Why do you guys love this hobby?

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ShaquilleThunder
Whether you are single, have a girlfriend, engaged, or married, why do you go to strip clubs? For me, it is I have been with my fiance for years, the only woman I have dated since high school. However, the clubs provide for me the enjoyment I missed out on and did not experience. I'm not one who looks for extras, but I enjoy getting drunk and having high contact lap dances with titties in my face. What say you?

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Papi_Chulo
9 years ago
What healthy man would not want access to as many hot young women as they could get their hands-on - it is how most of us are wired
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Papi_Chulo
9 years ago
It's biology dude
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Papi_Chulo
9 years ago
Don't try to fight it, you will lose
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Papi_Chulo
9 years ago
It's like asking why a guy likes to eat, it's a need & a need that needs to be satisfied - it does not go away by itself - resistance is futile
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Papi_Chulo
9 years ago
What does one do when they have an itch - you scratch it to get relief & it feels good to do so
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lopaw
9 years ago
@Papi - there are actually plenty of healthy men & women that aren't wired the way we strip club mongers are. We tend to be heavily in the minority. If you ask the average person about stripclubs the vast majority have either never been to one or have been once or twice and never went back.
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Ch3ll
9 years ago
I started because I my wife and I separated and I wasn't getting any so I enter the strip club. Now after many visits and finding TUSCL I go because some strange fun things can happen and as Papi stated its with all these beautiful women that come in a variety.
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Timex345
9 years ago
For me, I enjoy the fantasy and the escapism of going to a showclub.
I have found a favorite club near my home I like to visit.
I don't really care for traditional dating and I am unsure if I will ever want to be in a relationship.
So, the showclubs provide the perfect way to interact with women.
Less drama. I get to mess around with these beautiful women without having to "talk" about my feelings, etc.
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GoVikings
9 years ago
Yeah, lowpaw is right. Going regularly is very much outside the norm
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Papi_Chulo
9 years ago
I go for the free lunch buffet - Juice turned me on to it
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K
9 years ago
I go because it is fun and I enjoy it.
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shailynn
9 years ago
I go because I like sticking my dick in hot women I don't know and using an alias.

Sometimes if I really like them I taken them out to dinner
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JuiceBox69
9 years ago
I go for the Fresh chanken fangers and wide variety of dipping sauces
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JuiceBox69
9 years ago
The naked girls, blowing jobs and pussy juices is just a side product
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vincemichaels
9 years ago
I like looking at naked women.
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JohnSmith69
9 years ago
I go to show clubs cause that's where the gorgeous young pussy can be had.

And I think the reason most men don't go to strip clubs is that they don't know what's available. I certainly didn't.
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shadowcat
9 years ago
It's either that or go to church.
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JuiceBox69
9 years ago
I go to show clubs

Strip clubs are for fags
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ATACdawg
9 years ago
What VM said. Love seeing naked women.
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bvino
9 years ago
Variety is the spice of life. If it was just lookin' I doubt I would go as often as I do. Given the thrill of easy conquest it is hard to resist. Some guys just have repressed themselves to the point of numbness I guess. Issues like trust and goodness are , at best, artificial constructs and do not have to govern your life. I treat myself well and I treat those who are important to me well also. Life is what you make it. You should review what you believe to be true and find out if it really is or just something you have accepted w/o examining it. Having to get to drunk to have a good time is a really bad sign.
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Subraman
9 years ago
Going to strip clubs may be a minority, but really, I think the general motivation for the entire sex industry -- strip clubs, AMPs, FBSM, street hookers, escorts, dominatrixes -- is all the same. Frankly, the reason that studies of pornography can't find a control group -- that is, they can't find men who don't watch porn -- is also tied into the same motivation. It's the exact same motivation, manifested differently according to personal tastes and risk tolerance, porn being the lowest risk and lowest reward.

Anyway, I think Papi has it right ... I don't have some single reason I like strip clubs. I stripped clubbed across various ages, I did it when I was single, I did it when I was dating, I did it when I was very happily married, I did it when I was unhappily married, then I did it again when I was not married anymore (regardless of whether I was dating or not). In a nutshell, I love having sexual access to gorgeous young women. Over the past 15 or so years, I've also used strip clubs the way some people use meditation or 420, as a light stress relief valve that makes me feel refreshed and energized for days afterwards (if it was a good trip)
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Call.Me.Ishmael
9 years ago
It's a building filled with hot young women who want me to touch them (for a fee...) with minimal complications and time investment (at least that's my approach).

So... it's fun.
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Papi_Chulo
9 years ago
I go for the intellectually stimulating conversation w/ strippers (aka SS)
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JuiceBox69
9 years ago
Blowing Cash isn't a hobby
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larryfisherman
9 years ago
Ass and boobies.
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Papi_Chulo
9 years ago
Along what lopaw mentioned, speaking solely from a guy's POV (since that is what I is), yeah; not all guys are wired the same way.

