What should I do?
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
Video girl is begging me for a couple of hundred dollars. Long sob story the details of which don't really matter. It sounds perfectly believable. But I know I'm dealing with a stripper.
On the one hand, I dont want to be a jerk. The money to help her out would be no big deal to me. And I do see her semi regularly so the odds are she'd pay it back or make it up to me.
On the other hand, I don't trust strippers when they ask for money. And I don't want to be lied to or taken advantage of.
She has made a few similar pleas for money in the past but not often. I gave her a couple of small advances in the past, but ither times I've said no. I've made it clear that I'm not a bank or an atm and I dont want to have debt between us. She probably has other PLs to ask but not many. She doesn't have good husslle, and she doesn't do OTC real often, and doesn't do extras itc. Long story how we got together but it was an unlikely match.
I'm cutting back on her services because of DS III, and this may be one reason she's hurting for money. She depends on my money a lot. But I still want to keep her in my harem, just less frequently.
So I want to respond this afternoon. She sounds much more desperate than usual. Suggestions?
On the one hand, I dont want to be a jerk. The money to help her out would be no big deal to me. And I do see her semi regularly so the odds are she'd pay it back or make it up to me.
On the other hand, I don't trust strippers when they ask for money. And I don't want to be lied to or taken advantage of.
She has made a few similar pleas for money in the past but not often. I gave her a couple of small advances in the past, but ither times I've said no. I've made it clear that I'm not a bank or an atm and I dont want to have debt between us. She probably has other PLs to ask but not many. She doesn't have good husslle, and she doesn't do OTC real often, and doesn't do extras itc. Long story how we got together but it was an unlikely match.
I'm cutting back on her services because of DS III, and this may be one reason she's hurting for money. She depends on my money a lot. But I still want to keep her in my harem, just less frequently.
So I want to respond this afternoon. She sounds much more desperate than usual. Suggestions?
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Ask her what she's doing later - so you can meet her to give her some of the money she needs. If she shows - and is very appreciative - very appreciative - give her all of the money - and be subtle (yet obvious) that you are there for her...
If you expect her to want full price the next time you get together, then you have some thinking to do. Is the "good will" worth it, or will it not matter to you if she decides to dump you?
Only you know her well enough to have a clue to her likely reaction.
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We’ve all had $$$ emergencies and know how it feels – as others have mentioned; a one-time plea is ok but as I mentioned IME it rarely stays as a one-time plea and we often become their emergency fund.
I wouldn't advance her any cash. if you want to set up a date with her when you imagine you'll want to play with her, I'd just do that. She can live with the wait for your money.
Good luck.
"If she's not a DS, what do you need her for?"
That's a good question. Given my relationship with DS III, I am cutting back on video girl. But I don't want to throw her away completely. She gives better blow jobs than anybody but the blow job queen, she is extraordinarily submissive, she makes porn movies with me, she's more reasonably priced, and I want some options for variety.