underside. There are advantages each way, but I'll admit I didn't know about topside advantages until a couple weekends ago at Tootsies. Topside feels more like real action, but underside makes the ride home easier.

omgoodness. i love all the grind.

I did not know this. I wonder how my regulars would feel about me suggesting this to them.

underside and God bless the tip.

Oops, meant to say I didn't know about underside advantages.

Amelia, learn from more free form intimate interactions. Forget LDKing stuff.

SJG

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Underneath for sure but I've had many times recently were I can cum from the top part getting fully stimulation with her ass...good long and circular motion makes me bust off

I agree the best ones know how to work every inch

Yep