There's probably $40/hour hot tubs near your house somewhere, which is the better bet if you want to go cheap.
I can count on one hand the number of strippers I've had over my house for OTC. I knew each of them VERY well before we ever did this, very connected to their social network, friends, etc. If you do this with a stripper you don't know incredibly well, you absolutely deserve whatever happens ... her stealing your stuff, casing it for her drug addict friends, whatever.
I've had escorts at my house, and strippers do lap dances at my house, but no strip-scorts at my house. No problems. None of them were addicts or alcoholics. It's probably less risk of problems to stick to escorts for paid sex at your house. You do waste a lot of money as escorts often don't look like their pictures.
I only bring a stripper to my house if I already trust her enough to let her know my true identity and Ive already spent several nights with her in a hotel room with no problems. It takes time to build this trust, and the significant majority of strippers do not qualify. Never take a first OTC date home. If you can't afford a decent hotel you can't afford OTC.
If I were in your position I would never invite a girl back, unless I'd seen her quite a few times. Having girls back just leads to problems and for the sake of $40-50 or whatever it is it just isn't worth it. Keep both aspects of your life separate.
As others have mentioned; it helps if you've known the dancer for a while and can get a better read as to her personality – if she's a wild-party girl that likes to get crunked and is a regular druggie; I'd stick with Notells.
Even if it's a seemingly nice dancer; I'd have the valuables out of sight.
As Subra mentioned; there are by the hour Notells (you can probably do a search on the web such as “motels by the hour” or something like that and then try to read the reviews on Yelp or Hotels.com) – you can probably also get a cheap room for the night that should do as long as it's clean and safe; i.e. if it's clean it doesn't have to be fancy if it's too much of a price difference – you can check on Hotels.com and use their price filter to filter out the rooms under a certain price – once you've filtered the rooms you can sort them by “guest rating” to try and get the best cheap room.
I've had dozens of strippers visit my place over the years. Not to save money but to do things that couldn't be done ITC. Personally I wouldn't do OTC to save money as I believe it's worth it to spend a little more to avoid the drama and SS that comes along with OTC. I say this even though overall things worked out very good most of the times I had strippers over my place. I definately agree that you should know a stripper for a while and know her well OTC before you invite her to your place. I have experienced a minor nuisances- minor shit being stolen, pimps leaving off and/or waiting outside, strippers bringing along unattractive female friends (third wheels/fluffs), strippers wanting to move in and become my real life gf (play house), lots of drugs use, etc.
More difficult situations have arisen involving neighbors. Yes my neighbors actually called the cops on me twice at one place where I lived. Once because a stripper smoked a roach on my balcony. Then again because of a drunken brawl between two strippers outside my condo after a coke and keg party. That one was a little dicey as all four strippers were under 21! At another place where I lived the homeowners association complained I had "too many young ladies visiting at odd hours". I've also had a few strippers come close to OD'ing or suffering alcohol poisoning and throwing-up all over my bathroom.
IMO you gotta have a I don't give a shit about anything attitude if you're gonna do OTC, especially OTC at your home.
Will those words of advice I'm heading out for a night of strip clubbing. I encourage every one else on here to do the same and support your local strippers!
I never have, but that has really been more about opportunity (marriage and live-in GFs) than any fundamental issue with it. If I was single, I don't think that I would have too much of a problem with it. I might have to lock up a few things (some work equipment and a couple of smaller valuables, but other than that I don't have a lot of valuables that would be easy to get out of the house quickly. Now I'm not sure if I would let a girl spend the whole night - I'd have to know her fairly well to even consider it - but I don't see a problem with a few hours or less.
Damn – vajmon's accounts I think stress the fact about which ladies one decides to bring home – not that it's the norm but I don't doubt what he posted did indeed happen, and happens.
Most of my OTC experiences have been in my home. I have not had any significant problems. I have had a few small items disappear--is it just a coincidence that they would have fit in a stripper's purse?
I would not invite a stripper I had never met before to my home. But I typically do OTC with strippers I have hung out with in my upscale Detroit-area clubs. I am friends with them, and I don't believe I'll be robbed or murdered. I'll let you know if I'm wrong.
OTC at your house has several advantages. Besides not costing anything, I have all the comforts of home. I can cook some good food, and I have alcohol and a number of forms of entertainment. I have everything I want to have a good time with a girl for several hours.
As for physical safety, my house is safer than a hotel. I have locks and a security system, and my firearms are close at hand.
