You Guys are Disgusting
StarLight69
If you've ever given money to a stripper, you've probably given money to a girl or woman who has spent the last 20 minutes laughing at you, either with the other girls or on the inside. You buy a lap dance and inside she's criticizing you, laughing at you, mocking you. She's mocking what you’re wearing, how you’re speaking and everything about you.
When a man would pay me to give him a lap dance I would spend the entire time internally laughing at his breath, his pimples, his fat belly, anything and everything I could. These women hate you, and no amount of money you can give them will make them like you any more.
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i wouldn't go so far as to say they *hate* their customers, because i don't think they do, but i do think that strippers believe guys who frequent strip clubs are sort of creepy and they definitely aren't the type of guys that they would ever date/hook-up (with a few rare exceptions)
i don't care one way or the other, but that's just my thoughts on this topic
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We've discussed this a bunch of times. If anything, in the majority of cases, dancers have the upper hand in power -- taking advantage of lonely guys who need a little companionship.
I think you're probably not a troll, StarLight. If you're thinking about baseball bats with any frequency, then it may be time to look for another line of work.
men telling me what “nice tits” I had, or how they’d like to “bang that pussy”.
disgusting your teeth are, how horrible your breath is, what a stupid shirt you're wearing and how we'd like to run a cheese grater over your smug face, we're smiling and looking at you through submissive eyes as we robotically rub our bodies over yours. But that anger has to go somewhere doesn't it?
I have no problem with what you are thinking while giving dances and if you hate stripping so much I would recommend changing jobs as it will eat you up inside if that's how you feel. What actually does scare me is what that guy eating out of a box of chocolates on sniffers row is thinking as he stares at the dancers on stage, I do not even want to consider the possibilities.
maybe you need to find one of those Kink PLs that are into that stuff, I guess that would take care of some of that anger for you and both of you could be happy.
Be assured that the stripper you see hates you. She drowns her hatred in alcohol, or burns it in a cloud of pot smoke, but she’s still angry.
I've had men call me the most vile things imaginable and I've had them pay me to do the sort of degrading things I can't even talk about.
If you had a negative experience working with clubs, move on and start a recovery group or something- but you are responsible for your own self esteem, not us. We've heard the arguments before (Andrea Dwokin et al.) and you know whay I'm going to do? Order another beer and help another single mom on stage--- one dollar at a time!
This quickly can build up resentment that must be surpressed for the sake of the sale. In other words, it's very common for the salesperson to have a great hidden disdain for any client in a high variety of industries. This isn't unique to any field, and it is an inconvenient truth a client knows but happily ignores since their upper hand in the relationship allows them to play along and not have to worry about the sellers inner thoughts.
In this regards, stripping is no different than any other sales job. What you bring to the table in your original post us not unique to your industry and is not some great big secret to your clients. We know, we just don't care because it is our luxury to have the salesperson feign enjoyment of our company. As long as your disdain stays in your head and not in your actions and words, you're still more than welcome to help yourself to our money.
On the other hand, I thought I heard most strippers actually have free will and choose to strip. There seems to be a logic problem here.
I don't really care if strippers hate me as long as they can fake it well. It's all a fantasy after all. But I know several strippers very very well, and fortunately many of them are not as ill suited for the job or as psycho bat shit crazy as this one is.
I'll have to fly down to meet her and help her through her conflicted feelings about sex. I'm sure some vulture jizz will help her it. Squawk!
As far as hate goes about some bosses, I once heard "if he was on fire, I wouldn't even piss on him to put it out"
is something I heard where I last worked at. I did switch jobs away from there.
If you are serious, get help. If you ever want to discuss these topics in are meaningful way, let us know and stop with the baseless attacks
I am inclined to say troll because I don't think anyone serious would have put 69 at the end of her user name
I have on a daily basis customers that I have a hard time dealing with just as stsrlight claims. She is saying strippers "whore" themselves out and I do as well, although my whoring usually hurts my wallet and not my genitals. So really what's the difference? A stripper could get an STD, I could get a DUI entertaining customers.
If you can't take the heat get out of the kitchen, and take a lower paying mindless, no effort job, would be my best advice.
I was going to counter-troll with a suggestion that if she were looking for a sugar daddy or rich boyfriend she could post sexy pictures for us. If she really IS a 47 year old stripper, maybe instead I'll say we will pass on that picture. Relegate the old mini-van to the junkyard and catch a ride on a little red corvette.
I'm confused here so maybe u can enlighten me, Ms. Starlight!
https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=4…
But yet guys will do the same exact thing at a normal dance club or bar. Thinking they are gods gift to women. Yet she doesn't say one word about that.
I am sure she is a troll from some "human trafficking" type establishment. That thinks all women in the strip clubs are trafficked. which is bull shit!!!
For myself, I have always treated the dancers in strip clubs no differently than I would treat any other woman. Specifically I don't talk to them or otherwise related to them as prostitutes.
But as far as this forum, there is a great deal of pain in this world, more than enough to go around. So if you read the stuff people post, that is coming out.
You are entitled to your views. So welcome to TUSCL and please to keep on posting.
SJG
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If you need to do drugs or alcohol to handle the job, don't do it. Strippers choose customers all the time the way customers choose strippers. When a customer is air-danced or his hands are blocked, grabbed, and moved every time, or a stripper says "no touching" during a LD, or "im waiting for guest to come back" [lie] who has the upper hand? Its my choice to not ever spend $ again on that stripper, but it was her choice to be zero mileage.
Starlight.....please come back. All is forgiven.
Should we more respectful to them?
There is a line where there is nothing left to buy from a stripper if you remove all the "unrespectful" things. You can't buy a friend but you can buy physical things. I think SCs are more respectful than a regular nightclub where a middle aged balding man will buy the $3K bottle service bucket with a sparkler on it, and get some miniskirt skanks to sit next to him for an hour but they wont "go home" with him. In a SC, I know what I am buying, and I can get straight to the point. In a NC, I'd be out $1000s with no memories except girls taking drinks I bought them and walking away back to their other man or their gaggle of beta bitches http://hackthesystem.com/blog/cristal-no…
Who cares! Who cares what people say about you as a customer in general.
This goes for this websit, in the clubs and life in general.
You will always be judged.
I bet DoctorPhil will blame it on mikeya02 (aka me aka zipperhead aka Hugh_G._Rection aka rickthezoo).
Perhaps that's a clue regarding the identity of the man behind the troll! ;)
Usually from what I understand is that women always find a reason to critize somebody whether their in equal position or not. Yet the man paying your rent makes more than you so....does that make you jealous or bitter? Or both?
"When a man would pay me to give him a lap dance I would spend the entire time internally laughing at his breath, his pimples, his fat belly, anything and everything I could."
I know you know a lot of young hot studly, adonis looking, six pack abs having, muscly, well groomed, clean clothed gentlemen frequent the club these days. So when you critize him (because you did say y ou would laugh at anything you could), are you laughing at how nice he smells or how fancy his clothes are?
thoughtcatalog's anti-PL blog posts are often linked on TUSCL
https://archiveofthebitingbeaver.wordpre…
an ACTUAL troll https://encyclopediadramatica.se/BitingB…