UPDATE: HELP!!! :( I like a dancer but not sure if she like me or not

IDK, on the surface it looks like to me you are beating a dead-horse - it shouldn't be that hard to get together w/ a chick if she wants to or is sincerely interested - personally I think you're being played as "the damsel in financial distress" is more than a common stripper hustle

You shouldn't have to jump thru so many hoops to get w/ a chick even less-so if it's P4P, either find a civvy that wants to genuinely go out w/ you or find a better P4P dancer

@papi_chulo I wouldn't mind spending on her what I would normally in the club if I could hit it a little.

She likes your money and is playing you in a long con.

My point is you are having to jump thru too many hoops - and you may be a little fixated on her making you ripe to getting taken advantage of & played, this happens all the time w/ inexperienced SCers

Have to agree with Papi. Girls who are interested in a guy don't go that long without contacting him. She gave you some lame excuse for not calling. She knows your interest level because you keep calling. I expect she will string you along as long as you keep treating her as a possible girlfriend. She doesn't see you as boyfriend material.

Time to move on1. Sounds like typical SS.

She has you on the hook and is playing with you. What part of she only wants your money don't you understand.

If she wanted to get to know you or hang out with you she would have responded or initiated contact with you. Moreover, she didn't even bite when you mentioned you might could help her out in her situation. Find several strippers and just know it's mostly business, then you won't be worrying this that and the other about just one.

It's time to move on. She might contact you a few weeks/months or years from now when she has some need. Right now, she has clearly other things going on that don't involve you.

Maybe she found a sugar daddy, maybe she has a new boyfriend who doesn't even want her stripping, etc. If you're still wanting to go the stripper route, you could surely rebound to another from this rebound stripper. Or maybe you could just find a real girl. ;)

Unless I'm reading this wrong, I think OP is fully aware that this is P4P. He is not delusional about this becoming a bf/gf relationship.

She should be back working at the strip club not the grocery store though.

(I don't know why she swallowed the fly... perhaps she'll die!)

I think it's easier to get out of the friend-zone with a civvie than to get out of the PL-zone with a stripper.

@Bavarian, the grocery store thing sounds like a typical implausible story. I haven't heard of a stripper getting fired from a club and not going to work at another one.

If she were so hard up for cash that she were signing up for overtime shifts at a grocery store making $18/hr instead of $12, she would probably jump at the chance to get with a guy she has already been with to supplement her income.

You've got to make her respect you man. Squawk!

Tell her that she WILL like your cloaca until you jizz in her mouth. Then she will swallow your jizz. Squawk!

That how I treat female hairless apes and it always works. Squawk!

Like ppwh said, it's possible she has a new boyfriend or an ex came back in her life. I just find it very odd that she is not back in the strip club if she is so stressed out about money. A boyfriend would be OK with her working as a a stripper as long as she is not fucking customers.

From what she has told me she doesn't really work at the club unless she knows she's gonna be short financially. Like I said before I don't think she is the smartest girl but I don't think she's all the dum either. I don't really expect a relationship out if this but I would like to hit it once or twice more and if it turns into something else awesome if not no big deal. When I told her I might be able to help if we could work something out. Did I make it clear enough what that means?

As far as her love life she has told me she was dating her roommate/best friend. Happens to be a girl but says they get along better as friends so one is trying to move out.

Fuck you jackie

Dancers only like your money. Believe me. You unfortunately happen to be the middle man she has to deal with to get it.

Igoham, not sure if what you said is clear enough, maybe you should hire a skywriter to write it in the air over her house ;)

Seriously, though, she might text you in a couple/few weeks saying how she needs $200 or so for something and try to set up a meeting where you hand it to her and then both walk off in separate directions.

It will definitely be for something really important, though. Strippers' dogs swallow chocolate all the time and they usually need to meet up with a guy on the way to the emergency vet for money.

Go take a shit. You will feel lots smarter

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