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larryfisherman
California
The more I club, the more I'm not interested in the conversations with strippers.
Obviously they're gonna ask you for a dance at the end of the convo. I would prefer them just to get to the point. I would prefer a hello, how you are doing, how's your day's going, and then ask for the dance. It only takes a minute or two.
I'm not at the strip club to have long conversations, unless I'm tryna to take her home of course. I'm at the strip club to spend money. Not to be rude, but I could care less about your goals in life, and all this deep shit. Just ask me for the dance, and tell me how much it costs. Especially because you're gonna do that anyway after the long convo. Don't act like you're interested in me. I'm only gonna be here for a couple of hours, and I don't need 20 of those minutes being tied down talking to you.
Less talk and more action. I might be in the minority though.
Any of you prefer shorter conversations with strippers?
Obviously they're gonna ask you for a dance at the end of the convo. I would prefer them just to get to the point. I would prefer a hello, how you are doing, how's your day's going, and then ask for the dance. It only takes a minute or two.
I'm not at the strip club to have long conversations, unless I'm tryna to take her home of course. I'm at the strip club to spend money. Not to be rude, but I could care less about your goals in life, and all this deep shit. Just ask me for the dance, and tell me how much it costs. Especially because you're gonna do that anyway after the long convo. Don't act like you're interested in me. I'm only gonna be here for a couple of hours, and I don't need 20 of those minutes being tied down talking to you.
Less talk and more action. I might be in the minority though.
Any of you prefer shorter conversations with strippers?
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If I was a stripper, I would be more of the go around to every customer and ask "wanna dance?" Most guys want to get dances from you because you look good, not because you can hold a conversation.
It might just be me though.
At night, OTOH, they're probably in more of a hurry and don't want to spend long talking with one customer, so I'm more likely to get dances quickly. I'm not a fan of the "Wanna dance?" girls, so I want a little bit of convo, but I also won't take half an hour of a dancer's time if I don't plan to get dances from her.
A couple of times in the middle of conversations with strippers I mentioned without her mentioning that I wasn't getting any dances right now. Both of them kind of looked offended, and said something to the effect of, "I just wanted to talk." Lol, we all know that's Strippershit.
That is a excellent point K, I agree with that.
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...yes and it sets the stage wonderfully for her fake orgasm that follows, later.
i like sitting and talking with a girl for a while before getting down to business
Let me just focus on two angles by which you might come to see things differently:
1. You say you don't want to spend time talking to girls unless you plan to take them home with you. You posted a while back about one who did come to your home the night you first met her, and about how awesome that was. So why not seek out those girls whom you would want to take home with you, and then spend time, money, and energy trying to make it go that way, instead of engaging with those who hold less interest for you.
2. You said that the girls try to talk and that you know they are just going to ask you if you want a dance. Well how about showing a little bit of understanding for them, and that they are trying to earn a living in a competitive and emotionally demanding environment. If they just sat and waited until guys approached them, they would not make any money. So they approach guys. But this does not mean that you have to engage with them in the way that they approach you. You can take the lead and try to steer it other ways. They want to make money. But it does not need to be in the dance booth or the VIP room. You can feed them money in the front room and there should be no house cut. And then in talking to them, you can lead the conversation. If you find a girl you really like and do want to take home with you, you can really come on to her. And then with physical interaction, with most of the more desirable clubs, you can get a way with a great deal in the front room. In the front room there is no fixed time and money formula, so you can lead it with her. You can make it go the way you want, and then when your pants need to come down, end up in the back room with her or taking her to your own bed. Just because they will approach you using a certain formula, that does not mean that you can't take the lead and steer it a different direction.
Enjoy
SJG
I prefer getting right to it...I only need about 5-10 minutes to scope who I really like and feel like it's a waste of my time to go through motions when I already know I want you or don't.
On the flip, I find it annoying to agree to a dance and the dancer wants to spend more time chatting during the dance I'm paying for than actually dancing. Kinda goes back to my point in not wanting to pay a chick to talk...lol!
The lap dance by comparison was pretty typical. After the 2-for-1 I told her that I actually liked what we had been doing before the lap dance, but she just sat there, apparently thinking any money potential had ended and after a couple of minutes, she went off to work the room. If I had it to do over, I would have offered her at least the cost of the lap dance less the house cut.
I agree with what MrDeuce said about conversation can build sexual tension. I enjoy so I tip her / compensate her for it.
My current is great at conversation and GFE.
1. I don't go to the club looking to get laid.
2. I don't just look for the prettiest girl in the club and pay her for my dances. In an air dance club that would make sense to me. But in contact clubs most of the arousal and enjoyment cums from other attributes.
Sure, I need to find her attractive, but a lot of things go into what I'm looking for. And a brief conversion beforehand is the only way to find out if I'm interested in spending my money on her. Fun personality, no major drug or BF drama, willingness if not an outright desire to please, sexy not necessarily beautiful,...
Within a couple of minutes of talking I get a vibe or I don't. I have no problem telling her at that point if I plan on having dances with her. Not much time investment lost and usually no hard feelings.
SCs are speed dating, but with guaranteed no marriage or exclusiveness talk.
"SCs are speed dating, but with guaranteed no marriage or exclusiveness talk.."
if only this were true. I can't count the number of dancers that think they owned me and expected me to be exclusive to them.
Stop bragging!!!
That is exactly how I am.