Challenge for Non-participating Dancers
FishHawk
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I check the Strip Club Dancers tab just about every time I come on to this site. To the best I can determine those that have been on the site the latest are on top of the list. Some of the names I see are big time contributors to the discussion forums like nicespice, Wiffle Waffle, PinkSugarDoll, etc. A few have a short bio and maybe a picture or two but never make or comment on discussion threads, Quite a few have no information at all.
I can understand a certain amount of shyness for those that have recently joined TUSCL. Some however, have been members for years and still check in from time to time.
Dancers, most of us value your input. A few of the guys will give you a hard time but you will find most of us supportive. So Dancers, comment on this thread or another thread or start one of your own. You may find benefit it raising your profile on this site.
I can understand a certain amount of shyness for those that have recently joined TUSCL. Some however, have been members for years and still check in from time to time.
Dancers, most of us value your input. A few of the guys will give you a hard time but you will find most of us supportive. So Dancers, comment on this thread or another thread or start one of your own. You may find benefit it raising your profile on this site.
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Despite some of the prominent opinions, no not every tuscler is going to play hardball for extras once spending goes past $100. I’ll be honest and say there are a select tiny few I wouldn’t be interested in meeting with again (and they probably feel the same about me likewise), but it wasn’t * so* negative that I’d publicly call anyone out. My experience may not be another dancer’s experience. And the ratio of “wouldn’t bother with again” as far as tuscl vs the general populace of a typical club is still WAY lower.
Any dancer who is exclusively the high end all-or-nothing type who expects a customer to either spend $500+ or fuck off, yeah I can understand if tuscl “isn’t the type you want to cater to”I could understand that mindset if you’re in (for example) Austin. (Or at least precovid. No idea what Austin is like now)
Also dancers who are in the make-it-rain type of places probably shouldn’t bother either.
But if anybody is in a more “mixed” club environment. As in, not too “ghetto” for this site and not too “prissy” either—then it may not be a bad idea to be open to people on this site. I’d say most tusclers are not ballers but they are “fair” with their spending and their sense of manners. Quite a few on here actually have a certain amount of social skills.
Probably the best way (in my opinion only) is to occasionally check on the site once every 3 weeks or so. If in a “tuscl destination” club—then sit back relax, and let the PMs come to you. Putting more work in to reach out is probably not as necessary, but feel free if you wish. If not in a “tuscl destination” club, then make the occasional discussion board post so people can get a sense of your personality. Probably once every three weeks or so—minimal effort and actual time in , and also the easiest way to dodge bs, but consistent enough to become “known” would be my guess of the best way to go about things from a customer meeting viewpoint. EndoessSummer, whenever she was posting, seemed to be a good example of this. Anything past that may drag you into flame wars and may alienate you to some. Ask me how I know. 😈.
The main benefit of the tuscl crowd in my opinion is the more relaxed type of meeting. Mostly because by that point you’re dealing with somebody who is more likely to happily embrace himself as a “PL” and you don’t have to watch what you say as much. You’re way less likely to deal with somebody wondering if being at a club means there is something wrong with him—and the work done to make him feel assured that it’s perfectly fine to be in a club enjoying things won’t be a thing.
Any dancer I’d say go for it and recommend not to be opposed to meeting with one or two people from this site in a club. And form opinions after that.
Don’t forget we have Subraman I mean if you’re really gonna sell it
And then for the strippers that I have met I was able to use TUSCL for coordination and communication on future meet ups. Also it's been helpful for working out any private dance limits and expectations in advance.
And not for nothing there really isn’t a better site out there for getting a feel for a strip club. SW doesn’t have this kind of info and certaintly not at this volume. My guess is a lot of dancers come on here because they want to read some of the reviews. If anything at the very least for gossip/name dropping aspect of some of them.
@25 that is true we do have Subraman. He’s a well adjusted PL with high charisma and a great job. When he walks into a club, I cover my fav with a blanket and sneak her out the back door. (Or just hide her in a lap dance booth he would never find her there) I simply won’t risk it.
I know a lot of private messaging goes on to try and make arrangements though, so that is at least a good benefit of having dancers on the site, even if they don't seem very active publicly.
NAAAASTY
I have actually made some customers from this site simply from interacting with you guys. I've also had some of you send me money when the pandemic first began and things shut down (which I genuinely and truly appreciate).
I get a lot of inquiries via private messages from people who have no past history on the site and have created their accounts the same month they're writing to me or that same day. I disregard those because I feel like they are people looking for something I don't provide or looking for cheap services. They could even be law enforcement trying to set someone up.
But otherwise I do enjoy my time on this site and I enjoy interacting with you guys and I have actually learned a lot from what advice given. Like I have said, a lot of girls have unrealistic expectations from this site and also in real life in clubs. Being on this site helps keep me in check with what's reasonable and from having such unrealistic expectations.
Where is desert scrub and what have you done with the body?