There are 2 strippers I've had at my house. Both I had known for years prior to having them here. The first was a dancer who owed me a blowjob and my wife was out of town. The second was my ATF who was homeless. My wife and I drove 75 miles to pick her up and put her in our guest room. Within 24 hours she was using drugs which caused me to get her into detox. Both were bad decisions, not because they know where I live, but it was too much of an intrusion between my real life and my Gawker life.
OTC at your house? I thought the reason people got hotels so they can AVOID potential hazards at their house. Your liable for theft if you don't know who they are. Hope you packing the heat just in case she invites any undesirables. Take caution if you do. make sure she doesn't know your adress. Hide ALL letters with your adress on them. Hide ALL valubles, and most importantly, pack the heat. Never know if these strippers are Cray Cray.
Have I ever brought an OTC stripper to my house? yes the first time was about 15 years ago and I have had one atleast every 2 months since then. Do you see the pattern here? I always bring OTC strippers to my house.
I knew someone who had some shady friends visit. The next thing I heard was how they got robbed and the thieves already knew where all the valuable stuff was. They broke in when everyone was gone.
I did once, and there weren't any problems other than my neighbors giving me a strange look for a while after. The dancer was a Negro woman and my neighbors probably didn't like that. Oh well, they moved out to Northern Michigan a few months later.
If you live in an apartment with fedex furniture http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2766/…http://www.apartmenttherapy.com/ghetto-s… You can bring EVERY stripper home. Think of it as YOU living in the Notell. There is nothing to steal except your wallet and food from the fridge (or empty chinese takeout cartons). I've thought about renting an apartment or room away from my family just for OTC. Instead of $60-$100 per stay at the hourly motel, for $500 a mo, I'll just rent a room on a monthly term. I could also buy an RV for OTC.
If you live in a multi bedroom house with a family, and not like a college student dorm, then there is a very high risk of problems. The trust is simple, if you visit her house or know her family on first name basis, or her KID knows your name and hustles you for Dora crackers, you can feel safe with her visiting your house. You could rob her remember.
As others described, I've had problems with OTC and them refusing to fuck without first using drugs/alcohol/smoking legal or illegal. If you are in a high end hotel with no windows and they have your CC, and she wants to light up in the room, what now? What about your neighbors? That HOA will be a bitch. HOA I know, their security guards drive up to and confront anyone smoking weed in a car. The monthly newsletter reminds you to snitch on thugs smoking weed in the dead end streets and the neighbors snitch alright.
For me, when at home, at night, I open my window and wiffs of dank blows into my window from the block. So drug usage isn't a problem at my home.
Instead of your house. I was thinking back to my younger days. Before I found out that motels rent with cash, without ID, and don't ask your age, I used movie theaters. So why not use a shitty old non-chain no name little movie theater at 1 PM on a weekday? My whore wore a skirt with no panties, baggy sweater, and a front closure bra to the theater. Alot of access, easy deniability, but I was never caught by staff. Theater was good foreplay or good 1st pop before going to the motel for the 2nd pop.
Never brought a stripper to my house for otc. When I was young and single - I brought several back to my apartment - and never had a problem. My apartment was a shit hole - with nothing of value. Couldn't even steal the tv or sofa - as you could barely get them down the stairs!
I think you never know - and with a home - there is always something of value sitting out.
First time OTC could be a risk. A lot depends on your situation. Do you have lots of valuables? Are you married? To me it would not be a problem cause I would only OTC a girl I really liked and would likely want to make a habit out of having hot encounters with but your situation may be different.
I've done it more than a handful of times, probably more often at home than at a hotel. There's plenty of girls I wouldn't dream of bringing anywhere near my house, but usually if I'm considering OTC I'm comfortable enough with the girl to bring her home. I've never had any real problems, a few broken glasses and spilled drinks; but that sort of thing happens even when I'm home alone.
There's plenty of threads elaborating the risks & benefits and tips and recommendations. I think it comes down to a personal choice. For me, I do it without much worry.
I used to fuck 50+ year old neighbor at home 2-3 times a month for $80. She was really fun! Talk about delivery...she'd come over, we'd drink/talk (no 420) and fuck. She'd stay an hour or two if we fell asleep. No anal, but she'd do everything else. We'd fuck BB too; probably not wise but I never caught anything. Never had an issue with her, but I'd never bring a regular sex worker home. They'll rob you blind.
I've brought girls home a couple of times, but only when I've known them for a long time and had a personal history (non-sexual) outside the club. One brought a friend with her who was hoping to turn the party into a three way. That was irritating and worried me a bit, but nothing bad happened. The second one was a couple of nights ago. I've been to that one's house dozens of times for OTC but wanted to get her on my turf without her roommates around and she says motels make her feel sleezy (and not in a good way).
