Favorite broke my PL heart
Lone_Wolf
Arizona
Stopped by one of my regular SC’s to spend time with a favorite. This honey and I have known each other for about a year and have spent a lot of time together doing ITC and OTC fun. All p4p of course. We had enough history with each that we knew a lot about each other’s lives and had built a comfort level with each other that comes only with time and experience.
We go back to the quasi VIP area and she is giving me dances. On what I think is the third song (maybe fourth), I ask her what song we are on and she says “five”. Now, I’m pretty sure it was three but could maybe be four but I’m damn sure it was not five.
I just stopped and looked at her straight in the eyes. At that moment we both knew without a doubt she was trying to intentionally up count a song I did not get. She took a breath then said “four”. Flat out destroyed the great party vibe I had going. This was a stark reminder of two things.
One is that many of these honeys are so short sighted that they would risk a very good revenue stream trying to get over on a miniscule amount of money.
Two, that some dancers are kind of like auto mechanics in that an auto mechanic may not try to rip you off on the first three visits but may try to bend you over on the fourth. History does indicate future honesty.
My sc relationship with this dancer will never be the same over one stupid song count.
Have any of you ever had a well known long term favorite unexpectedly try to blatantly rip you off?
We go back to the quasi VIP area and she is giving me dances. On what I think is the third song (maybe fourth), I ask her what song we are on and she says “five”. Now, I’m pretty sure it was three but could maybe be four but I’m damn sure it was not five.
I just stopped and looked at her straight in the eyes. At that moment we both knew without a doubt she was trying to intentionally up count a song I did not get. She took a breath then said “four”. Flat out destroyed the great party vibe I had going. This was a stark reminder of two things.
One is that many of these honeys are so short sighted that they would risk a very good revenue stream trying to get over on a miniscule amount of money.
Two, that some dancers are kind of like auto mechanics in that an auto mechanic may not try to rip you off on the first three visits but may try to bend you over on the fourth. History does indicate future honesty.
My sc relationship with this dancer will never be the same over one stupid song count.
Have any of you ever had a well known long term favorite unexpectedly try to blatantly rip you off?
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My CF has been kind of dong the opposite for me. When we had to the VIP, if it's in the middle of a song -- or even just 30 seconds into the song -- usually we just sit around until that song ends, and then she starts her 3-song set. Pretty much expected behavior, right? But recently, she's been starting as soon as we walk in, mid-song ... she finishes dancing that song, and THEN counts 3 more songs. So she's regularly giving me an extra minute up to a full song extra. I'm melting with gratitude, I tip her even though I pretty much NEVER tip, and of course she's bought a ton of loyalty from me. Total genius move on her part, IMO -- the club still only charges her for a single VIP (they have no idea she's basically giving me an extra song), she gets a tip when normally I never tip, and she's locked in my loyalty.
They want money for doing little to nothing
We want pussy to cost Lil to nothing
That is wear the lines of war are crossed
Battles are won and wars are lost
The dancer mentioned in the OP fucked up - and she knew it. If it blew the vibe and dance - then I'd pay her only for the actual number of dances - and move on. If I decided to get future dances from her - it wouldn't be the same night.
That said, at least in the context L_W wrote, it sure sounded like it was crystal clear she got caught in a lie (assuming L_W wasn't just exaggerating a bit). And if that's the case, then that's definitely a deal-killer for me. While I realize that we're dealing with strippers, so there are things we put up with (being late, canceling appointments, etc) that we might not put up with in any other context, I do NOT agree with the "well, they're strippers, just expect and take any ol' treatment she dishes out, you shouldn't expect anything else" crowd. Somewhere there should be a line for yourself where you say "this isn't just excusable stripper flakiness, it's inexcusable disrespect or dishonesty or some other behavior that I won't abide from anyone". Trying to rip me off -- if that's really what this was -- is in that category, for me.
My CF might have overcounted on some occasions but I just give her the benefit of the doubt. I only pay for dances. No tips or paying for company.
LW, if you don't tip on top of the dances, this might be her way of getting tipped.
her.
I love money-making hustle in a dancer but dishonesty turns me off.
However if it was blatant like how the op describes, id either start telling your new dancers upfront how many to start with or if she's a fave still end it there that night, but tease her about it next time that she's not gonna try it again...