Comments by Timex345 (page 4)

Money talks and bs walks. Also, there are plenty of fish in the sea. The usual cliches for me. Marriage is overrated.

I agree that it depends who dumped you as for how long it may take to get over the situation. I recommend meeting someone new and to not have any contact with the person who dumped you. Focus on her negative qualities. That helps.

A hot girl asked if I wanted to do OTC. She called and wanted to meet. I turned her down. Why? I am not sure. It was a drive to meet her.But, to this day, I regret not taking her up on her offer I still see her a the club but she has never asked again. Opportunity lost.

I stopped going to showclubs for awhile. I got the itch again and started to go to different clubs where I was forced to meet new girls who I had not visited with in the past. This helped me to have a good time again. The same old routine with the same girls quickly burned me out. New girls always improve my visits.

Get in, save your money and get out as quickly as you can. I would avoid being a career dancer.

I haven't been to a club in two weeks. I haven't posted a review or a discussion topic for awhile. I am quitting not only this website but clubbing altogether. I have wasted enough time and money.

If the girls don't approach the customers, they won't make any money. Girls talk in the dressing room. The last thing you want to do is get a bad reputation. I recommend just being honest. Just say you are waiting for someone. It isn't a complete lie. You are waiting for a girl who interests you. In the long run, she will appreciate the fact she did not waste a lot of time. A lot of these suggestions have already been posted. But, this usually works for me.

I never have been a big fan of cam girls. I do enjoy looking every once in a awhile. But, the lack or real contact seems like a waste of money. Also, I am not too good with Skype and the technology involved.

I don't go to a showclub to be liked or respected. Who cares! Who cares what people say about you as a customer in general. This goes for this websit, in the clubs and life in general. You will always be judged.

My favorite strippers have always been Filipino girls. Stripping was the best way for them to earn good money. One girl told me she started as a waitress. She made more money in tips in one night than working a civilian job. They never seem to age and seem to be able to dance for a long period of time. Also, they will always have an older sugar daddy helping them. One girl was a "maid" wink wink for a filfthy rich oil man. So, these girls are smarter than you think.

Mr. Brownstone by GNR.

Yes. Guilty as charged. But, I like to consider myself a former BR. People can learn and change. I know I have.

Asian

No need to take any money with you.

I am more attracted to shorter women. I always view a taller woman as being an amazon or something.

Wow! I am not the only one this has happened too. Last Friday I was buying dances from a long time favorite. For some reason, being on her phone texting was more important than earning money from me by doing her job. I was very upset. She actually asked me how to spell a word. Worse. She was texting a girl who I was trying to forget about because was a former favorite who treated badly as well. Irony? Anyways. she did put her phone down but the songs weren't that long. I consider texting during a dance on the same level as texting while driving. The text can wait. This girl has become way too comfortable with me.

These women don't see us as boyfriend material. I doubt any would stop to spit on me if I was on fire. Well, if I was clutching a single, maybe.

I understand your frustration. I like to visit a little with the girl before buying a dance. I was at my favorite club this past Friday. I saw a favorite all over a customer at the bar. She was interacting with him and talking. Keep in mind I have known this girl for quite awhile. All I get from her is "wanna dance?" No small talk. I really have no interest in returning to see her or her friend.

I understand your point. I like to talk a little. I am there for companionship. So, my needs may be a little different. Also, it depends on the girl.

For me, I enjoy the fantasy and the escapism of going to a showclub. I have found a favorite club near my home I like to visit. I don't really care for traditional dating and I am unsure if I will ever want to be in a relationship. So, the showclubs provide the perfect way to interact with women. Less drama. I get to mess around with these beautiful women without having to "talk" about my feelings, etc.

Early in my showclub career I bought air dances because I was unaware that there were more options available. As a veteran, if a girl starts doing the standing in front of me routine, I quickly end the session. I have found a club that gives full contact. I go there. Air dances are the worst and I agree with K. I would just watch from the audience. Why waste your money?

Last November I cut loose a favorite. I feel your pain. I had reached the ITC limit and she did not do OTC. My last visit was rushed and I had been a customer for quite awhile. The relationship has run its course for me and I miss her but I am happier, There is one dancer who is cordial to me but never prioritizes me when I go in to see her. She'll wave but won't make any special attempt to visit with me. It sucks. I am really into her. Her dances are the best of any I have bought at this club. She has many customers and does OTC. Fortunately, I get along really well with her friend who dances as well. She is always there and much more friendly and always makes time for me. Unfortunately, her dances are more tame and she does not do OTC. So, I kind of limit my visits and frequent other clubs because I can't always get what I want at this club.

I thought about checking out the clubs out there but Vegas always has seemed to expensive for a working class stiff like me. I would save my money and stay with the clubs close to home where I can get the best bang for my buck. But, if you are a high roller go for it and spend away. I am almost sure Vegas has the top talent in the US. I have just pointed out the obvious of course.

You can have them.

I thought it was love but really just infatuation. Three girls over the course of my SC career have gotten to me. I am really good at monitoring my feelings and avoiding this pitfall. Most of these women (one currently who I like) do the OTC thing outside of work. So, that knowledge keeps me from falling in love. I am just an ATM. Most girls are train wrecks. Too much drama.