The perspective of most men here is kinda...expected, or predictable...so no conflicts for me there. I have made a few friends here and I have met maybe....ten of you? And every person EXCEPT for one has just been wonderful, respectful, and I can say I truly had a great time.
One funny store I have...I was expecting to meet someone at a club one day and I started talking to a gentleman and was like...is this?? Him?? Are you him?? He said no, I told him about the site and now he contributes here. Another great guy and someone who I enjoyed spending time with. ❤️
I would also say most of the inquiries I get on here are flaky people and THAT makes me jaded to message or attempt to meet etc. And I have had some frustrating interactions too. But mostly it has been a good experience here, so thank you all for everything and thank you to FishHawk for thinking of us. 👏🏼👏🏼
And also Waffle and NiceSpice have both been very nice and helpful to me as well, I respect them both and appreciate their contributions here as much as the men do. 💕
Hmm, not sure how much actual income from this site vs club only customers. My guess is either about the same or a slight increase. Generally, when I have met up with people from this site, it would have been from a most likely slower time of day anyways, so I’ll give it the advantage and guess it does some good. Yes, I have met a few individuals who either don’t or have barely ever posted on the site.
As far as approach changes, not sure. I guess I display my personality a bit more than I used to and more “myself”. 🤔 possibly from this site but then again, other things have changed too (like being at only 1 club for a year now without the customer turnover rate that I was accustomed to in other environments.) I may have to think more on that for a better answer.
This is our job and for most of us, including me, when we go home from our job we want to leave it at the office.
Largely though, there is too much that is generally not what women want to participate in. There is a post right now about “how many strip clubs have you cummed in, I wouldn’t go in a club if I knew I couldn’t cum in there,” like what woman is like oh look at this, great topic. No.
But what about access to the Dressing Room as a lure? Are you trying to say that such riveting discussion topics like 'Who do you think on here has the smallest penis?" isn't an amazing draw for a dancer trying to decide whether this place is worth her time? Say it ain't so! 😅
As I said many moons ago on the topic of adding dancers, you can have heavy trolling or organically grow dancer participation with a more "serious" (relative term lol) site, but not both. The problem is that you have to trade off some clicks today for the potential (but far from guaranteed) of broader participation tomorrow. It is a quandary to be sure.
I’m not sure how my presence on this site encourages or discourages other dancers. I would assume encourage—but then again I’m only going to see the vantage point of other dancers who I have messaged with. Which has been positive interactions. But hey, if my trolling is too off putting, the way I see it. it sets the stage for any other dancer to come in and automatically get praise from male posters on here who would rather focus their attention and money on the nicer ingenue. And many getting encouraged to go visit that dancer in a club and stick up for them against trolls, etc.
For better or worse, this site is going to be more hands-off. I don’t think that style is necessarily going to perma discourage participation per say. The more the mainstream social media companies crack-down on sex workers, the more I can see tuscl possibly become more appealing, if nothing else than being one of several options.
Just *speculating* here, my guess is that more than moderating vs not moderating—a lot of dancer encouragement will depend on whether a newer group of tusclers appear who aren’t deriding stuff like onlyfans or clubs that are more “urban-like”. I do think that breed of customer is growing, but they have been mostly quiet. There have been a couple of individuals on this site before who have reached out and asked me whether I had an onlyfans account so they do exist. And LinzeeDet herself has hinted that the number of those willing to subscribe is larger than the discussion boards would lead some to believe. So who knows, there is potential yet. I think dancers can handle their own against trolls—camsites and strip clubs themselves have plenty of negative types and plenty find a way to persevere. At least if they stick with that kind of stuff past a few months.
Only thang dat matter is da size of da shit truck! Da bigger da truck, da bigger da load ✊👍💪
As far as RJ, I suspect we commented for two different reasons. My point was that having it happen in the DR - of all places - is stupidly counterproductive if the goal is actual dancer participation. Unlike RJ, who I thought was a bit harsh even if accurate, I've been around here long enough to know that "classy" is hardly your thing, so please rest assured that I was less surprised than he when I saw it. 😉
I am going to be nice to the dancers!”
I hope the fuck so. I just came across a comment of yours on a dancer who joined the board in January, posted 37 pics including a lot of topless ones and your comment was “where do we start counting the rolls of fat, on your ankles or your wrists?” Not exactly the welcome mat. She definitely wasn’t a spinner, but she was pretty, big cans and willing to post lots of nudes. All of those characteristics should be encouraged. She may not be your type but I definitely would.
it's got to really suck to wake up everyday feeling like that all day until it's time to go back to sleep. everyday after that - repeat.
^Just keep taking that viagra scrubby and I will keep sucking the life out of you! 😉
To illustrate using another esteemed member of the Council of Ricks, Mr Lion doesn't roar his frustration at the first ugly gazelle to walk into the field. He waits until the whole herd joins the ugly animal and gets comfortable...then quietly hunts the choicest meat.
Understand now desertscrub? Don't scare off the other herd animals! Chomp! Chomp!