Dancer entitlement approaching dancer disrespect
Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I'm at the Tootsies sportsbar watching San Antonio smack around OKC.
Prior to the game I was hanging in the main-floor waiting for the start of the game.
I was standing next to the entrance of the LD room & I see a ~60 y/o custy heading to the LD-room w/ a young slim brunette - as they are about to head in the LD room the dancer spots a young custy she knows (friend?) & leaves the old custy standing by himself waiting at the entrance to the LD room as she goes to hug the young guy and proceed to chat w/ him while fhe old guy is just standing there at the entrance to the LD room looking at them waiting for her to finish her convo w/ her friend.
I may be overreacting and being a hardass but that shit looked disrespectful to me (making a custy that is going to spend $$$ on you wait while you go chat-up your buddy).
Prior to the game I was hanging in the main-floor waiting for the start of the game.
I was standing next to the entrance of the LD room & I see a ~60 y/o custy heading to the LD-room w/ a young slim brunette - as they are about to head in the LD room the dancer spots a young custy she knows (friend?) & leaves the old custy standing by himself waiting at the entrance to the LD room as she goes to hug the young guy and proceed to chat w/ him while fhe old guy is just standing there at the entrance to the LD room looking at them waiting for her to finish her convo w/ her friend.
I may be overreacting and being a hardass but that shit looked disrespectful to me (making a custy that is going to spend $$$ on you wait while you go chat-up your buddy).
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So many of them are self centered divas and have no concept of respect and manners toward customers and no concept of the business relationship between a dancer and a customer.
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I understand as a customer the game. But, I do have a little self - respect.
I did that once with a former fave and got a couple dances from a very personable young lady. Never had a problem after that.
I treat some dancers like they treat me. If they tell me they'll come around on the two for one but don't and someone else does, I have opted for someone else. I did feel bad for a second or two a couple of times when I saw that the girl got beat by just a few seconds and was going to come get me but it's first come first served unless she has been reliable to you and said she was coming to get you.
Not knowing the facts is not a reason to not passionately argue a side.
Damn, that's a lot of "not"s.
The second time after I returned to my table, another dancer came over and told me that i had not been treated very good by the first dancer and offered to treat me the way customers deserved to be treated. She did and became a favorite until she quit.
Remember, they need your money more than you need them to dance for you, so act accordingly. Making a customer wait is poor customer service no matter whether it is in a strip club or a restaurant.
Sometimes it bothers me, sometimes not - depends on the situation.
After my CF's stage set she goes straight to the dressing room to freshen up and then has to walk past the bar to where I usually sit. She almost always stops and chats with someone for a minute or 2.
However, she is worth wait.
Completely honestly: I think the walk to the back is almost sacred: he should get to enjoy every second for the money he's about to spend. I do not care one bit if a dancer going to the back room does not acknowledge me ... in fact, most dancers DON'T acknowledge me if it's on their walk to the back, and I totally understand why -- the last thing that guy wants to see is "his" dancer flirting with other guys when he's about to spend $ on her. She'll find any other time to say hi. I'm totally good with that, and think that's the way it should be.
John, I won't speak for the others but some of us have a pair and refuse to be abused by dancers unlike you who often seem caught in a limbo of indecision regarding what you should or shouldn't do as seen in many of your postings. Just because you might stand there waiting like a puppy doesn't mean half of us would do the same.
The original girl approached me a while later. She had zero recollection of our previous encounter, despite that it had occurred about 90 minutes earlier about 10 feet away from where I was sitting at that point. I had some time, as I was waiting for the second girl to return. She was no more than 2 songs into a stage rotation that was in the neighborhood of 10 songs. So, I told her the story of what transpired. She looked at me with a bewildered face and proceeded to ask me if I wanted a dance now. I laughed at her & she called me a pinche maricon and stormed off. The second girl had returned and was standing at a table nearby just in time to catch her ask me if I wanted a dance. The first girl told the second one a bunch of shit in spanish as she walked away. I didn't understand a word, but I presume it was not very complementary of me. The second girl came back, gave me her number & we were on my couch laughing about it a few days later.
I guess the point of the story is, the girls at Tootsies tend to be entitled bitches and do this kind of shit regularly. There's no reason for a customer to tolerate it, as there's there's plenty of girls there. The girls probably have no reason to stop either, as there's plenty of customers too.