Comments by Timex345 (page 3)

Planning my next showclub visit keeps me sane at work.

One dancer said it best. She said to me one day at a club that I am supposed to be entertained as a customer. For a dancer, she was very smart and self - aware. As I age, I have learned a lot by being a customer and from this website. In the absence of a real relationship, going the clubs to simulate the GFE for a few songs has always been the attraction for me. When it stops being fun, I tend to find a different club or girl.

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Usually the girls I have bought dances from simply disappear. I fight the urge to become someone's regular because at some point it becomes weird when emotions get involved. I recently lost contact with a favorite. I think she may have a serious boyfriend now who helps support her. So, things usually end one way or another. I always have more fun if I know very little about the girl dancing for me. It keeps it fun and the emotions out.

He'll get an endorsement deal of some sort.

You can't blame her. That is where you met and have something in common. And, she spends a good part of her day there.

Shouldn't he be running for President.

I have found asking a girl to be the best approach. I usually do a test run with some lap dances. After building some rapport, I just go for it.

Arranging OTC is always a challenge. Good luck. I hope it works out for you. About four years ago a girl had asked for my number and inquired about OTC with me. So, if you get lucky. Some girls make the first move.

I had to quit several dancers because it wasn't fun being a customer being attached to a girl.

I have heard of this app before. A girl is dropped off and picked up by her boyfriend. I thought it was because she is such a terrible driver. But, I also think it is a way for him to keep track of her much like this app.

I am hurt that I haven't been mentioned on this thread yet for being a butthurt PL.

I currently have three clubs I rotate between. I have found that all three clubs have aspects about them I enjoy. I would say my visits have for the most part been positivie or I would have stopped this hobby a long time ago. Recently, a long time favorite at one of my clubs has been giving me the whole "since you are going to be here for awhile, do you mind if I dance for this other customer first routine." It has happened more frequently. So, apparently I am no longer a priority. It is cool, I just rotate to my next club and spend money there. I don't fight with strippers. It isn't worth the aggravation. Another favorite, at the same club, doesn't work as frequently. So, off to the next club for this reason too. Having options helps keep things fresh for me. The bad part is the last favorite I mentioned gives the best lap dance.

Of all my customers, I like your money the best. It is so green. I don't believe anything a stripper tells me. In fact, that goes for most women outside of the clubs as well. Women are manipulative creatures.

Most of us are too old to date women who strip. That's why we are customers. I would attempt to meet a young woman who is similar to that girl in the real world. All is not lost. You have found your "type". I still go to strip clubs. I have learned the hard way. It is best to not get involved with strippers outside of the club. The very nature of their job leads to drama and financial ruin. Besidies, do you really want to be with a girl long term who dances for other men like that?

Dancers only like your money. Believe me. You unfortunately happen to be the middle man she has to deal with to get it.

I take my money elsewhere. Poor service at my former favorite club has led me to end my 8 year run of being a loyal customer there. The relaxed rules of the club were at one time great. But, too many times the girls leave during the middle of their shift while I waited. Or, they randomly show up with their boyfriend to visit a fellow dancer and leave which is a total buzzkill. I can't fight city hall so I just leave. This is the danger of pissing off a SC customer.

I tend to stay away from Backpage. Too much risk and I am hardly ever satisfied with the looks of the girl who opens the door.

Another way to see how much money you may have. Rich people usually have perfect teeth because they can afford it.

I saw this movie last week. It is sad how far Carmen Elektra's career has fallen that she is reduced to playing a stripper in a B movie on cable. The irony of the show's plot and her career was not lost on me. It is always about the money.

I try to go to clubs where there are so many hot women it doesn't matter if I am ignored. I am taking a break from a favorite club at the moment because the talent level in my opinion has gone way down. I just move on to the next girl. I try to avoid being a regular of any one girl. I have more fun if I just show up and randomly buy dances.

A favorite told me she once worked in a factory cleaning chickens.

Stay home and invest your money. Meet a nice girl away from the adult entertainment industry. Trust me. You don't want this life.

One favorite is dropped off and picked up by her boyfriend every day. She is either a terrible driver or he has trust issues. Years ago one ex favorite told me that most of the girls dancing have boyfriends. I just assume all the girls who dance for me have boyfriends. Most hot women aren't single for long.

Hang in there. Time heals all wounds. I am going through the same thing. I don't want too. But, I have to give up a favorite myself. It sucks. But, life just sucks sometimes.