OT: Married Co-Workers
GACA
Un-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
I know we've discussed the costs/benefits in some thread. But need to revisit my other head is doing all the reasoning right now.
So a cute (7) girl@ work getting increasingly frisky. I haven't gone pass texting how hot her ass looks in a particular wardrobe, and the occasional pat when others aren't looking.
We work in the same building and Business Unit and report to the same Director, but technically she's in a different department and I'm not her boss. She's late 20's. I'm 35/36 and single.
And before you say find a single girl...on the south and most if not all the hot single women are already married before they get out if high school or shortly thereafter. This wouldn't be a conversation if I was in NY/DC/LA
So a cute (7) girl@ work getting increasingly frisky. I haven't gone pass texting how hot her ass looks in a particular wardrobe, and the occasional pat when others aren't looking.
We work in the same building and Business Unit and report to the same Director, but technically she's in a different department and I'm not her boss. She's late 20's. I'm 35/36 and single.
And before you say find a single girl...on the south and most if not all the hot single women are already married before they get out if high school or shortly thereafter. This wouldn't be a conversation if I was in NY/DC/LA
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If you can't/won't take that piece of advice, at least quit texting her, that's just leaving a trail she can eventually show to people.
But the chance is too high for it to be worth it in my opinion.
Just cause you're not her boss (though you used the word technically) doesn't mean this can't get you fired.
I've had sex at work on more than one occasion, but I knew the risks and they weren't married. I also know married people who were co-workers and they lost both their jobs and their marriages as a result of their interoffice affair.
You know this girl... is she just looking for some dick, or does she want... romance? I've had affairs with married women (not coworkers!) and encountered both kinds. The kind that wants you to text all day and all night just to get the pussy every couple of weeks vs. the kind that truly gets that it's just about getting some strange excitement.
Is she going to blab to her friends, or do you trust her to be chill?
I don't trust girls to keep it quiet, but she doesn't have friends at work so that won't be an issue.
Is she unhappy with her marriage or does she just want to strange? Probably more the latter, she's been with just the one dude and is probably needing to feel pretty. This has been building for over six months so she's definitely not taking it lightly. She's definitely more of the nerdy type (think sexy librarian) and has some pretty rigid thinking. If I had to guess her hubby routinely steps out and she's looking for some pay back. But being a girl she wants to be sure if shit hits the fan then at least it will be with someone who's an up grade over her current situation.
But in the end you never know what a girls is thinking
Oh, and the other night one just killed any chance because if the rachet hood broke skinny short mother fucka she left the club with.
I thought the South was just going to be a smaller California, so nope. People settle way earlier and there's not nearly the amount of ambition. Even with strippers.
Don't get me wrong, I love how neighborly every one is, and life is super relaxing, but my god, sidewalks would help solve a lot of obesity and other health related issues here.
Speaking from personal experience and seeing many inter-office romances crash and burn around me, I can say it almost always ends in disaster.
Even so, like I said, it is almost impossible to resist pursuing that forbidden fruit once that train has left the station. Best of luck.
Really, the affair was none of my business. However, they are both married. I saw them walking together
back to his office. Professionally, they work in different departments. So, I was confused. But, then I learned through gossip what was really happening. She was unable to transfer to his department because of this. Also, the gossip surrounding the affair was learned by everyone. Just a cautionary tale.
I wouldn't do it. It is not worth it.
We fucked in my office, in the elevator at work, in her car, and at her apartment. After 6 months she broke it off, feeling I was getting too serious. It was stupid, risky, potentially could have cost me my job, but I'd do it all over again in a minute.
What a fine primo piece of ass!
Fuck = dating right?