Comparing you to her boyfriend or ex SS

Simple. The assumption in their thinking is that you a person so pathetic they have to pay to for girls to pretend to like a) needs to have his ego stroked and b) is so gullible he will believe anything she tells him

Being compared more favorable will have some loser coming back and spending money because it does stroke their ego.

It’s an interesting tactic. It’s definitely SS.

Considering my expectation of most stripper Bf’s being parasites - a dancer doesn’t need to talk my expectations down!

I don't think I would care for the comparison based on what I have seen and heard of most boyfriends.......

FWIW everyone pays on some level. Be grateful that in your/our case it is only with cash.

Why do you always talk about strippers and being their boyfriend? Haven’t we told you enough times not to go down that rabbit hole?

They don't always lie. I believe a stripper when she tells me I have more money than her boyfriend.

-->"Why do you always talk about strippers and being their boyfriend? Haven’t we told you enough times not to go down that rabbit hole?"

Agree... I have to admit I find it downright cringey to read some of these threads. Hell, I even think the term "stripper shit" is a bit bitchified way to complain about the fact that it hurts your feelings when she pretends to be romantically interested, but I seem to be the only one.

In any case, you either need to accept it as hustle (basically, her doing the job you're paying her for), or have the emotional strength to enjoy it in the moment and then let it go after you've had your way with her.

Yeah being compared to a stripper boyfriend might not the best thing lol.

Sometimes I just roll with it. It's easier.

At other times (if it's getting old), I'll give her the "spare me" look. If she realizes it's not your first rodeo, and you don't require ego fluffing, they'll lay off.

I can't remember any dancer ever doing that to me. I think the closest was a black dancer telling me that I was black where it counted.

^^^ No dancer ever told me that, but a couple told me that I'm "Asian from the waist down". I'm pretty sure that's a compliment

It's probably how you talk with them. They can tell you want to date them so they throw out bf comparison compliments to keep your attention.

Also, you did (and maybe still do) believe it. You've had many threads making that quite obvious.

No dancer ever told me that, but a couple told me that I'm "Asian from the waist down". I'm pretty sure that's a compliment

Lmao ya it means your pockets are fat, But then again you don't spend money

Never has a stripper compare me to their boyfriend but have had several compare me to their Dad. Ha ha

Maybe I should try a different tactic on my next club trip. If I don’t shower, maybe spray myself with pot fragrance, ignore the dancers while gaming on my phone - that might get some pertinent comparisons to stripper boyfriends.

After the girls approach me - I’ll tell them that I have no money. I was supposed to meet a few unemployed buddies here so we could talk about putting a punk rock band together. We all suck as musicians - but we won’t sell out and go mainstream!

LOL

Cashman.....lol.....I wish I could share something that just hit my cell the past 3 days but this is so spot on.....

just replace rock with RAP and move your hands as you talk.......and wear sunglasses regardless of how dark it is indoors or out.

Warrenboy75 that’s pretty funny! I would be far less convincing if I tried to convince a dancer I was a rapper!

I’m thinking the punk thing might work for me! I’ll wear shorts, doc martens, a wool cap, and a cut off T-shirt - and I won’t shower for a few days in advance. The sunglasses will work too.