There are guys that are not horn dogs that are looking to fuck anything in sight that is attractive to them - there are def guys that like the companionship aspect of a steady relationship and that seems to be what satisfies them.

But IMO most guys see women on a daily basis (work, store, etc) that they would like to jump their bones if they had the chance - SCs offer a way to almost instanteneously "jump the bones" of women you just laid your eyes on.

Along Subraman's analogy of porn - a lot of guys - one would venture to say most; like watching porn - tney may not do it as often as they would like for various reasons; but most probably do like watching it (might be the reason there are also some many webcam models) - as Subra mentioned the porn-watching motivation is pretty-much the SC-going motivation; it's just that for many guys:

+ they may not know what one can get in many but not all, SCs

+ they may not have the ability to go either b/c of the financial hit or familiy situation (e.g married; too busy w/ kids; etc)

+ and there are some guys that are not into paying women for their "companionship"


Having said this; IMO there are straight guys for whom SCs don't do that much for them and they like other types of interactoin - but for the most-part I think most guys that do not go to SCs is not b/c they are not horn-dogs but more b/c there are other circumstances; IMO.
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Papi_Chulo
9 years ago
I like to be in the company of girls that are always Winning!
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san_jose_guy
9 years ago
I made minor visits to strip clubs before I was married.

I like the environment, the women in high heels and makeup.

But then later as my marriage turned into a lethal trap, strip clubs was a way of staying sane until the marriage could be ended with my integrity in tact.

SJG
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JuiceBox69
9 years ago
Strip clubs is for boys

Massage parlor is for men
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san_jose_guy
9 years ago
^^^^^^^^^^^ :)

For me, with our restricted strip clubs, its just looking and talking.

But with Asian Massage Parlor's its been FS, and usually real nice GFE.

Again, some use before I was married. But once I was married, it was needed as a way of staying sane until the marriage could be ended with integrity.

SJG
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Papi_Chulo
9 years ago
I go for the tip-parade
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san_jose_guy
9 years ago
Its really just the women in high heels and makeup. If you disregard that, then the strip clubs offer nothing over civilian venues.

Not difficult to get a girl's cloths off of her. But the high heels and the makeup is something she has to do, and do deliberately.

Now true, where I am the strip clubs are just this visual and talking aspect. They aren't brothels. But there has never been any shortage of available civilians.

So again, it is the high heels and makeup, getting girls into that mode.

And then in the venues with mileage and a high portion of OTC girls, like the Mexican bar circuit, it is these girls who are just so highly sexualized, and who can be so easily induced into open tongue kissing and DFKing, along with all the pawing, right there on the main floor.

I believe a lot more guys are influenced by this dolling up aspect of it, than have learned to recognize this and talk about it directly.

SJG

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JohnSmith69
9 years ago
That's definitely why I go to strip clubs. I go to see women in makeup and high heels. its not like you can see that stuff anywhere else.
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Papi_Chulo
9 years ago
I go to listen to the DJ constantly talk over the music - and especially love it when he actually stops the music to do his one-man frustrated-comedian routine
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georgmicrodong
9 years ago
Pretty girls suck my dick and eat my cum. What's not to like?
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san_jose_guy
9 years ago
"its not like you can see that stuff anywhere else."

You can see it other places, but strip clubs are one of the places where it is more extreme and concentrated, and also the women are easier to engage with because they are getting paid.

But I like Viet Coffee and Civilian Discos too.

:)

SJG
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san_jose_guy
9 years ago
I like AMPs too. But only in some of them, and these are more in San Francisco where they have less concern about how conspicuous they are, does the high heels and makeup standard run so high.

SJG
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Corvus
9 years ago
I actually don't go to SCs for fun. I'm in the midst of a long term study of human female breasts and SCs are the best place to collect lots of data in a short time frame. This is a long term study, I expect it to take decades. In fact I will be collecting data until the day I leave this world.

All in the name of science of course.
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san_jose_guy
9 years ago
:)

SJG
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Papi_Chulo
9 years ago
I go to investigate the rampant human trafficking that occurs in strip clubs
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san_jose_guy
9 years ago
^^^^^ that's right, inspecting each dancer from stem to stern.

SJG
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san_jose_guy
9 years ago
I remember in San Mateo County when LE told the news paper that they "had 15 dancers under investigation." And what a difficult it is that LE sometimes has to do. As dancers would tell me, they were even bringing their own condoms.

In San Francisco, if LE told the new papers that they were investigating dancers, they'd be laughed out of town.

But then look at the coverage of recent events in Greenville SC, sounds similar, investigating dancers, treating them as a social menace.

SJG
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