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8 years ago
I have learned being polite in a SC is not always a good thing.
I received a text from a dancer I met over 3 months ago wanting me to visit
with her next Sat. night at my favorite club. I have no desire to see her again.
I simply ignore her text. But, that is my story. Some girls try to hard.
I was too nice to not exchange numbers. My mistake.
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8 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
There are two to three trucks like that in the parking lot where I work.
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8 years ago
I have had three over the course of my career. Currently, I have just one. I should probably delete it since I have
no plans to contact her. Overall, I found the weekly text by a girl to see when I was coming to visit annoying.
I like for my visits to be random and spur of the moment. I hate being nagged. That is why I am a customer.
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8 years ago
Last November for me. I haven't seen the young woman since then. I still go to the same club but I avoid
her.
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8 years ago
I invite you to read all of the nonsense I have written on this website. It is nice to know that I am not
alone in my love of adult entertainment.
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8 years ago
The dynamic of how women who work in the adult entertainment industry balance dating relationships in their personal lives with their work lives has always interested me. People cheat. I don't judge. I have been around girls who do OTC. I have also been around girls who keep things in the club and strictly business. I tend to enjoy the more slutty girls. They usually do extras in the dance area. I think if a girl can get away with cheating and get paid at the same time they will most likely do it. Not all girls of course, but if the girl works in a SC, it is more likely.
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8 years ago
I wish more dancers used Listerine.
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8 years ago
I think that girls avoid eye contact because that may lead to kissing.
I think that most clubs have clear rules for the dancers to not kiss the customers.
The worst is a girl who has her back to me and while dancing is checking her phone and texting.
Now, that is a clear sign she isn't into it.
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8 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Leah the Lion. Cheesy but I always remember her since I bought my first lap dance from her years ago.
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8 years ago
The only way I have found is by trying out different clubs and different girls.
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8 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I would have walked too. Last November I was disrespected in much the same manner by one of my former favorite dancers. I have not seen her since. In fact, I avoid her club during her working hours there.
I understand as a customer the game. But, I do have a little self - respect.
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8 years ago
I always keep in mind that the women working in the showclubs most likely already have a boyfriend or
someone they are dating outside of the club. This always helps me keep my emotions in check.
I take breaks from visiting the clubs as well. This helps too. I also have seen girls being dropped off by their boyfriends so that shoots me back to reality. Nothing kills a good time at a showclub by wanting to visit with just one entertainer. I do my best to avoid spending all of my time with just one girl.
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8 years ago
Single mother.
Poor life choices.
Manipulative.
Incapable of buying their own cigarettes.
Constantly ask for help with money.
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8 years ago
About a month ago I met a really cool dancer. I could tell she would go out with me if I pursued her.
But, she had terrible body odor. Immediate deal breaker for me.
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8 years ago
I still go to the same club that this happened to me. I blew off a girl who was doing OTC.
I just didn't want to see her that day. I bought dances from a different girl that day.
I got a text after I got home. She told me to never contact her again.
So, some girls get psycho and possessive. Some girls are cool and don't care who you spend your money with.
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8 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
I have spent the better part of my life single. Most of it has been due to shyness towards women.
However, marriage seems to benefit women most. I am not bitter. But, I would not want any of my friends lives
for all of the rice in China. A friend is on his second marriage. Children by two different women. No thanks.
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9 years ago
Dayshift and nightshift are different animals in my opinion. I have found the dayshift women to be less on the party animal side and more sane overall. I tend to stay away from the nightshift. I rarely have good luck visitng at night.
Women are weird sometimes with their motives. Who knows? I attempted to arrange a meeting with an escort last night through backpage and was promptly hung up on after she found out what I did for a living.
I had the money to pay. My career must have turned her off. So, in my experience women who work in the adult
entertainment industry are not to be trusted or relied upon. Who knows what these crazy women are thinking?
I think that goes for women in general.
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9 years ago
Being ignored sucks under any circumstance. Phones should be banned while on the floor of showclubs.
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9 years ago
I run out of things to write about and I usually get attacked by some reviewer for what I write.
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9 years ago
Don't do it. I got ripped off for more money than I care to admit to in 2013.
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9 years ago
I have never heard of this. I have heard of arranging OTC. I am glad you did not take her up on her offer.
It sounded like a rip off. $500 is too steep.
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9 years ago
I asked a girl once if she met her boyfriend at a club because she was talking about him non - stop. The look of abject horror at the very idea that she would ever date a customer on her face told me how little respect she had for me as a cutomer and customers in general. I stopped seeing her immediately.
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9 years ago
You bring up a topic that has long been on my mind. I have been at one club where boyfriends were not allowed to visit when their girlfriend was working. One stripper actually told the management that a fellow stripper's boyfriend was visiting during their shared shift. I am not sure what became of the situation. Another club doesn't allow their staff to date. One has to quit if they are dating. At another club, the boyfriend would play pool in the back while his girlfriend would wok. He would sit, play pool, drink beer, and make out with her in the club.
She no longer works there. But, it was weird. I think it would hurt your chances for dances if another customer saw that. A lesbian's at the same club girlfriend would show up during her shift and do the same thing.
As a long time club goer, I love dancers. But, I could never date a girl who works in a club.
I love the convenience of clubbing. But, her job is to sexually excite men. I could never handle the jealousy.
A phenomenon I have noticed recently is girls being dropped off by their boyfriends for work. They usually just pull up to the entrance, drop them off and go where? I couldn't do it. I guess that is the high price to pay for a hot girlfriend. I do often wander if they ever get into fights over her work? I tend to stay away from girls with boyfriends. I find them more detached and strictly business. Rarely will they sit and visit.
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9 years ago
Nobody knows I am a lesbian too.
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9 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
A coworker and supervisor hooked up where I work.
Really, the affair was none of my business. However, they are both married. I saw them walking together
back to his office. Professionally, they work in different departments. So, I was confused. But, then I learned through gossip what was really happening. She was unable to transfer to his department because of this. Also, the gossip surrounding the affair was learned by everyone. Just a cautionary tale.
I wouldn't do it. It is not worth it.