Buying Strippers Chocolate
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Un-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
Haven't OTC'd with either one of the two. I'm actually just doing it to be sweet and pull at some heartstrings see if that leads to more flexible ITC action.
Or will it backfire terribly.
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Do you plan on tossing the chocolate to them as stage tips? Maybe handing it out following a lap dance? Or, entice them with the idea of free chocolate but it's hidden under the mattress in your hotel room?
Delivery, man, it's all in the delivery.
I doubt it would hurt, but I've seen plenty of boxes of candy at the doorman stand free for the taking after the PL leaves. And the mess of flowers on Valentine's Day that almost certainly went in the trash (or home with the bouncers for their wives) was kinda sad.
Also she's not a girlfriend.
A nominallly-priced gift you can both enjoy, with your expectations set to "this'll make our time together a little more fun" rather than "now she's my girlfriend because I bought her romantic chocolates", perfectly appropriate.
Scratch the chocolate and offer to take her out to her favorite restaurant. You will not believe what a big deal it is to some strippers to go to their favorite sushi joint.
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Me too. Not because they might feel awkward, I just think there's better ways to buy favor with the girls ... like use that same money to buy more dances.
Papi_Chulo--> "but I actually think chocolate is not a bad idea since most strippers like eating/food & most people like chocolate so I don't think it would go to waste"
Exactly. I often buy the strippers lunch, or pick them up a coffee on the way in. I don't even consider that a "gift", really ... just a little something that costs a few bucks that she loves. Same with a small box of chocolates. The last girl would pick a chocolate up, hold it up for me to bite half of it, then she'd eat the other half, then we'd slam a fireball or whatever. Kinda cute, intimate little thing. Ya never know, but it did seem like she enjoyed herself.
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No offense - and if you know she trusts you - this isn't an issue. But are the chocolates wrapped in foil - or are they in a sealed package? Just thinking that I'd be concerned with getting unsealed food - if I didn't trust the person giving it to me. As I said - I don't intend to offend you - just one thing that she might think.
I don't think a snack counts as a gift as long as it isn't presented as one.
I don’t mind getting something for a dancer (or anyone really) if they would enjoy it – I just don’t like buying gifts for dancers to ingratiate myself in their eyes or pretend the “relationship” is more than it is (e.g. me paying her and her entertaining me).
It's the thought that counts.