Does she want me or is it my wallet?

She is just trying to keep you interested so that you will come back and spend more money on her.

You should tell them it will cost them $200

I always assumed that this meant pay $. But then I took free girl on a date, and she was offended when I asked her how much. So you never know for sure how much it'll cost until you ask, or until after you fuck.

It's highly likely that she's trying to get you to spend more on her itc. In my opinion - most everything happening itc is business - so if she thought you cock was really the perfect size for her - it would feel even better when you pay her to fuck her otc.

I had a dancer tell me something similar - and I pushed it - and fucked her in a filthy VIP room - with a condom - which was fine - as I knew she was a flighty unreliable dancer (who I wouldn't want to play with OTC).

You know the answer to this one rookie Test question Does she want me or is it my wallet? A) wallet B)wallet C)wallet wrong answers may result in getting butt hurt big time

Sounds like typical SS- making it sound like she's DTF, possibly for free, OTC. In all likelihood it's just an act to keep the money flowing from you ITC.

@flagooner- haha, yeah flip the script on her.

In my short time at TUSCL I have learned that strippers are 100% about the money.

A follow up question would be is it even possible to fuck a stripper without money being involved? I would guess for that to happen you would have to look like Brad Pitt or Channing Tatum and have lots of game.

The good thing about a strip club is that when a dancer makes those comments - I automatically expect it to be to get my wallet to open more. But I also think there's no harm in telling her that I'm ready to fuck her - and I know I'm not the first guy to tell her that - so the worst that could happen is her turning me down.

I'd say the best shot at free fucking is with new strippers who haven't gotten used to always being paid for it.

Always WALLET! If you're knew to this game you gotta see through and talk through the bullshit strippers say. With some its like chess, others are like checkers and then are some who are like tic tac toe LOL. If no phone number exchange occurs its all talk. If numbers exchange still gotta becareful with the SS (Stripper Shit)

Yes its possible to bang strippers for free. But only after the relationship has become normal like with a civilian. Which takes time and if you want to go down that road or not.

Sure, is possible , but def the exception – as others have said; strippers will say anything in the club to stroke the custy's ego or string him along to bleed him dry of more $$$.

Strippers use their body to get $$$; why are they gonna give it out for free – yeah; if you are a young-guy and she finds you hot then there is a greater chance – if she's gonna be bold in her statements then so should you – tell her something along the lines of “yeah I'd like to fuck you too as long as it's for pleasure and not business” - tippie-toeing around things in SCs often just leads to poor outcomes.

From a dancer that posted on TUSCL:

“... No stripper in her right mind is going to do anything for free, ever ...”

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Assume she wants money

Don't listen to all these cynics. She loves you for yourself.

She wants to pick your nose

She wants to have yo baby

She wants you to whack her loser BF/pimp

:)

SJG

Hoes don't fuck for free. Maybe on occasion.

its hard to know. I generally start with the assumption that its either just SS to keep the conversation going or a not so subtle hint that OTC P4P is available. I'd like to say I know the percentage of times its one or the other, and I'd like it even more if I knew how to tell which it was. But, my experience has been rather piss poor in that regard. Much more often than not, its just about money. But its damn near impossible to tell if its a ploy to keep me at the club for longer, knowing that the longer I'm there the more money she'll make or if its a legit offer for OTC. The only way to find it is to pursue it.

I'm not the most attractive, richest, or charming guy. But, I've certainly met up with girls outside of the club for pleasure only. I've also misread a number of times and thought I was on a pleasure cruise only to find out that she was working. Unfortunately, I've done the opposite too. IMO, its much worse to offer to pay when she wasn't expecting it than it is to not be expecting to pay when she was expecting to get paid.

After all that, my advice would be to pursue it a bit. That's the only way to gauge if its real. You don't have to go through with it if you don't want, but taking it a little further might just enable you to figure out if its just stripper shit to string you along. She might call your bluff and play along too, so short of actually doing it you can't be positive. I think most of the time you can sort out the bullshit from the real if it moves beyond the generic "oohhh baby I wanna fuck you" to the specific "we should meet up at x on y at z, I'll call you" kind of thing. In my experience at least, I think I've weeded out the majority of the bullshit that way.

Thanks for the insight Dolfan.

I think that you got your answer, larry :)

Pretty simple. Set up a time and if she ask for money you got your answer. OOOOR fish around to see if she is expecting money before hand. If you say money not involved she will gradually be busy or not be as attentive to you

Another thing if she is that hot in the club if you going into the v.i.p section you are paying to get into the V.I.P. club. discuss that before you get there. Anything that goes on inside the club she can easily upsell you and since bouncers are there they will most likely side with her. If she serious, discuss meeting OTC

Wallet pure and simple.

A-Wallet B-See A C-All of the above

Tell her you usually don't fuck on the first date but for her, you'll make an exception. But she has to buy you dinner later. See what she says afterwards.

If you're fucking her for free, she likes you. If she's letting you fuck you for money, she loves your wallet.

If you're not fucking her, it's your wallet as well.

As an aside for larry....sometimes it's not about money. Rare, but not impossible.

Sometimes a dancer will get to know you and be a friend. It may be with sex but it may be without sex; the key is if you see her with no money changing hands....because the pros will pretend they like you but somehow wheedle money out of you. But that happens very rarely so don't hold your breath, and keep a padlock on your wallet. Remember....if you give her money for ANY reason, she's just using you.

^^^^^ Correct,

but sometimes it can get into the mistress system which the rest of the world uses. So then there is no line between pro and civilian. Women like money and they like guys with it.

SJG

yes they like money but it sounds like they also like you. I spend a few hundred in the club so why would I also not want to spend a few $ to have a hot encounter with a stripper OTC.

Wallet. A former ATF ruined her arrangement with me. She constantly would talk about her "man". She straight up told me she doesn't do OTC. I asked if she met him at a club. She looked at me with the most condescending look. The girls at a showclub are there to provide a fantasy. My former ATF ruined it with her attitude towards me as a customer. She may like you. But, it is most likely money.