What to wear
Rabnud
California
As someone still very knew to strip clubs I was hoping to get some recommendations on what to wear to a club.
I have heard guys saying they wear everything ranging from nice slacks to freeballing in gym shorts. But the former would be too loose without a belt (which I suspect would hurt the dancer) and the later I have heard creeps out the dancers.
To the dancers, do have a preference for what the clients wear?
I have heard guys saying they wear everything ranging from nice slacks to freeballing in gym shorts. But the former would be too loose without a belt (which I suspect would hurt the dancer) and the later I have heard creeps out the dancers.
To the dancers, do have a preference for what the clients wear?
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But I think it’s because dancers can just work at a club that doesn’t allow basketball shorts.
All I can think of is to make sure you smell nice.
Personally, I don’t have much of a preference. And I have no problem dancing on someone with or without a belt. Just call whatever club you wanna go to and see if they have a dress code. And wear whatever you want within those rules.
A button down collared shirt works nicely. Nothing fancy - just soft cotton - that is smooth against the skin.
Comfortable dress shoes are a good choice too. It seems that dancers notice footwear.
I prefer to wear a belt, but it can easily be removed to get more comfortable.
I never go commando. I know others enjoy it - but I prefer to keep my underoo’s on.
Most comments from dancers are along the lines of "oh, soft, nice" or "oh, you're prepared!"
The grinding dancers say they appreciate it.
Its about what you want. If you want a girl grinding on your lap, something soft might be in order. If you want to nuzzle and grope, who cares about the texture of your pants. On that topic, if they're coming off for the fun part anyway, what may matter is ease of getting them off/on. I'm not gonna be comfortable commando in basketball shorts, and I've got little interest in a girl grinding on my lap. So I'd never wear that shit. If you are comfortable in that, and want that, maybe its a good choice.
Because if things go the way I want, the pants will be around my ankles anyway, so it doesn’t matter whether or not she likes them.
Then one night at a dive circa-2005 I saw a dude wearing sweatpants and my first thought was "damn the nerve of that guy" - but, it did get me thinking that would be a better way to enjoy lap-dances - about a month or two later bought some dark-grey sweats and went commando and found it more comfortable and didn't really notice not being able to get w/ dancers - the first sweats were very soft but a bit thick - I then got a thin pair of black sweats that actually had pockets and at first sight kinda looked like regular-slacks - this was all pre-TUSCL.
Joined TUSCL in early-2012 and learned about a lot of vets enjoying dayshift and wearing commando-shorts - after a while I decided to try dayshift SCing and wearing commando shorts and that is now my PL M.O. - I live in Miami where is hot year-round and wearing shorts everywhere is not uncommon - these days if I visit a mid-tier to upscale club at night I still don't feel comfortable wearing my perv-shorts even though I can probably get away w/ it in most clubs - but when I do nightshift, particularly at a more upscale club, it's usually more to hang-out/kill-some-time vs getting my PL-freak-on thus wearing shorts is not that critical - but I still usually go commando but wear thin black lounge-pants that have pockets and kinda look like slacks at first sight.
It's a matter of personal preference but a lot of PLs seem to be reluctant w.r.t. perv-wear b/c "of what people may think" - as far as I'm concerned SCs are seedy places w/ seedy people and no-one is in a position to judge - i.e. why give a f*** what anyone thinks in a SC - they are no-better.
w.r.t. SC-wear - the first thing is obviously that some clubs do have a dress-code and often can be more enforced on nightshift - secondly it depends on the PL and "how much he cares about what people may think" - it will probably feel odd at first w.r.t. perv-wear, but after a short-while one barely gives it a second-thought; it's just about doing it.
w.r.t. dancers - for the most-part it all comes down to green - if your spending most will dance for you; and if they refuse to dance for me based on what I wear I respect that but that's not the type of dancer I wanna be spending my $$$ on anyway.
The only wardrobe thing that seems to peak their interest or change the interactions with me would be the watch choice. I can wear my Breitling and they could care less. It doesn’t particularly look very expensive. Wear the Rolex and they seem to come out of the woodwork.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZ35SOU9…
Heh, that's funny. I don't have much experience with this, other than my ATATF told me once I should get myself a Rolex. I know that "real" watch hounds don't seem to put Rolex on a pedestal, but maybe strippers do? Maybe it's like how "regular" people think Starbucks is good, and coffee hounds all know it's swill. That said, this kind of thing could definitely backfire, if it attracts the attention of the GPS or SW type girls, and/or automatically increases every girl's expectations. Right now, I'm getting a few hours of attention from the girls I want, for the cost of two VIPs... not sure what the Rolex would bring me. Perhaps a useful gimmick for the guys doing Saturday night and other sausagefest times, when it's a seller's market and hard to get strippers' attention?
I’ve worn a nice watch to clubs in the past - and I know it gets noticed. A dancer actually got off stage to mention that my watch wasn’t working. The watch was working - as she didn’t see the second hand moving. It was a very eye opening experience - as I never thought about it being noticed.
and i like my comfy shorts.