Comments by Ugluck75 (page 4)

Well, I'm 45 & my finances are ok but not great. I am making plenty of dough but spend more than ever too. But I do have a halfway decent IRA with stocks and mutual funds at least. My biggest expense is women - clubs, strippers, dating strippers, etc. One of these days I will fall into another serious relationship which in turn should hopefully help out my finances too.

I usually just chug a beer or 2 to get a buzz & so I don't have to buy too many overpriced beers at the club.

2 things come to mind. 1- Lots of customers treat strippers like crap so some average joe might look appealing. 2- Not all stripper's boyfriends are losers. I am dating a stripper and although am not quite her boyfriend (yet at least) but I am relatively normal, have 2 jobs, have a house, and most importantly treat her right.

5 at best. I would not want to pay her and am not sure would want her for free even.

Probably staged but who knows. I certainly would not go as I am not into group sex, orgies or the like. I would be more likely to get one of those hot Czech chicks for all nighter one on one.

Taxes suck, I hope and believe that most strippers don't claim much income or pay many taxes. When I pay for a dance I want her to have the money & certainly not the government..

Personally I love strip clubs but they are not for everybody. It can be overdone if you get addicted to them or feel guilty getting sexual favors and maybe that is what the writer's issue is. As an unattached male, if I want to spend my money for a night of fun every once in a while then I will and I am very glad they are there to provide their services. I have had more fun in the last year than in years of my previous marriage and strip clubs are a big reason why.

I'm not a big fan of tattoos in general and tattooing a name is really a turn off. Plus it reminds me of a very bad stripper experience I once had....

I've seen some incredibly hot customers at clubs that were hotter than any of the dancers. Extra eye candy was certainly nice but I am a little confused at why they were visiting? Went to The Pony in Huntsville a few weeks back and was really wishing that I could get lap dances from some of the hottie customers there instead of the dancers.

Strippers tend to be incredibly flaky so big mood swings should not surprise. Also, she could be on drugs that obviously could affect her mood.

I'd say go for it as I am in a similar situation now. But prepare for some chaos and harden yourself to her likely quirks and bad habits. Most likely she doesn't have a pimp but try to make sure for yourself. If she still escorts and does OTC you should feel free to date others if/when the opportunity arises as long as that continues.

I go for Trump. He's probably the only candidate out there that would actually probably enjoy going to a SC, although Hilary might but that is a disturbing thought.....

I love Mardi Gras. It is my favorite club in Atlanta although it is pretty low mileage but has beautiful and classy girls. If you like higher class clubs then it is worth a look but if you want extras then it probably is not for you.

Lots of dancers who say that have had some school or intend to go back etc... but probably 33% are actually probably in school at the moment. People in general are like that but with strippers it is magnified 10x over because they tend to have much more flighty personalities than normal.

Sorry that happened but things like that are not too rare. I'd advise to certainly never give her any more $ for dances or whatever, to ignore her completely & go back to her club and buy lots of dances from her co-workers when she is there. Last year I had a similar situation (but not as bad as yours) with a dancer saying she's into me & wants OTC etc. but she completely ignored me after I got a VIP at the club with her. Turns out it was for the best as later that same night I met my ATF dancer at the same club which made it easy for me to forget about the other loser.

Ouch, that is ridiculous- you could buy a car for that. If I get married again I hopefully can elope but will go on a nice honeymoon.

I cannot argue against the fact that too many women become whales these days as they get older. That is why I am dating a hot 20 something stripper who values her appearance.

She obviously likes you and wants to date & is not trying to just get you back at the club. If you like her I'd go for it. I'm dating a stripper & they are people too even though they tend to have loose morals and strange quirks but I am having a blast with her. Just be willing to put up with inevitable stripper drama that will ensue.

certainly a yes! Too many tats for my taste but otherwise is smoking. Reminds me of a tatted hot bodied girl who gave me a lapdance that left me drained but satisfied....

Recently I only went to a club with only mediocre dancers. I got a few dances while I was there and they were better than nothing I guess. The girls were nice and we talked beforehand so there was that too I guess. Lots of beer and the fact that it was the only club around might have had something to do with it. I certainly am not going back to the club soon if ever. Usually I only go for the hotties though & plan to stick with higher criteria for the most part.

the old adage still applies = you get what you pay for. I could get freebies from fatties all day long but I only go for the hotties.

I'd say once a month is fine. Clubs can change and some don't have too many reviews so I say the more the merrier as long as the reviews can be useful.

Probably about $450 on 1 girl ITC... About half was VIP and the rest lap dances, some tips, and a drink. She was very hot (about a 9) and very friendly and I spent hours with her ITC but I never got any extras from her so won't do that again with her. Usually I try to curb spending that much though as plenty of fun can be had for less than that. However I would consider spending that much again on the right girl if she was very attractive and if I think that it might lead to OTC.

ITC chocolate would be a little weird unless maybe it was a special occasion like her birthday. I buy my OTC gal all sorts of gifts though including chocolate but that is OTC and I already know she loves chocolate. ITC I would stick with tipping and buying them drinks.

Wow, I only pay my honey a few hundred for all night but I also regularly take her on nice dates and nice places to eat. The $ for dates has gone down over time though as at first I also spent a few hundred for club dances before takeout. Now we usually skip the club and just go out on dates. It sounds like you are also already seeing her so maybe just try an extra hundred for all-night and see what happens. I am sure in metropolitan NE areas it would be higher due to costs of living. Glad I live in the South.