turn down a ROB "I can't take you to VIP if you have a BF"

It's all semantics. You're trying to turn SS into logical conversation and it won't work. She's trying to rip you off and nothing except "goodbye" will change that.

Jeez, nearly every dancer has a BF or husband. Irrelevant if they're more money motivated than monogamy motivated. If you don't want to go to VIP, don't be a cunt about it, just say frickin' no.

Agree with chili. You don't need an excuse to turn them down. Just say no.

If you turn down the ones with boyfriends, you will end up with the ones whose grandmothers go to church with the bouncer.

wtf just say no, "just got here need to finish my drink, maybe later"

to me going to vip means sex. I like negotiate the price before going upstairs. As VIP I get in VIP free. I am in control not them. I fuked a Cali girl from Cover Girls for 200 otc. she tried get me do her in vip itc for 300, made counter offer 200 otc she accepted.;. over a period of a few months saw her at motel every two weeks around pd at 200 a throw. she basically escort recruiting clients at sc - probably rotating about 5-6 guys on reg basis.

I don't give a fuk if they have bf. I saw a stripper for 8 years. Met her when engaged fuking her otc at motel 200 and itc at club 100 about every week. when she got married fuked her too and by that time she no longer stripper but would give me nude lap dances at sessions b4 sex. sessions came down to 120.. if you think they not fuking somebody besides u yer a stupid shit.

I am VIP at extras club. I have x strpper mistress at 120.otc I get in vip free, sure I will take them upstairs but limit to 2 dances bc pussy wb 200-300 and have SB for less.....

One favorite is dropped off and picked up by her boyfriend every day.
She is either a terrible driver or he has trust issues. Years ago one ex favorite told me that most of the girls dancing have boyfriends. I just assume all the girls who dance for me have boyfriends.
Most hot women aren't single for long.

Dude. S88 read this: Chili Palmer has described a method (and maybe method is too much of a word) for buying dances and getting mileage. He wrote it in the Strip Club Junkies forum (the customer side of StripperWeb). It works. Basically: (1) you buy a dance. (2) you get mileage. (3) if you get mileage, you buy more dances. Rinse & Repeat with a new dancer. Tip $10, $20, or $40 depending on mileage and services rendered. $40 is the "asshole tax." That's it. Leave the club when you get your fill or you spend through you budget. If the hottie doesn't give you what you want, you stop after 1-2 dances. If the hottie is a ROB: she doesn't deliver as promised; over counts dancers, over charges, asks for a tip. Then you pay her, make a note, and never buy from her again. It's very straightforward and avoids all the drama you get. IMO. I am not sure what you are trying to accomplish with the passive aggressive tactics. Just be polite but straightforward. I'd read CP's old posts at SCJ forum, if I were you. I learned a lot from his old posts.

+1 Dominic. Well argued!

@Dominic77 These are ex-favs I spent alot on in the past and they did what I wanted, but they turned off the spout and I have ignored them for months, but they are circling back because Im in the same club, taking new faces to VIP all the time, and they miss my $.

@Dominic77 That is what I do assuming I have a CF. But CFs either retire from stripping, or suddenly turn off the spout on me. One ex-fav told me I am needy, I come too often for VIP, and I am cheap (my tips are too low and they didn't increase with time) and she wont do anything but grinding anymore. She did unban herself and go back her regular VHM and I tipped her as I always did, but I choose not to repeat since it was too fake/high stress in VIP.

@Dominic77: Thanks for the shout-out. Totally forgot about that old post.

@s88: So, you're basically confirming that you're a dancer's worst nightmare: needy and cheap (if you're also smelly, then that would be the triple crown of pathetic customer-ness). You really have to ask why they started treating you like shit, or refusing to do OTC?

Get some self-awareness, stop staring at "your" dancers when they give other customers lapdances (I guarantee you do this) and chill out in the club. It's so much easier and fun that way.

CP

Clubs are set up to let girls and the club make money. So the rules are different.

If you can see her outside, much better. If you can get her off the clock, but maybe start keeping her, even better.

SJG