I think anytime you try to generalize something, you are wrong about many aspects of the situation. I got invited to join by a dancer that had no income. It was a very low subscription price and she priced content at about $5. I did it just as I would have tipped her at the club. I kept my membership ID a secret and I don't know if she ever knew if I bought any content. She did know that I subscribed though.
I never messaged her there because I could just text her if I wanted to talk. So, I didn't fit into this acceptance profile. I just saw it as a way to tip her she flashed her goodies, just as in the club.
AOC is amazingly stupid. The woman works as a paramedic and a hostess and needs to do this because the Federal Government won't send her money? Progressives always have a reason to blame everyone but the person who does the act, for the act. What a reprehensible skank, but not nearly as stupid as those who support her.
There was a previous thread on this, as pointed out by Dolfan. My opinion remains the same: this video helps answer the question "why do guys join OF when there's so much free porn?" What it doesn't do is address the sneering judgement, how pathetic must someone be to join OF? In fact, for me -- and I'm guessing most of you -- it reinforces that judgement. I expect most guys who are engaged hands-on with sexworkers -- PLs, homongers, SDs, etc -- all feel the same way. Knowing that the reasons in the video are why guys join OF is just a head-shaker.
Hey, do whatever you want that meets your needs. But man, understanding why guys join OF almost makes me feel sad. Absolutely no judgement towards the girls. "Go make yo money girl" as our local pretend pimp might say
I got on OF because of an IG girl advertising her page. For whatever reason it feels less scammy and risky than signing up for an individual porn site. I think of it the same as dropping a few bucks on stage for the hot girl who’s too busy to give you dances.
As stated in the other thread, I joined the OF of a local honey found on FB. My intent was the pursuit hotel time.
After spending a small fortune tipping in OF, we now communicate by txt. She seems eager to meet and establish a sugar relationship. The logistics for doing that suck right now so I have yet to meet her in person.
As most of us experienced PLs know, until nakey happens, it all could be just a hustle so we'll see.
Surprisingly, as time goes on, my interest in starting a sugar relationship is waning. Not sure why. She's crazy hot on the crazy hot scale.
Given the shit state of clubbing in the valley, I have found it entertaining and would consider subscribing to other local dancer's OF if I knew them.
Good point L_W. I think all is fair in OTC, and I can certainly see how, in the middle of a global pandemic when many clubs are closed etc., OF can be a tool in your pursuit of a stripper, towards whatever your needs are. Tetradon seems to be doing something similar. Even 8TM using it as a way to keep a little of her attention or show a little appreciation, I kind of understand. My post was more about the guys joining OF for the reasons in that youtub.
@Subraman, actually, I've never done OTC (though curious) or sugaring (which doesn't appeal to me in the slightest).
While I dislike the Icey/SJG types that pass judgment and tell people what forms of adult entertainment are most virtuous, simping anywhere pisses in everyone's pool. It validates bad behavior and drives up prices. Perhaps not all behavior on OF is simping, but the compulsive "dopamine hit" behavior sure sounds like it.
I will admit I spent too much money on one girl back during the first wave of bar and club shutdowns. I knew she was the equivalent of a ROB but she was just way hotter than any porn star.
IMO the whole phenomenon of Instagram models created a business opportunity that OnlyFans captured perfectly.
Then you have recent events with PornHub that basically banned their whole original business model and now all they can do exist as an ad supported copycat of OnlyFans. I expect the same thing to happen to all the other free porn sites one by one over time.
Interesting phenomenon ... wasn't familiar with it. I've turned off all buzzes and dings for incoming texts/emails/messages/notifications, so I think I'm not really participating in the dopamine-ding thing. Have seen other videos from that same YouTube production channel, not sure if the psychological analysis is really accurate and useful, or just the typical scratching-the-surface repeat-the-typical-presumption and yet don't-question-the-assumptions type thing that goes on in most of social media.
OF and camming's biggest draw is one thing, convenience. Combination of porn(and being able to direct it to boot) and interaction anytime, anywhere w/o having to leave home, and added anonymity makes it extremely convenient. Why get dressed, drive across town to a SC, and waste that time when you don't know what you're going to get is what the OF/cam supporters are thinking. OF/cam offers path of least resistance.
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I never messaged her there because I could just text her if I wanted to talk. So, I didn't fit into this acceptance profile. I just saw it as a way to tip her she flashed her goodies, just as in the club.
AOC responds ‘Sex work is work,’ to report of NYC paramedic posting racy photos for cash.
https://www.foxnews.com/politics/aoc-res…
But, there’s too much free jerk-worthy content out there.
Hey, do whatever you want that meets your needs. But man, understanding why guys join OF almost makes me feel sad. Absolutely no judgement towards the girls. "Go make yo money girl" as our local pretend pimp might say
After spending a small fortune tipping in OF, we now communicate by txt. She seems eager to meet and establish a sugar relationship. The logistics for doing that suck right now so I have yet to meet her in person.
As most of us experienced PLs know, until nakey happens, it all could be just a hustle so we'll see.
Surprisingly, as time goes on, my interest in starting a sugar relationship is waning. Not sure why. She's crazy hot on the crazy hot scale.
Given the shit state of clubbing in the valley, I have found it entertaining and would consider subscribing to other local dancer's OF if I knew them.
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While I dislike the Icey/SJG types that pass judgment and tell people what forms of adult entertainment are most virtuous, simping anywhere pisses in everyone's pool. It validates bad behavior and drives up prices. Perhaps not all behavior on OF is simping, but the compulsive "dopamine hit" behavior sure sounds like it.
If it works for you - that’s what matters.
With the amount of stuff on PH and xhamster - I’m good for a long time.
IMO the whole phenomenon of Instagram models created a business opportunity that OnlyFans captured perfectly.
Then you have recent events with PornHub that basically banned their whole original business model and now all they can do exist as an ad supported copycat of OnlyFans. I expect the same thing to happen to all the other free porn sites one by one over time.
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