Comments by Ugluck75 (page 5)

WTF? I have never tipped a bouncer at all. I tip dancers, waitresses, etc... but would only tip a bouncer if it was a situation of here's a $5 so get lost. But if that was often needed I would reconsider of where I went clubbing to begin with.

Wow, thanks for sharing the story. I visit my ATF OTC gal some but will be wary if I get any other OTC and will stick to a hotel unless we have gotten already done OTC over several visits.

Am dating one now and she is crazy but very hot. We have a great time and at first I was growing too attached. Now I realize that we are just dating and having a good time so I can deal with her quirks. Maybe it will grow into a more serious relationship but for now I plan on keeping my options open but still date her frequently. For me to ever want to advance our relationship she would have to quit stripping and likely move in with me. Right now I can tell that she is certainly not totally ready to settle down though.

As a hairless ape I find turtles attractive but when I stick it in they tend to take a bite.

I would consider $20 total if and only if I wanted private dances from her. Skip the $20 bill though and give her several $1'es and $5'es. If I am only moderately interested then I would give maybe a few $1'es. If I am totally uninterested then $0 and might move away from the stage a bit. Usually I am more of a 2nd row guys anyways and walk up to tip. But depending on the crowd and layout that might not be as easy in some clubs as others.

I was sort of in your situation and had a fav dancer I would visit last year. She was smoking hot and friendly, great personality etc. She loved my visits cause I'd spend hundreds on her each time. I asked her out on a date as she was not an OTC type girl but she always claimed and perhaps was too busy. Finally after visiting her 2 nights in a row I just had to stop visiting the club for a while. I did text her and thanked her for the wonderful dancing. I distracted myself by visiting another club instead which worked for a while. 3 months later I went back to her club but did not see her and met my current OTC fav who is very pretty also but has way more issues. If I ever see my old fav I would definitely get a few dances and enjoy talking to her but will let her know plainly that unless she is willing to at least go out with me there will be no more nights where I just spend hundreds of $'es for her ITC dances.

I would certainly visit more often and pay more at clubs. My dumbass would probably get nabbed by one the hot strippers and end up moving in with her- even though that would likely not be a good idea unless I got lucky and nabbed one of the more sane ones who is actually capable of a real relationship.

Not sure the thought process on this. If I was a male stripper for women then I'd be flexing my biceps and offering extras if the customers were somewhat attractive. A male stripper for men= no way I'd do it to begin with. If I was a female then I would definitely be a rich stripper cause I'd skip the crazy wasteful habits like drugs and bank the money. For extras I'd consider it if I was attracted to and liked their personality but again there would certainly be $ involved. I have thought (and told some of my fav strippers ) that if I was born a woman then I would be a stripper and a rich one at that.

Thanks for reaffirming why I don't go for skanks and extras clubs. Strippers tend to be skanky enough without the knowledge that they just got used and juiced 15 minutes prior to them giving me a dance or whatever.

I would imagine most picture an extras club as one where customers frequently get their rocks off via sexual acts ITC. Follies in Atlanta would likely be the definition of an extras club. Personally I don't like extras clubs as I feel they are kind of a brothel-like atmosphere which doesn't appeal to my personal taste. Having said that I have had some highly entertaining and arousing dances at non-extras clubs like Midnight Express in Smithville and Mardi Gras in Atlanta.

phones in general annoy me whether on a date or in a club. It is just rude to be texting when you are interacting with someone. Smart clubs ban them from the floor & most I have been in do. If a dancer wants to text in the dressing room I guess they can but they obviously are not getting are missing out on dances and $ if they spend all their time off the floor. Having said that so many people are glued to their phones these days so we all just must cope with it and many of the ladies I know fall into this category.

I have banned a stripper for a similar slight. We had texted and she claimed that she was up for OTC and really liked me, etc. I visited her at the club and got a VIP from her but then she ignored me for the rest of the night. I refuse to let her dance for me again despite the fact that she is quite hot. But I view it as a positive cause after she ignored me I hooked up with current fav dancer to replace her.

cannot blame you for a sec as I would've if I was you. It sounds like she has earned it anyways. People forget that strippers are people too and despite their flaws these beautiful women that make us happy have needs like everyone else.

Awake & contemplating my next Strip club excursion next week. Debating if I should still pursue my deeply flawed fav dancer or start anew. Thinking to let fate decide by showing up at her club and seeing what happens.

No way I would marry a current stripper. I would certainly consider a former stripper though. Now I am considering pursuing a relationship with a stripper but she has loads of issues. Subraman makes some very good points though and gets me to thinking that I am a dumbass. She exhibits all the bad habits he mentions. I am hardly perfect myself though and am about to get divorced for the 2nd time. I am starting to wonder if I am destined to always be drawn to flawed women just because they are hot.

Last summer I told my then favorite dancer that I was her pretend boyfriend and she seemed to like it and go with it. However her continued resistance to OTC even though we had spent many nice nights together at the club soon after caused me to lose interest in her. I don't hold anything against her and to this day consider her the classiest stripper I have ever met though. She is a beautiful and sweet lady and I wish more strippers were like her. Unlike many strippers, I think that she would make a fine girlfriend and someday some lucky guy will land her. If I ever meet her again I will gladly buy a couple of dances from her but just not spend hundreds on her like I have done in the past. To this day I am tempted to text her to meet up at the club but know that it would likely not lead to anything so I resist the urge.

Thanks for all the great commentary everyone. I know she also smokes weed and likely does other drugs too but I am not sure what. We go on dates, sleep together and are pretty close but it likely will not develop into anything long-term as she has all sorts of issues even beyond the drugs and generally has a lifestyle just too wild for my taste. Obviously I care for her and even if we stop seeing each other I hope that she can go clean and improve her life as what she is doing now is very self-destructive.

A- she sounds like she might be a challenge worth pursuing. Just cause someone can be a little cold and distant at first doesn't mean that there isn't something much better & deeper once you get to know them.

Find yourself a sugar daddy that you would also consider potential boyfriend material. If you develop a relationship, maybe he could help support you while you go to school and transition to the civilian sector.

My girlfriend is a stripper without a car too. She rides from co-workers and taxis to & from work. Unfortunately I cannot give her rides as I live out of town. We sleep together at a hotel one night a week when I come to visit. My plan is to keep romancing her until she falls madly in love with me, quits stripping and moves in with me. In a few weeks she is coming to visit me and I plan to show her a great time and hopefully preview our life together.

Not sure I agree as my girlfriend is a stripper. She is very hot and very special to me and I for one plan on developing a serious long-term relationship with her.

I use Crown condoms and they are the next best thing to bareback. Nice sensation and I shoot multiple loads. Part of it may just be how incredibly attracted to my girlfriend I am but they are still the best condom I have ever used by far and I strongly recommend. Eventually though I hope to get serious enough with my girlfriend that we can go bareback as it would feel even better and become even more intimate lovemaking.

yes they like money but it sounds like they also like you. I spend a few hundred in the club so why would I also not want to spend a few $ to have a hot encounter with a stripper OTC.

First time OTC could be a risk. A lot depends on your situation. Do you have lots of valuables? Are you married? To me it would not be a problem cause I would only OTC a girl I really liked and would likely want to make a habit out of having hot encounters with but your situation may be different.

$80 is a great deal. She must like you. If you like her too, why not? I am dating a stripper and we are developing a serious relationship and it all started with a hot OTC date and night of passion.