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4 years ago
To @nicespice and @wiffle waffle and any other dancer willing to chime in. Always a pleasure to hear your insights and follow up question: Have you noticed any change in income since joining TUSCL, either from developing regulars or possibly from lurkers/guys who don't regularly post?? Or even changing your approach from what you read from guys here??
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4 years ago
Strippers and porn stars I prefer blondes, Civvies and celebrities I gravitate towards brunettes. Either way I scoff at being referred to as a gentleman ;)
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4 years ago
Have fun and know your limits
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4 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
Are you wanting to part w/her completely or put her on rotation for one off visits down the line?? Either way, parting gift isn't the worst idea and move on. Future encounters you can always pre-empt when you get SB vibes.
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4 years ago
It's not about how much you make, but how much you save (and how well you invest it) Someone making half a mil but has the mcmansion, newest car, fanciest clothes, w/ kids in private school and a matching wife has less saved than another single man making 100k who drives that hooptie, subsidizes his living via roommates, and invests wisely, can create a higher net worth and have more disposable income.
NAAAASTY
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4 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Everywhere's a cluster fuck. Just bc you meet criteria of 1A or 1B don't expect to get it anytime soon unless you work at or are a patient at a facility that has it. Eligibility means nothing. It only matters can you get it, not are you prioritized. Roll out eligibility is a PR sham. Don't believe it.
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4 years ago
Dont care about pole tricks. At all. Only tip side stage, never main stage and have cut back on that. Useful to see who's there but usually will go tip out of boredom more so than getting her attention to come over afterwards nowadays.
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4 years ago
Conan was great. His budget dropped when he went to TBS and with it his writing staff and replaced by the irrelevant high school types that think that they're funny. His skits he's phoning it in bc he knows it's no good. Conan's still funny on his unscripted pieces.
NAAAASTY
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4 years ago
"What would it take to talk you out of here?"
Some variation of this. I say "How do I get you out of here?" Never to start the conversation but a throw away during the conversation. The first time isn't to get a yes, it's to plant the seed of where I'm heading. From there it's reading her reaction and getting a gauge of whether she's game or how much work you gotta put in.
NAAAASTY
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4 years ago
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hTvwjfPDSL0
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4 years ago
"do you know any other customer sites where OTC is discussed often? "
Used to frequent ECCIE where there were a few OTC discussions. Thinking back, vast majority was indeed ITC topics w/the occasional OTC sprinkle.
NAAAASTY
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4 years ago
Online forums, strippers get attacked for extras, patrons get attacked for overspending. Both involve money. Either threat to making it or threat on spending it, people get riled up.
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4 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
Damn rick I'd be burned out on posting about strippers way before banging strippers, but to each his own to what gets one going ;)
It's important to recognize burn out when it happens. Addicts burn out too, but they keep going without the pleasure. Do this bc it's fun, not bc it's habit.
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4 years ago
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loperjust looking for a little human contact along the way
Don't talk with her about things that turns you off. Lead the conversation to what you want. You can still be polite and friendly but never prolong a bad transaction.
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4 years ago
"we are keeping it a secret from our friend group" Nina
That'll be lots of fun, and sure to have plenty of hilarity with it. Esp once the first FRIEND finds out and you convince him to hide it bc the other FRIENDS don't know. Best part will be when that FRIEND finds your careless naked photo on the floor while eating a bucket of chicken and the other FRIENDS accuse him of being a pervert. But he turns it around and convinces the other FRIENDS it was you trying to seduce him and to keep the secret going, you play along. And when asked why, you sheepishly reply "bc I'm Nina"
Something similar happened in a TV show, think it was called: Six Companions and Their Crazy Adventures.
NAAAASTY
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4 years ago
2+ hrs. Meeting half-way is a big inconvenience. Meeting at either hers or mine would be a day or weekend trip. It can work if you're willing to wait and are occupied (school, internship, etc something to keep busy/out of trouble and a definite end.) The longer the wait the more you'll drift apart. I can't see doing more than 1 year maybe 2 if we grew up together or been together 2x as long. Wouldn't start an LD unless it was casual and open.
NAAAASTY
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4 years ago
Depends on how often I go, how long I'd stay, and what else I'm doing there. There's a difference between her being your sole purpose and highlight of a trip. The latter you'd have a good time even w/o her, the former it would only be a good time bc of her.
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4 years ago
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TetradonI'll act nicer if you'll act smarter.
Dudes need to lighten up, I don't have a dog in the fight other than to say review is to answer one thing; is it useful? That yes is different for different folks. A suggestion for founder is add a tiered review or super review system for anyone who's gone above and beyond for extended credit.
My 0.02
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4 years ago
Depends. Local clubs tend to pounce quicker vs new club like to get sense of the atmosphere. Busy clubs I like to see the lineup vs slower clubs less options available. In any cases I like to pick my girls vs having them come to me.
I like being the chooser, don't know why. Maybe it's the I'm buying vs being sold attitude.
NAAAASTY
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4 years ago
Still see them around and enjoy them in social settings, but would never choose to go myself.
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4 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
I gave a good little bit to charity this year, but have no idea the impact nor where it'll end up. I'm of the kind who rather give to someone willing to work for it and this time of year be generous about it.
Who knows, maybe she'll donate some of my generosity towards her own choice of charity and now my money's getting double the mileage ;)
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4 years ago
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TetradonI'll act nicer if you'll act smarter.
OF and camming's biggest draw is one thing, convenience. Combination of porn(and being able to direct it to boot) and interaction anytime, anywhere w/o having to leave home, and added anonymity makes it extremely convenient. Why get dressed, drive across town to a SC, and waste that time when you don't know what you're going to get is what the OF/cam supporters are thinking. OF/cam offers path of least resistance.
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4 years ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
SCs have been on the decline. Covid sped it up. Don't see it completely dying, but do see more girls shifting towards OF/social media platforms and SB/SD sites. Thing is, OF/IG/SM and the like girls have to put in initial effort to get a following, strippers make money day one. I see either 2 things happening, SC being even more transient w/regards to strippers d/t more options and/or strippers being stigmatized to a lower rank on the sex work totem pole d/t perceived low effort needed to be one. Both not a good sign. Caveat is, being a stripper with a large social media platform I see doing very well.
NAAAASTY
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4 years ago
Typically get flu shots each year so no different w/ this. Initially was concerned about potential long term side effects but more I look into it the safer it appears.
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4 years ago
"It’s usually older more experienced dancers that are willing to share $$$ and regulars. "
More girls could do this, and it'll increase their income. Lack of confidence, pettiness, among other reasons is why they don't. The older women understand the game better.
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