Having weapons handy in case someone undesirable shows up is a precaution I follow (and not just for OTC). I also have a hidden safe that I dropped my wallet into when she went into the bathroom to freshen up. I don't leave valuables lying around.
All in all I think the risks are worth the reward with the right girl.
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I can count on one hand the number of strippers I've had over my house for OTC. I knew each of them VERY well before we ever did this, very connected to their social network, friends, etc. If you do this with a stripper you don't know incredibly well, you absolutely deserve whatever happens ... her stealing your stuff, casing it for her drug addict friends, whatever.
Even if it's a seemingly nice dancer; I'd have the valuables out of sight.
As Subra mentioned; there are by the hour Notells (you can probably do a search on the web such as “motels by the hour” or something like that and then try to read the reviews on Yelp or Hotels.com) – you can probably also get a cheap room for the night that should do as long as it's clean and safe; i.e. if it's clean it doesn't have to be fancy if it's too much of a price difference – you can check on Hotels.com and use their price filter to filter out the rooms under a certain price – once you've filtered the rooms you can sort them by “guest rating” to try and get the best cheap room.
I've done it.
But like others have said, I've only done it with a few girls I've know a long time. No first timers.
Hotel rooms are a much safer option for OTC with girls you've just started to get into the OTC game.
I'd just make a duplicate key and give it to her so that she can make herself comfortable while she waits for you to get home.
More difficult situations have arisen involving neighbors. Yes my neighbors actually called the cops on me twice at one place where I lived. Once because a stripper smoked a roach on my balcony. Then again because of a drunken brawl between two strippers outside my condo after a coke and keg party. That one was a little dicey as all four strippers were under 21! At another place where I lived the homeowners association complained I had "too many young ladies visiting at odd hours". I've also had a few strippers come close to OD'ing or suffering alcohol poisoning and throwing-up all over my bathroom.
IMO you gotta have a I don't give a shit about anything attitude if you're gonna do OTC, especially OTC at your home.
Will those words of advice I'm heading out for a night of strip clubbing. I encourage every one else on here to do the same and support your local strippers!
I would not invite a stripper I had never met before to my home. But I typically do OTC with strippers I have hung out with in my upscale Detroit-area clubs. I am friends with them, and I don't believe I'll be robbed or murdered. I'll let you know if I'm wrong.
OTC at your house has several advantages. Besides not costing anything, I have all the comforts of home. I can cook some good food, and I have alcohol and a number of forms of entertainment. I have everything I want to have a good time with a girl for several hours.
As for physical safety, my house is safer than a hotel. I have locks and a security system, and my firearms are close at hand.
If you live in an apartment with fedex furniture http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/2766/… http://www.apartmenttherapy.com/ghetto-s… You can bring EVERY stripper home. Think of it as YOU living in the Notell. There is nothing to steal except your wallet and food from the fridge (or empty chinese takeout cartons). I've thought about renting an apartment or room away from my family just for OTC. Instead of $60-$100 per stay at the hourly motel, for $500 a mo, I'll just rent a room on a monthly term. I could also buy an RV for OTC.
If you live in a multi bedroom house with a family, and not like a college student dorm, then there is a very high risk of problems. The trust is simple, if you visit her house or know her family on first name basis, or her KID knows your name and hustles you for Dora crackers, you can feel safe with her visiting your house. You could rob her remember.
As others described, I've had problems with OTC and them refusing to fuck without first using drugs/alcohol/smoking legal or illegal. If you are in a high end hotel with no windows and they have your CC, and she wants to light up in the room, what now? What about your neighbors? That HOA will be a bitch. HOA I know, their security guards drive up to and confront anyone smoking weed in a car. The monthly newsletter reminds you to snitch on thugs smoking weed in the dead end streets and the neighbors snitch alright.
For me, when at home, at night, I open my window and wiffs of dank blows into my window from the block. So drug usage isn't a problem at my home.
I think you never know - and with a home - there is always something of value sitting out.
There are two that I *would* invite over, if other logistics were in place. I've been to both of their houses, so fair's fair. :)
There's plenty of threads elaborating the risks & benefits and tips and recommendations. I think it comes down to a personal choice. For me, I do it without much worry.
Having weapons handy in case someone undesirable shows up is a precaution I follow (and not just for OTC). I also have a hidden safe that I dropped my wallet into when she went into the bathroom to freshen up. I don't leave valuables lying around.
All in all I think the risks are worth the reward with the right girl.